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Interesting article It shows hotwifing as a growing tendence. Plus now it is something apearing in mainstream media.

How to transform her into a hotwife.

Practice tip # 2.

Use Porn — Gifs and clips to explore the boundaries of her sexuality.

This is gonna sound worst than it is but teasing out the inner hotwife in your woman will likely require a little bit of mild manipulation on your part. Remember, she has grown up in a judeo -Christian society that stigmatizes sex and neuters it of its pleasure and creativity. It’s a shame that men can walk around in public shirtless showing off washboard abs, hard pecs, and chiseled biceps, but if a woman puts on a form fitting dress and some heels she’s considered a whore. Don’t get me started. I digress.

My point with this lesson is porn will be one of the most important tools for you to use to transform your girl into a hotwife. In this lesson you will use porn ostensibly to ask her opinion about sex but covertly you will be leading her to exploring her sexual boundaries and more importantly causing her to explore them as well. You will also, and here is where the slight manipulation comes in, use porn to normalize sexual behavior that you like by suggesting everyone is doing it. For example by using gifs and clips that show anal sex, sloppy BJs, threesomes, etc., if done correctly overtime, you will not only pique her curiosity but in some cases work her into a frenzy wanting to try it. Be careful what you wish for because once she decides it’s something she really wants to experience she may do it with or without you!!

How is this done? It’s easy really. You should start to collect short clips and Gifs that demonstrate the kinds of sexual experiences that you want to open her up to. You should also collect photos of popular celebrity women, especially her favorites dressed provocatively. You will use the images you collect sporadically to not only learn what she likes and is open to do, but more importantly introduce her to new experiences and behaviors that go beyond her comfort zone. Your goal here is not to force her to do something she’s not comfortable with. Your goal here is to enlarge her comfort zone so that she is engaging in new behaviors willingly and passionately.

My ex used this technique on me. I never saw it coming and only realized it was part of a plan long after we had broken up. I had actually considered a threesome in my head because I have a hot girlfriend who told me she got drunk one night and did it with two guys. She said it was cool. I was intrigued but I didn’t tell her and I certainly would not have told my BF. It was a secret that I was too ashamed to admit or even think much about because I didn’t want to be considered a slut. However, after my boyfriend used this technique on me, not only was I admitting to him that I wanted two dicks but I was tellling him while sucking his cock and pumping a dildo in my pussy. It took time to get there but it started with him sending one gif of a hot girl getting spit roasted by two guys. He captioned with “whoa. This is hot”. He didn’t ask me to respond to it but by captioning it the way he did he removed all negative judgment by letting me know he liked it and it turned him on.

Over time he would occasionally send threesome gifs followed by questions that sometimes had nothing to do with the sex. He might refer to her clothing, shoes or hair I.e “I could see you with that haircut” or “she kinda looks like you”. He deftly put me in the scene. His comments caused me to imagine myself in her position. He also would make a lot of positive comments about the girl like “she’s a boss” or “she has a lot of confidence to do that” Jis comments were designed to make me see the woman in a positive light. I remember him asking me once what I thought it would feel like to have all that stimulation happening to my body at the same time. That question really resonated with me. His technique got me thinking more and more about threesomes. Not just thinking about them but believing that all confident, good looking girls were doing it. I began feeling left out and the thought of my hot friend being with two guys certainlybdidnt hurt my BF’s efforts. It wasn’t long before I opened up and started commenting back on the gifs and clips. I even kept a few I really liked and used them to masturbate to.

Porn is a versatile tool and can be used to advance your goal of making a hot wife in other ways too. I may address those uses in a future post. No go out and start dragging the inner slit out of your demure girl next door.

Muy buena publicación, gracias.

Mi inicio en el mundo cornudo

No sé de donde nació la idea de compartir a mi esposa, pero cuando veo porno y veo a todas esas parejas amateur gozando y disfrutando, me vuelve loco la idea de verla gozando de la misma manera ( y yo tambien disfrutando su placer). Tal vez sea el morbo, no lo sé, pero algo es indiscutible, la seguridad de poder imaginar y compartir mis deseos con ella, es por la confianza tan solida que tenemos en nuestro matrimonio, además del amor y paciencia que tenemos en nuestra vida día a día. Esta base me da la seguridad de compartir con ella mis fantasías deseos. El día que le confesé estos profundos deseos, fue Super el saber que ella se encontraba tan nerviosa como yo al compartir lo suyo, pero nos unió más, y confirme mucho de lo que ya había leído al respecto en varios blogs, este mundo swinger cornudo hotwife o como quieran llamarle, no viene a arreglar nada, sólo hace más fuerte y sólido lo que ya existe.

En estos momentos nos encontramos compartiéndonos imágenes, fantasías, el cómo sería, y es riquísimo sentir esos orgasmos liberados de deseos con tu pareja.

Los dejo y agradezco su preciado tiempo. Escribiré luego.

Saludos !

Thanks for sharing this great advice!

The dangers of the lifestyle

Many ask how to begin living this lifestyle; often, how to convince the wife. My answer is always the same: don’t.

I want to use the perfect words I found online time ago (here http://bit.ly/2wRyUEv , all credits due to the original poster):

When me & my long term girlfriend were thinking about this, both of us were incredibly turned on physically about it, but she just would not take the final step because of the emotional dangers. She said because we men can easily separate the physical & emotional we don’t understand that very few women can, and the same thing that makes them lust for a man in bed (which is what guys in this situation want) is the same thing that makes her become emotionally attached to him.

My partner’s last words on the subject were ‘if we go through with this, you will lose me emotionally, and once you’ve lost me emotionally, the physical won’t be far behind, and then it will be the beginning of the end.’

This is so very true.

Over the years, I witnessed so many times the same pattern. Of all the other couples we met living the lifestyle, from cuckolds to hotwives, every possible variation on the theme, I can say ALL split. All but one: the one where both partners were already living the style before meeting.

All the couples that began experimenting together, eventually broke up. The change in the bond between them, which silently grows over time, in the end destroyed them as a couple.

The woman feels less and less 'bound’ to her man, and she usually starts feeling emotions for someone else. It’s almost like breaking the physical limitation opens a breach in her emotions.

The man is pulled towards a spiral of personal fantasies, growing detached not only from his woman, but from her desires and wishes. In divergent directions, he usually loses the capacity to listen to her, and he doesn’t ultimately notice that she’s slowly slipping away.

So, here’s my advice. If it’s a shared fantasy, something both partners were willing to try for a long time, you’ll find the way to try. Internet offers plenty of options. In all other cases, don’t ever try to convince her or him; in the end it will destroy her or him, and you as a couple.

Great advice

We're young, and I really do think she's the one, but that makes me worried I'd ruin things by being open about wanting to see her fuck someone else. I know it's kind of contradictory, like if we are meant to be our relationship should be fine after experimenting with sharing, but it's still tough getting the balls to admit it to her.

Most hotwife blogs will tell you not to go through with it given those feelings, but this is not a hotwife blog. I think a little bit of jealousy is hot. And when two dudes are grunting away like a couple of cavemen to satisfy one vixen, I think it’s arousing.

So you don’t want to look weak right? Trust me, if you say something like,

“I think it would be hot competing for you against other alpha males. I would love to prove to you why you married me over and over again. I like the thought of putting you on a pedestal and I feel a flutter of excitement and jealousy when I catch guys looking at you.”

Now stop being a pussy and go eat your wife’s.

#want to share her

Great and usefull one

Genial aportación; mil gracias.

El antro

Soy una mujer casada y con dos hijos Mi marido Es un hombre muy trabajador y tiene su propria empresa donde en el trabajo el Es muy profesional y creo que eso le stressa. En la Casa Es muy buen padre y le encanta sexo. Nuestra vida sexual Es buena pero tenemos limitaciones pues con niños no Es fácil. Tengo un buen cuerpo y me gusta sentirme bien con la ropa que pongo, mi esposo siempre que vamos a salir, me pide que me vista con ropas apretadas o bien cortas. Siempre me pidio que vistiera sexy para salir y habla que mi culo y piernas hace parar a la pinga cualquiera. Hace meses dejamos los ninos con una ninera y fuimos a tomar unas copas y me puse bien caliente por el clima y el tambien donde me dijo que tenias muchas fantasias comigo que una de ellas era que alguien nos mirara haciendo el amor. no soy muy fantasiosa pero eso me excito, tampoco siento la confianza de hablar de eso pues era algo nuevo entre nosotros otro día cuando que hacíamos el amor el me dijo cosas en el oido que al inicio me molestaba, el me decía que quisiera metérmela en cuatro mientras mamo la verga a otro. me pareció raro en ese momento pero con el tiempo hable con varias otras mujeres y percibí que eso era bien normal claro nunca he comentado a ellas sobre mi marido y sus fantasias pero he escuchado que a ellas sus maridos son asi y que les encanta, desafortunada aquellas que tienen maridos celosos a punto de no dejarte vestir sexy. Un dia fuimos en una disco y me vesti como mi marido me pide solamente por complacerlo, me puse un vestido bien corto, tacones y un maquillage bien lindo que cuando me vio no lo creia. Al llegar en la disco percebi la mirada de varios hombres y me digo que eso le excito, Mi marido y yo tomabamos drinks yo le calientaba la verga al ritmo de la musica, bailando bien sexy. Habia mas parejas bailando como nosotros, yo le dije que me gustaba la disco y allí habia personas bonitas, al pasar del tiempo nos emborrachamos y mi marido me dice en el oído y te reto a quedarte sola bailando por un tiempo mientras yo voy al baño y a comprar unas bebidas, y me confesó que le encantaria verme provocar la erecion de un desconocido en la disco con mis nalgas y yo le dije que no jugaras con fuego pues estoy bien caliente. El volvio a insistir que eso lo excitaría mucho. Me dejo solo y yo me quede bailando sola como soltera en la disco y 15 minutos se pasaron y nada de mi marido , cuando miro estaba el tomando su drink mirandome sola y me hace una senal con una sonrisa picosa como que preguntándome donde esta el show? Entonces decidi seguir el juego y 5 minutes despues percibo un hombre bien parecido bailando como que acercando a mi y me empezaron a sudar las manos y pensé que hago? Mi adrenalina subio al cielo pero bailando lo deje acercar y pase la nalga sobre su verga gruesa y bien parada y mire a mi esposo que me miraba atónico donde me dejo bailando con el desconocido y debo decir que realmente eso fue super rico y yo estaba asustada por no saber la reaccion de mi marido pero a la vez super mojada por la situacion. Luego deje el hombre ahí, le agradecí al amigo al final de la canción, el me detuvo y me dijo soy Roberto eres una chica muy sexy me gustaría conocerte más, eres muy linda fui a donde mi esposo estaba y beso y volvimos a bailar toda calenturienta yo nunca había sentido tal aventura y al oído me dijo mi esposo que estaba muy excitado con lo que vio, yo le sentía la verga más rígida que nunca, al pasar tiempo mi esposo todo excitado ya estaba muy borracho pues tomo de más estaba muy borracho para manejar camino a la casa así que me lleve el carro, y en el camino sobre la carretera estaba el amigo con quien había bailado estaba parado a la orilla de la carretera su carro se había averiado, y como mi esposo estaba tan borracho ya se había dormido, decidí acercarme al amigo Roberto y ofrecí llevarlo, gustosamente subió, íbamos los tres en el carro y mi esposo dormidito yo toda nerviosa sin saber si había hecho bien o mal solo esperaba que no se despertara mi esposo, voltie por el retrovisor y Roberto se sobaba la verga , a lo que dije que dejara de hacer eso o que no se me iba antojar, después de un rato seguimos en camino hasta llegar a su destino el cual le pedí que se bajara él se bajó y al despedirse me dio un tremendo beso que no me di cuenta y tomo la llaves del carro y me comento que no me las iba a iba a dar a menos que le diera otro beso, me baje un poco temerosa a pedírselas ya que mi esposo podía despertarse en cualquier momento, accedí a darle el beso, solo que ahora fue un tremendo beso de esos que te dan ganas de coger y yo con mi vestidito zapatillas toda cachonda, deje que me manoseara todita ya estaba toda excitada y fuera de control y a lo que yo pensaba era que mi esposo así lo hubiera querido, Roberto me volteo me bajo mi tanga y comenzó a penetrarme con una enorme herramienta que pegue un grito a lo que voltie a ver a mi esposo entre el carro y ya estaba despierto con su verga de fuera y masturbándose, me puse más caliente porque ya no había limitaciones pero si pena a lo que fuimos detrás del carro donde me hizo suya completita, Roberto parecía que no había cogido en meses me cogía bien rico incluso me cargo a dos manos detrás del carro y seguir penetrándome bien rico se la mame completa y también me la mamo incluso hasta mi anito me chupaba así bien rico, me quiso dar por mi ano pero estaba muy cerrada y me dolió mucho a lo que insistió mucho y sin querer ya estaba dentro era un joven todo loco con todo el poder y con un fuerte empujón me dio toda su leche por mi ano con dolor y placer grite, al terminar me dijo que le encanto conocerme más y que ojala se repitiera y me dio una nalgada de despedida y se metió a su casa yo toda adolorida y con toda la leche aun dentro busque mis zapatillas me acomode el vestido y por cierto no encontré mi tanga, me subi al carro, y no traia interiores y el todo emocionado y con la verga de fuera hasta que llegamos a la casa hicimos sexo y el me perguntaba se a mi me gusto lo que hice y yo le hablaba que me encanto sentir la pinga del desconocido en mi interior. Luego en el otro dia pense que mi marido me iba cobrar lo que hize pero al contrario toda vez cuando tenemos sexo dice que quiere repetir lo de la vez pasada y eso me vuelve loca. Ya le hablo de fantasias y Siempre planeamos algo morboso donde el me pueda exibir para otros hombres. Descobri que a el le encanta y excita y a mi igual pues yo soy la estrella en todas las fantasias, ya me he desinhibido y varias hemos hecho cosas como ir a un hotel y pedir una pizza y yo atender la puerta solo de toalla donde el entregador me mire y ya llegue a dejar caer la toalla, mi marido Mira de un rincon donde no lo ven. Eso paso a ser algo mio y de el , un secreto solo de nosotros dos lejos de la sociedad. Amo mi marido pues percebi que amar no es de celos pero si confianza, decidi que vamos a un resort swinger a mirar y entender pues tengo un marido amigo y hago toda las picardillas por el y el por mi. Bueno espero que yo alla ayudado parejas en la misma situacion y les digo a las mujeres no pierdan tiempo en su morbo, si tienen un marido como el mio, lo disfrutes pues somos muy afortunadas pues estos no estan buscando mujeres por ahi pues nosotras somos sus fantasías

Interesting note

How come u guys don't get jealous? When I truly love and value someone I don't want to share them. And it'd offend me if my lover didn't love me enough to feel the same way.

Unfortunately that’s a hard question to answer. If you’re not a swinger it’s hard to explain how it feels. We were the same. People would tell us that it brought you closer together and made you love each other more. That was incomprehensible to us how watching someone else with your partner could possibly be a good thing. But we eventually found ourselves in that situation and they were right! Our bond got stronger! Our sex was better! It was a turn on watching each other give and receive pleasure! It’s progressed to a stage now that we swap partners and sleep with them in separate rooms for the night. Then we swap stories the next day and have amazing sex!

Your blog gets me sooooo wet. I’ve always loved the thought of banging multiple dudes. Then my hubby admitted to wanting to share me and when I asked how long he said he’d never even been interested in wife sharing until he met me and that turns me on in itself. Trying to work up the courage to post a pic of my big pierced tits on here and see how many guys would be willing to fuck me ;)

Some women are naturally sluttier than others. These women have a high libido and can basically have anything they want once they realize the power of their pussy. Your husband realized this and put you on a pedestal fast. He wants a HotWife not a cheating wife.

And yes, show us your tits, but also show us that freshly fucked pussy once in awhile so we know you’re not all talk.

#slut confession 

Great advice

Thank you

Hi!!! As a couple, were you always at the same page... Specially in sex?? If not, what do you think is a good thing to bring back "that" feeling?

We have been together for over two decades, so we have been all over the pages at times. The thing that keep us getting to same page is open communication and really listening what the other has to say. We try to focus on our common goal = to be together and have awesome sex. Basic things like instead of judging the other, we tell what our needs are and really listening when the other is expressing them. Good exercise is to sit with an eye contact and ask the other “tell me in two minutes how you want be loved” and then just listen and then you switch turns. The book that we have mentioned several times in our blog “Tantric Secrets for Men: What Every Woman Will Want Her Man to Know about Enhancing Sexual Ecstasy” by Kerry Riley. has played a big part in getting back to “that feeling” and way beyond. It is not just about sexual ecstasy, but it has helped a lot on the communication and connection. Communication and Connection equals better and more frequent sex. ;) We usually make love two to three times a day, because we love each other and really enjoy to intimate connection. - Sunshine and SexMagic