Interesting Article It Shows Hotwifing As A Growing Tendence. Plus Now It Is Something Apearing In Mainstream
Interesting article It shows hotwifing as a growing tendence. Plus now it is something apearing in mainstream media.
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I recently discovered your blog, and love it!. I was just wondering; how do you get in to the lifestyle? How does it started? (Hotwifing is actualy my most erotic fantasy) Thanks for sharing :-) And congrats for being a beuatiful, stable couple for so long.
Thank you!! We got into the lifestyle innocently partying with another couple in our hottub. Things just kind of happened, The girls starting flashing and making out and me and the other hubby joined. We had never had a conversation about before then. We continued to soft swap with the couple several times until we got tired of the drunk fest it had become and the drama between the other couple. However, we did enjoy the excitement of it and I found it a huge turn on when she was with the other hubby. So, I started looking for straight single males that wanted to play with couples on Craigslist and actually found our first victim. It was a huge turn on and the guy suggested some Swinger Websites that we should join. We joined and started going to parties and events to meet people and played on cam in the website chat room. We played with some couples but mostly MFM.
Muy buena publicación, gracias.
Mi inicio en el mundo cornudo
No sé de donde nació la idea de compartir a mi esposa, pero cuando veo porno y veo a todas esas parejas amateur gozando y disfrutando, me vuelve loco la idea de verla gozando de la misma manera ( y yo tambien disfrutando su placer). Tal vez sea el morbo, no lo sé, pero algo es indiscutible, la seguridad de poder imaginar y compartir mis deseos con ella, es por la confianza tan solida que tenemos en nuestro matrimonio, además del amor y paciencia que tenemos en nuestra vida día a día. Esta base me da la seguridad de compartir con ella mis fantasías deseos. El día que le confesé estos profundos deseos, fue Super el saber que ella se encontraba tan nerviosa como yo al compartir lo suyo, pero nos unió más, y confirme mucho de lo que ya había leído al respecto en varios blogs, este mundo swinger cornudo hotwife o como quieran llamarle, no viene a arreglar nada, sólo hace más fuerte y sólido lo que ya existe.
En estos momentos nos encontramos compartiéndonos imágenes, fantasías, el cómo sería, y es riquísimo sentir esos orgasmos liberados de deseos con tu pareja.
Los dejo y agradezco su preciado tiempo. Escribiré luego.
Saludos !
Thanks for sharing this great advice!
The dangers of the lifestyle
Many ask how to begin living this lifestyle; often, how to convince the wife. My answer is always the same: don’t.
I want to use the perfect words I found online time ago (here http://bit.ly/2wRyUEv , all credits due to the original poster):
When me & my long term girlfriend were thinking about this, both of us were incredibly turned on physically about it, but she just would not take the final step because of the emotional dangers. She said because we men can easily separate the physical & emotional we don’t understand that very few women can, and the same thing that makes them lust for a man in bed (which is what guys in this situation want) is the same thing that makes her become emotionally attached to him.
My partner’s last words on the subject were ‘if we go through with this, you will lose me emotionally, and once you’ve lost me emotionally, the physical won’t be far behind, and then it will be the beginning of the end.’
This is so very true.
Over the years, I witnessed so many times the same pattern. Of all the other couples we met living the lifestyle, from cuckolds to hotwives, every possible variation on the theme, I can say ALL split. All but one: the one where both partners were already living the style before meeting.
All the couples that began experimenting together, eventually broke up. The change in the bond between them, which silently grows over time, in the end destroyed them as a couple.
The woman feels less and less 'bound’ to her man, and she usually starts feeling emotions for someone else. It’s almost like breaking the physical limitation opens a breach in her emotions.
The man is pulled towards a spiral of personal fantasies, growing detached not only from his woman, but from her desires and wishes. In divergent directions, he usually loses the capacity to listen to her, and he doesn’t ultimately notice that she’s slowly slipping away.
So, here’s my advice. If it’s a shared fantasy, something both partners were willing to try for a long time, you’ll find the way to try. Internet offers plenty of options. In all other cases, don’t ever try to convince her or him; in the end it will destroy her or him, and you as a couple.
Great advice
We're young, and I really do think she's the one, but that makes me worried I'd ruin things by being open about wanting to see her fuck someone else. I know it's kind of contradictory, like if we are meant to be our relationship should be fine after experimenting with sharing, but it's still tough getting the balls to admit it to her.
Most hotwife blogs will tell you not to go through with it given those feelings, but this is not a hotwife blog. I think a little bit of jealousy is hot. And when two dudes are grunting away like a couple of cavemen to satisfy one vixen, I think it’s arousing.
So you don’t want to look weak right? Trust me, if you say something like,
“I think it would be hot competing for you against other alpha males. I would love to prove to you why you married me over and over again. I like the thought of putting you on a pedestal and I feel a flutter of excitement and jealousy when I catch guys looking at you.”
Now stop being a pussy and go eat your wife’s.
#want to share her
Are you ready for an open relationship?
More and more couples are experimenting with having an open relationship - basically, a relationship where each partner is allowed to have other sexual partners outside the relationship. Open relationships are different from polyamorous relationships; typically, in an open relationship, the couple remains emotionally committed to each other and only allows sexual, non-romantic relationships outside of that couple. Open relationships can be a means to cope with long distance, avoid boredom, or just add some variety to your sex life. They work well for some people, but they do require extra communication if they’re going to work. If you and your partner are thinking about opening up your relationship, there are some important questions that the two of you need to discuss first. Namely:
Are both of you equally on board with opening the relationship? Or does one partner feel pressured into agreeing with it because they don’t want to lose the relationship? It’s okay if you’re both nervous or hesitant, but if one person is on board and the other one isn’t, that’s a recipe for disaster.
What are you hoping to get out of an open relationship? Why is this arrangement better for you? It’s okay if you both have different answers, but you should both be getting some benefit out of this. Neither of you should feel like you’re only tolerating this for your partner’s sake.
How much do you want to know about each other’s hookups? Do you have to notify your partner in advance when you’re going to hook up with someone? Do they want to hear the details? Or would they prefer not to know anything about it at all?
Are you allowed to hook up with people your partner knows, and vice versa? Are mutual friends off the table? Are you allowed to hook up with casual acquaintances, or people within your social circles? Or total strangers only?
Is your partner allowed to “veto” certain people that you might hook up with, and vice versa? Are there any potential hookups that are totally off the table? Do you have to give your partner a chance to veto a hookup beforehand?
Are you allowed to see the same person repeatedly outside of the relationship? Or is there a one-night-stand only rule?
Are you allowed to hook up with people within the same zip code? Some open arrangements only allow for hookups when one partner goes out of town.
How are you going to make sure that you’re both being safe and avoiding disease? Are condoms mandatory? Will you both agree to get tested regularly? The answer to both questions should be yes, but it’s important that you both understand how important it is.
What happens if one of you develops feelings for someone else? Do you have to tell your partner about it? Or just stop seeing the other person?
Is there an end date to the open relationship? Are you only open when you’re apart? Are you going to test this out for a “trial period” and then reassess if you like it? Are you going to continue to be open if/when you move in together, get married or have children?
What happens if one person wants to close the relationship? Does one person wanting to close the relationship mean it’s closed? Or do you both have to agree before that happens?
Are you going to tell people that you’re in an open relationship? How? Are there certain people that you aren’t going to tell, like parents or grandparents?
Are you going to be okay if your partner has an easy time finding partners and you don’t? Or vice versa? Many people opening up their relationships assume that both partners will have an equally easy time finding people to hook up with, and this is definitely not always the case.
This seems like a lot of questions and a lot of logistics, but the more you communicate beforehand, and the clearer your boundaries and ground rules are, the more likely you are to have a successful open relationship. An open relationship is supposed to be fun, but that’s not possible if one or both of you is wallowing in hurt feelings. Communicate your needs openly, and don’t be afraid to speak up if there’s a line you absolutely don’t want crossed.
This deserve to be readen
I like all of the "kinks" you explore on your blog and tend to agree with you about how they are natural and evolutionary advantageous. I would love my wife to partake in bareback with some else than me, group sex, multiple partners, threesome, and double vaginal-however, there are also evolutionary reasons why culture has developed to limit these tendencies-STDs-viruses, bacteria, & other microorganisms! An argument can be made that prudish cultural norms took hold to limit our cheating urges.
Real talk for a minute. You should be getting tested, and verifying that the partners you hook up are tested too.
Most clinics have an online portal so you really just need to go in, pee in a cup, and let them draw some blood. It’s not expensive and you can screenshot the results to prove you’re clean. Women can often just request these tests when they go in for their pap smear.
If your future fuck buddy doesn’t want to get tested then they are either dirty, broke, or lazy.
Bareback is better, but I don’t play roulette with my health.
#get tested or GTFO
Great post.
If you may ever ask if there is an undelying reason for hotwifing.
Why do I find slutty women so attractive?
This was from an email that was submitted here.
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I was wondering if you met anyone like me. I am in my 20′s and single and only attracted to hotwives or promiscusous “bad girls.” I have no intention of settling down but I definitely don’t want a monogamous girl when I do.
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Dear anon,
Have I met other guys who only like promiscuous women?
Yes.
It’s actually pretty common. I’ll post my sources below.
Males will often produce more testosterone when competing for a non-monogamous female than they would with traditionally monogamous females.
In fact, non-monogamous women are often more desired due to the pheromones they emit. The “slut pheromone” phenomena is not a myth.
Semen produces chemicals that will hunt out and kill other semen.
And since semen can stay alive for up to 10 days, there is a good chance that semen from multiple males are all battling inside one female.
Just knowing your seed is in a death battle with other males is enough to trigger this chemical release in your body.
Conclusion. Wanting to compete for promiscuous women is normal. It actually boosts your testosterone levels significantly and evolved to produce the best offspring possible.
You’ll never see animals “slut shaming”
They are either fighting for that ass, or actually getting it.
Sources
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sperm_competition
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022519310000317
https://www.zmescience.com/medicine/genetic/promiscuous-female-mice-sexy-offspring-432432/
http://journals.plos.org/plosgenetics/article?id=10.1371/journal.pgen.0010035
Si se polarizara la misma fantasia un extremo seria llamado "Stag" y el otro "Cuckold".
Aqui hay una buena descripción del segundo termino. Agradezco que la publicaran.
¿ ERES CUCKOLD DE VERDAD?
Si respondes afirmativamente a los siguientes ejemplos entonces lo eres:
• Te gusta lamer el semen sobre tu esposa, aunque no sea tuyo
• Te excita que tu pareja te cuente sus experiencias sexuales pasadas
• Tu pene se pone duro solo de pensar en otro hombre follando a tu pareja
• Estas consiente que tu pene es más pequeño que el resto de los hombres
• Te excita a ver a otros hombres coqueteando con tu pareja; de hecho, prefieres que ella se vista como puta para obtener más atención.
• Prefieres ver una gran verga penetrando a tu pareja incluso más que tener sexo con ella
• Fantaseas con darle sexo oral a tu pareja mientras otro hombre eyacula en tu cara.
• No te importaría besar a tu pareja aunque su boca este llena de semen de otros hombres.
• Sabes que no tienes lo necesario para complacer a tu pareja, así que no te importa solo observar mientras otros se la follan.
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