You Arent Born A Lesbian

yoooo i need to check some of these out !! ive been needing new fidget toys so tysm for this <3

Some of my favorite, (mostly) quiet fidget toys:

Sometimes you can’t afford to have a fidget that clicks or makes noise and I find that these fidgets are (mostly) quiet, just as stimulating, and pretty subtle, so I thought I’d share some of my faves :)

I’ll add to it as I discover more, but please feel free to add your faves too!

***This is not a sponsored post and I am receiving no money for this***

TLDR: I go into detail about each one below the cut, but if you want to check them out yourself (totally understandable), I’ve linked them below too!

1. Calm Strips: 

Price: $12.49 for a pack of 5

Where to Buy: Calm Strips Website

2. Crazy Aaron’s Thinking Putty:

Price: $3.00 - $50.00 (depending on the size tin you buy)

Where to Buy:  Crazy Aaron’s website, Amazon, Barnes & Noble

3. Fidget (or Spinner) Ring: 

Where to Buy: Amazon, Etsy

Amazon Price: $10.99 for 3

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Do you have any triggers?

Jello, Popsicles, Soup Broth. 

tw// eating disorders

I don't normally talk about this but I kind of wanted to address it because I know it doesn't just happen to a few people.. during the time I was at my worst (regarding my ED), people would tell me that I 'looked amazing' and that I 'looked really healthy' when that was anything but the case. I wasn't eating and if I did eat anything it wouldn't stay down.

Telling someone they look good just because they lost weight isn't always a kind thing to say. In fact, people telling me that made my mental health and, by extension, my ED worse. I thought that if I looked good to other people then I would be happy. That was not by any means the case and I ended up being far more unhappy because of it.

The worst part is that it still affects me now. Every time I eat I feel guilty and sick. I feel like I'm going to throw up and if I'm over a certain weight I try to lose weight until I'm below it.

Eating disorders aren't beautiful. They shouldn't be romanticized. It's not something to show off or make fun of/ joke about. They aren't easy to recover from and if you do recover, it's easy to fall back into them. That said, never shame someone for having an ED. That can make it worse as well.

Basically, go by the rule 'if they didn't choose it when getting ready for the day, don't comment on it' (which is kind of a mouthful but whatever). People chose their hair, makeup, clothes, etc. Not their bodies. I hope that makes sense lol but yeah..

no matter how mad you are you never use some things in arguments

- weight

- gender

- sexuality

- traumatic experiences that the other has gone through

these are the best cookies ever until about 30 seconds after they come out of the oven...

(source)

so i’ve been asking for band recs a lot recently because i havent updated my playlist in a while and lots of people have recommended waterparks and holy shit you guys. i fucking love them. i have no idea why i didnt listen to them sooner??? why didnt i think to listen to other peoples advice and hear the beauty that is aLL OF WATERPARKS MUSIC??? anyways. im going to totally overplay them and then regret it but for now i get to sing the wrong lyrics and fall in love with them. 

i love the whole vibe tho. im feeling early 2000s alt rock vibes. idk why... but i love the bass lines, the chord progressions, his fucking VOICE. im pretty sure awsten knight is the lead singer (i might be wrong but oh well). 

also my sister listens to I Miss Having Sex But At Least I Don’t Wanna Die Anymore and im like ‘mooshie (the name that i call her) (@i-drink-glowstick-juice ) you gotta listen to all of their shit. its fucking awesome.’ and shes like ‘em. i don't feel like it.’

BUT ITS SO RAD AND SHE DOESNT REALIZE IT. 

anywhore. 

im probably obsessing over this way too much... but its not every day i find music i genuinely enjoy. 

what the fuck is this, apple

you fucking spelled see WRONG

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