Tw// Eating Disorders
tw// eating disorders
I don't normally talk about this but I kind of wanted to address it because I know it doesn't just happen to a few people.. during the time I was at my worst (regarding my ED), people would tell me that I 'looked amazing' and that I 'looked really healthy' when that was anything but the case. I wasn't eating and if I did eat anything it wouldn't stay down.
Telling someone they look good just because they lost weight isn't always a kind thing to say. In fact, people telling me that made my mental health and, by extension, my ED worse. I thought that if I looked good to other people then I would be happy. That was not by any means the case and I ended up being far more unhappy because of it.
The worst part is that it still affects me now. Every time I eat I feel guilty and sick. I feel like I'm going to throw up and if I'm over a certain weight I try to lose weight until I'm below it.
Eating disorders aren't beautiful. They shouldn't be romanticized. It's not something to show off or make fun of/ joke about. They aren't easy to recover from and if you do recover, it's easy to fall back into them. That said, never shame someone for having an ED. That can make it worse as well.
Basically, go by the rule 'if they didn't choose it when getting ready for the day, don't comment on it' (which is kind of a mouthful but whatever). People chose their hair, makeup, clothes, etc. Not their bodies. I hope that makes sense lol but yeah..
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sometimes i look at the people my age and realize that even though i may be an annoying piece of shit, i could be way worse than i am...
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maggie: the middle east is in asia? i thought it was in west virginia...
funny things my little sister has said
my dad: put your back into it, maggie
maggie: I DONT HAVE A BACK
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me: yeah, i'm going to london
maggie: how are you going to deal with the language barrier
me: what do you mean
maggie: dont they speak londonish in london?
me:
me: maggie... they speak english in london. beCAUSE LONDON IS IN ENGLAND
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maggie: sometimes i get capitalism and cannibalism mixed up
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me: maggie, you could go to a boarding school in new england
maggie: but i dont want to have to deal with all of those annoying accents
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maggie: no, british accents
me: moo, new england is in america
maggie: but i thought it was in england
me:
my mom:
me: maggie, i think we need to work on your geography skills
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yoooo i need to check some of these out !! ive been needing new fidget toys so tysm for this <3
Some of my favorite, (mostly) quiet fidget toys:
Sometimes you can’t afford to have a fidget that clicks or makes noise and I find that these fidgets are (mostly) quiet, just as stimulating, and pretty subtle, so I thought I’d share some of my faves :)
I’ll add to it as I discover more, but please feel free to add your faves too!
***This is not a sponsored post and I am receiving no money for this***
TLDR: I go into detail about each one below the cut, but if you want to check them out yourself (totally understandable), I’ve linked them below too!
1. Calm Strips:
Price: $12.49 for a pack of 5
Where to Buy: Calm Strips Website
2. Crazy Aaron’s Thinking Putty:
Price: $3.00 - $50.00 (depending on the size tin you buy)
Where to Buy: Crazy Aaron’s website, Amazon, Barnes & Noble
3. Fidget (or Spinner) Ring:
Where to Buy: Amazon, Etsy
Amazon Price: $10.99 for 3
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