HAPPY ACE AWARENESS WEEK FROM AUSTRALIA!!!

Living his best life

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All of this.

We knew we had ADHDbrain *long* before diagnosis.

We knew we had BPD *long* before even all the symptoms were showing.

We knew we even were Multiple v. early on (but were gaslit by psychiatry).

You know you better than anyone else.

Gatekeeping culture is like: “don’t get your information online it’s too easy😡!!!” Then offer “find research papers online it’s really easy🙄”

Then block you.

Self diagnosing isn’t TikTok videos and random blogs. It’s literally months to years of research. There’s a lot of reasons why someone can’t get professionally diagnosed.

Misdiagnoses happen a lot

People aren’t taken seriously

It’s expensive asf

Its inaccessible

People want to adopt

People want the right to their bodily autonomy

I’m disappointed when I go online and see my bullies are now nurses. That’s kinda the same thing when I go on here and see professionally diagnosed people who shit on undiagnosed for posting coping mechanisms.

Stop calling people “the problem” for coping. The real issue is people who post any “if you have these… you might have” THATS DANGEROUS. what isn’t dangerous is:

Finding coping mechanisms

Find organization tools to function

Therapy

Talking about experiences

Researching extensively on traits

Documenting

Unmasking

Printing off quizzes or research articles from well established resources (Embracing Autism, ASAN, AIM, awn network, A4A)

Stimming (if it isn’t harming)

Advocating for diagnosis is one thing. Being a bully online is another. It’s a disability not a quirk, a lot of self diagnosed people know it’s a disability. We can identify the actual problems in the self diagnosing community but a lot of us aren’t those.

We’re valid

I live for agender Odo (from Star Trek Waypoint, 2017).

Hey, I don't know if you remember me (I'm the one with suicidality), but I just wanted to let you know that it's not worth it. I've lived through it with you, and I just want to tell you one thing: living is worth it.

Please.

“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”

— Alexander den Heijer

I’m so tired of not being connected to reality dude. I just want to remember things with cohesion and clarity. I wanna feel real and alive

Mercury and your voice 🗣️

Sun-Mercury people have a very confident , firm and stable voice. They do not shutter easily and can talk without hesitation. These people can also be famous for their voice or the way they talk. Sometimes can give an authoritative voice. Probably great at arguments or debates.

Moon-Mercury people have a very nurturing, feminine, motherly voice. They make you feel like home and probably often come to them for comfort. They just know what to say to make you feel safe and comfortable. Can also make someone poetic. These people Have a lovely voice .

Venus-Mercury people have a very attractive and charismatic voice. It can give deep voice to male and high pitched voice to females. These people can also change their voice to their liking. These people just know what to say to make people like them. Cute voice. Probably has a rich vocabulary.

Mars-Mercury people tend to have loud voice. These people tend to have a voice that can sort of scare people and the way they talk can make think that their mad or in a bad mood however that is not the truth. Their voice can be considered sexy haha. Very dominating voice.

Jupiter-Mercury people tend to have a loud and deep voice. In my observation their laugh is cute too. Also these people are always teaching things and like to share knowledge. Mostly teachers have this placement or someone at a higher post. These people can even earn through their voice. Like by starting their own podcast or Something.

Saturn-Mercury people tend to have a slow sometimes lazy voice. They have a very calm and nonchalant way of talking . Sometimes they can't get out right words out. Gives a very respectful voice. They calculate their words before talking. Can make someone always talk about rules and how you should always follow them

Neptune-Mercury people tend to have a dreamy, otherworldly type of voice. Their voice is just like a siren. Their voice is extremely attractive when they sing slow paced songs. They can enchant people with their voice. Can also give talents for music. Kind of voice that keeps you wanting for more.

Uranus-Neptune people tend to have a very unique voice . There's just something about their voice that screams different . Their voice stands out from the crowd. Voice so unique you'll recognize it from thousands of people. May also use unique words or the words that are not used normally.

Pluto-Mercury people tend to have an intimidating, seductive and deep voice. Even in woman. They voice seems very authoritative and can intimidated others as well. Though their voice is intimidating it's also seductive and sexy. Kind of voice that'll make you get addicted.

Masterlist

gentle reminder to just be soft with yourself. I pinky promise you really really deserve it. I’ll stamp it and everything.

Me and my Twin 💀💀

Attractive Placements in Astrology ׂᨘ ‣ ♥️🔥

Sun in 1H, 5H, 7H, 10H and 11H.

Sun in 1H shines brightly, others can notice this energy and feel drawn to them, these people can also be very comforting people, these people can often that beautiful smiles. Sun 5H individuals are creative, these people have talent and others see that, making them drawn to them, these people can also be the the life of the party. Sun in 7H individuals are caring, and respectful people, can be in tune with others emotions, people feel comfortable in their presence. Sun in 10H and 11H, similar to 1H and 5h, people are naturally drawn to these people, theyre exciting to be around and ca be very social individuals (bonus if placed in Aries, Libra, Capricorn and Cancer).

Moon/Venus/Neptune in 1H, 5H and 11H. I don't even have to explain, these people are simply naturally magnetic, they typically have looks of a model, when they walk into a room they turn heads, also very creative people and can be very in tune with their emotions.

Underrated but Pisces Mars. These people may have a subtle presence but they always seemed to be noticed from afar. Believe it or not these people can also seem very mysterious, people tend to be so curious about their lives, theyre drawn to them. Very sensual and loving individuals, gotta love them.

Mars in Capricorn, esp in women. Very and I mean very assertive people, these individuals tend to have a confident energy and they make it known to the people around them.

Mars in Scorpio. Similar to Pisces, these people are alluring, they're very strong willed people, with a hint of mystery. Very attractive individuals.

Mercury-Sun/Venus/Moon positive aspects, these people have a beautiful way of communicating and may have an expressive or soft voice, people also may be attracted to them because of how understanding these people are. Bonus if placed in 1H.

Venus in Aquarius. May be an unpopular opinion ☠️, but these people are very original and loving towards their friends. These individuals attract others by their very original and unique personality. These individuals may also have a unique style.

Prominent Sagittarius, Aries and Gemini placements. These people have a playful and flirtatious personality. People are often drawn to them, through them being high energy and full of life and fun. Very attractive individuals.

May make a Part 2 soon, but for now I hope you enjoyed 🔥♥️