thedyslexiaalexia
mid 20s trans girlie, I post dumb shit here she/they
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Accepting being a trans woman now is realizing the danger of being harassed, physically assaulted, or ostracized from my family and society never pushed me as far into the closet as the people who pushed me to be a "uwu cute trans girl" did.
I was a feminine man for a LONG time, and forced down a ton of my trans feelings since high school, but I showed many signs of being an egg- until my mid 20s, when I finally cracked.
A lot of the queer and trans friends I did have used to say things as blatant as: "so when are you starting E?" "have you picked a name out yet kitten?" Or my favorite: "you'd look great as a girl… are you sure you're not trans?"
The only reason I was able to finally accept being trans was by figuring things out MYSELF and by having a partner who was both supportive and respectful of my autonomy. They never pushed me to consider myself as a girl instead of just a feminine man, and that gave me the room I needed to breathe.
Don't push that awkward egg to crack. And it's shitty to assume someone must be trans just because YOU think they might be. Don't tell them, "oh you act like this, so stop denying yourself!" Just ask them, "how do you feel about yourself?" It's not your life journey. Let them walk it themself.
A couple of days ago my partner found a flower for me and I thought I looked super cute with it ^-^ thank you for the flower darling @tr1ppykay <333333
LEAVE YOUR BOYFRIEND NOW DON'T IGNORE ME OR YOU WILL REGRET IT IM TRYING TO HELP YOU
No.
Hey yall, I would really appreciate if you could share this fundraiser around. My girlfriend and I are t4t, I am several years into my transition and she is just starting hers. We desperately need to leave Texas, and move to a trans sanctuary state when our lease is over, as it is becoming increasingly unsafe for us to stay here. Its going to be hard for us to save up enough, so anything helps. Thanks in advance.
There’s this guy that sits in front of me who you would think is a conservative redneck bc his entire aesthetic is southern lumberjack w boots and denim and hats but he’s actually one of the most inclusive and anti trump guy I’ve ever met and today he wore this hat that sums up his entire personality and I’m screaming.
Don’t judge a book by its cover; make cornbread, not war.
I cant even imagine the pain parents go through with goth kids.
Pushing out all those piercings at birth must've hurt so bad.
Me picking Ercolano as my pet
THE SABBATS
Yule Herbs 🌿
becoming an adult cheat sheet!
learn to coupon
what to do when you can’t afford therapy
cleaning your bathroom
what to do when you can’t pay your bills
stress management
quick fix meals
find out if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill
resume workshop
organize your closet
how to take care of yourself when you’re sick
what you should bring to a doctor’s appointment
what’s a mortgage?
how to pick a health insurance plan
hotlines list
your first gynecology appointment
what to do if the cops pull you over
things to have in your car in case of emergency
my moving out masterpost
how to make friends as an adult (video)
how to do taxes (video)
recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)
change a flat tire (video)
how to do laundry (video)
opening a bank account (video)
laundry cheat sheet
recipes masterpost
tricks to help you sleep more
what the fuck should you make for dinner?
where should you go for drinks?
alcohol: know your limits
easy makeup tips
find seat maps for your flight
self-defense tips
prevent hangovers
workout masterpost
how to write a check
career builder
browse careers
birth control information
financial management software & app (free)
my mental health masterpost
my college applications masterpost
how to jumpstart a car
sex ed masterpost
The Sunk
Working on a dataset of roadkill reports. state agency personnel CANNOT spell
My cat martini
My cat pepper
my cat benjamin
my cat chloe
Playing Shadows Of Doubt and im so hyper focused on it I'm thinking of new leads at work. I hope no one opens up my reminders cause my check list looks very alarming without context.
happy friday the 13th! heres my sweet girl pepper at her best. if you have black cats, make sure to give them some extra love and attention today.
Ever since I moved out a few years ago my want to come out to the rest of my family grows every day.
I told myself if my dad ever said "Do you like men?" Id tell him the truth but ever since I was 14 he'd always ask "Are you gay?" And Id say "No dad im not gay" and he'd respond with a "whew thank god" like the homophobe he is if he even got a whiff of something that wasnt hetero-normative.
Poor fucker doesnt know im bisexual.
The feared Mongolian warlord Chimi Changis Kahn
mh computer tryin to say chimichangas I give uP
Really wish I had the art skills to make a comic about my raider, vehicle worshiping colony who I based off of War Boys and biker gangs who, after defending against a raid, found a fertilized Saurid egg from one of the dead raiders and kept it.
It hatched after a few days, sitting ideally by my researcher and popped out a lil blue Saurid baby who I named Komoda and the entire gang INSTANTLY accepted her.
These badass biker gang raiders whos diet is 50% flake and chemshine all gained full social acceptance of this baby and all pitch in to help play and take care of her, like one big happy fucked up family.
I imagine one of my colonist John, who was one of the first impids to join and the now leader, wearing one of those baby harness things with Komoda in it as they go for a ride to the nearest settlement to trade.
I absolutely love the story telling in Rimworld.
