Yes, He Loves Me, But He Would Love Me Even More If I Was Thinner

bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

to rewild your witchcraft

walk barefoot on stones in shallow streams.

talk to the wind and let it carry away your regrets.

forage for wildflowers to place on your altar, press in thrifted books, or give to loved ones —be careful when identifying

watch sunrises and sunsets. wake up before the sun. bare witness to the painted sky.

spend hours in the woods among the wild. take long long walks or sit still and watch the world.

talk to plants and listen to them. make friends.

get field guides to trees, plants, birds, etc. that are native to your area. learn which are which. bookmark pages that you recognize or want to find.

sing back to the robins. caw back to the crows.

journal by firelight and feel the flame burn your worries away.

gather snow and bring a bowl inside. talk to it and tell it your worries. your fears. let it melt, transmuting your stress and worries into healing nourishment. bring it outside and water the soil. see how things can be changed.

dance. run. move your body to sweat, if this is something you can do

collect stones from the river and try to find the best ones. keep them in your pocket. hold onto them to remember that you’re an animal.

go to a lake and float. feel the water carry you. lifting you from your stress. bring a vial and collect some for spellwork.

make a necklace out of an acorn and thread.

stand in the rain. dance in it. lay down in the grass and let it pour. let it wash fears away, transform doubt to hope. start anew.

𖤣.𖥧.𖡼.⚘

(wild winter witchcraft here)

pro 4n4 tip:

log every craving you get throughout the day into your notes app. at the end of the day, add up how many c4lories those cravings would have been. you’ll realize how f4t you could’ve been today, but you had self control💗

Sometimes healing is letting go of people’s expectations and the version of yourself you think they see. It’s realizing that your own judgment and your opinion of yourself are the most important pieces of the puzzle. You get to decide when to let go, to forgive yourself, to move forward, to take the lesson and leave the guilt behind.

That you dont need someone else’s permission to be kind to yourself and your mistakes. To think it was never as big of a deal as you made it, and to accept you were too hard on yourself and deserved more compassion. Let them be—but most importantly, let yourself be

Prompt 2: judgement

1. What are three things I’d change about myself if no one could judge me?

If no one could judge me I would make myself less nice. Im too often a pushover and people pleaser and I want to be stronger in myself. I would be slender and strong. Like one of those folks who doesnt look strong but can pick up nearly their own weight. Quietly powerful. I would be louder. I have been taught for so much of my life to keep quiet and deal with things. I want to be able to be LOUD. I'm not good at that even when it's appropriate.

2. What is my biggest fear about how others perceive me? People look to me for guidance and being a rational voice. Its nice to know that Im seen that way sometimes, but Im only human. I am fallible and I get things wrong. I fear giving bad advice and suggestions and leading folks wrong.

Reasons to lock in

Every outfit will look good

For the sculpted face

For the summer bathing suit

For the jealous stares

To finally feel confident

For people to worry about you

For the thigh gap

The tiny waist

To respect the person in the mirror

For the sense of power

To be prettier

To be dainty and light

To look elegant

To accomplish your dream

For the vs angel figure

I got out this morning for the first time in a while for my walk and the trees are starting to put out leaf buds! Spring will be here soon and i cannot wait for the warm weather. Just need to keep losing so that I'm not embarrassed to be seen.

The new year has decided to bring me pain. I was doing a deep clean of the kitchen and about to start the rest of teh house when my low back started clenching up. I've been sitting on heating pads and trying to get it to loosen up, but it hasnt yet and this sucks so much.

“fluidity”, by Daria Golab

ink on paper 21x15 cm (~8″x6″)