He Lost His Hair In The Divorce 😔

I feel like the thing thats really different about the polish trans experience is that because the language is heavily gendered and asking about a persons gender is very much not normalized, now that my body looks mostly androgynous people started referring to me with grammatical forms that have never been uttered by human tongue before. Last week a woman couldn’t decide what gender I was so after trying several she settled on speaking to me in plural and infinitive

Parents always say this:

"You're smart. Therefore, it's okay for me to expect more of you."

"You're smart. Therefore, I don't have to care how I explain things to you."

"You're smart. Therefore, it's okay for me to assume that any mistakes you make are intentional."

"You're smart. Therefore, if you say that you struggle with something, it's okay for me to assume that you're just lazy, afraid, lacking confidence, lacking motivation, or any other excuse to dismiss your struggles as fake.

but never this:

"You're smart. Therefore, I will put my authority aside and consider the possibility that you are right and I am wrong.

Like any abusive authority figure, they want you to be smart enough to uphold their authority but not smart enough to challenge their authority.

house md is the only show where people will be like "there's this episode where wilson buys an organ for house when house tells him to buy furniture that reflects himself" and you'll go "yeah, ok, they're probably overplaying it, it's probably not that forward" and then you go to watch the episode and the scene is way gayer than anyone described it as

this meme is so niche

New York City ballet production of Midsummer Nights Dream

Will and (some of his) pets: Spooky, Mr. Boy and Tapeworm

(i might make this into a sticker design idk)

the ena oc trend with these two

WHEN ON PERIOD:

do not crash out

your feelings are NOT valid

do not send that text

don't kill yourself. lock in

do not act on negative emotions until at least 2 days have elapsed

we should make fun of americans more. why dont their shops include tax in the price tag. like how much does this item cost? its a surprise :)

saying "acknowledge racism in the things you like" will have people saying things