What To Do When You're Feeling Disconnected From Your Dr?

I just attempted to shift and wanted to get my thoughts out.

I've been trying to shift for 4 years now. I've recently been having some spiritual stuff going on, and it helped me realize how to better adapt shifting to myself.

I just attempted again after months of not trying. I got symptoms I've never gotten before, and they were stronger than I could have ever imagined. I could feel my heartbeat through my whole body and felt like I was flicking between two different positions.

It's hard to explain, but I realized that I had never really understood shifting until that moment. I knew you really were going to be somewhere else, but that was the first time I felt it. I had a second of being completely overwhelmed by realizing it's real.

I ended up freaking myself out, I think, because I opened my eyes here. Everything looked distant and moving felt weird.

I'm back to normal now, but I feel very emotional. I remember how I felt in that moment, but my brain isn't letting me feel that certainty that I had.

Your blog was the last thing I looked at before trying, so that's why I'm sending the ask to you. I've never actually interacted with shifting blogs before, but I feel very strange right now and wanted an outlet.

For 4 years, I was certain I understood that shifting was real, but now, I realized that I never felt it before. I just feel shaken up and very upset that I still didn't quite get there.

I just hope that this means I'm close. A part of me thinks maybe I'm just crazy, but it felt so real.

"and felt like I was flicking between two different positions." You did it. There is no question of "am I close" becuase you have already achevided it ! The mindset of knowing what shifting is, is such a real feeling, I promise you’ll be able to feel it again. Keep going!! Don’t feel upset, instead focus on the fact that you experienced it, you know what it feels like, and you know you can reach it! I’m so happy for you - Be proud of youself

seeing revenge of the sith in theaters totally didn’t steal some of the plot for one of my drs kahsuskwbsbsjalajnskks ……..let me get ready……….

i've got a question! many shifting advice i see say it's okay to let ur mind relax and wander so you don't build up resistance during an attempt. however, ppl also say that the reason ur not shifting is bc ur simply saying ur affirmations and going to sleep.

i'm conflicted here bc aren't those contradictory?? how am i supposed to drift into sleep (and wake up in my dr) without it just being me 'saying affirmations and rolling over'.

i hope this didn't sound too confusing lol! it's a bit of a puzzling thought to write out as well

The people that say "you're not shifting because of ___" are slow and don't know how shifting works. Please do not listen to them. The only thing you need for shifting is an awareness. If you have an awareness you can be aware of anything you want. I find that letting my mind wander helps me relax. Whenever I meditate I focus on one thing, breathing, a noise, how my body feels, etc. I choose one thing to calm my mind and start there and I let my mind wander.

You can shift however you want, If you want to use the method of saying affirmations and rolling over go ahead! The only reason people say that won't work is because they believe that it won't.

The answer is within yourself.

I've seen that a lot of people are asking others what they should do on their shifting journey and I find myself conflicted with it. Of course there is nothing wrong with asking for help, but at a point in the endless road of questions the only answer you will find is your own. 

How do you think we have all gotten this far? People who used this practice long before us didn’t have any sources or online forums to help them. There has been an infinite number of people who have been able to reach endless life, and yet you think you can’t? You should start thinking for yourself, sit with your thoughts, and be alone. What does shifting mean to you? Dissect it. Forget the terms you learned on your way here and indulge in yourself instead of others. People today seem to need constant gratification. As much knowledge as you have at your own fingertips it weakens your ability to think for yourself. To me, part of the idea of shifting is being with yourself, being with your thoughts, creating new ideas on what reality is or how it works. You don’t need to be right nor do you need one single answer. All you need is what is important and dear to you. 

We are always evolving, without this trait we would be doomed to repeat. We would not be able to evolve without our mind. When we have lost connection to our knowledge we have lost connection to ourselves. Shifting is what you want it to be. 

GIRLLLL, OMG THANK UUUUU FOR TAKING YOUR TIME DUMBING IT DOWN FOR ME😭🧎🏻‍♀️(not screaming, just trying to pkace all ky affection in a sentence and not knowing how to😔)

I seriously appreciate you soooo much🩷🫶🏼

also go do your hw!!! you can just read this post if you wanna since I'm trying to figure shi out on my own...🥀

I've noticed that I'm trying to change the 'speck of consiousness that were experiencing right now/current reality'. I'm holding onto the belief that I am in my dr, which is absolutely true, yet am wondering why my consiousness hasn't been reflected yet because I think of the process as instant. I'm a very impatient person. But me shifting or not shouldn't get affected by that. I should probably get rid of trying to control things, but God these circumstances are weird.

I've always felt like what I'm experiencing is my enemy, even after trying to make myself understand that it's really just my reflection. And it is absurd? cause like, I'm literally consiousness. Why am I even acting up when J can do whatever I want? And when I do hold on to the belief that I have stuff, I get humbled...😔🥀

ok don't bother answering to this it's just me rambling and yapping as usual🧎🏻‍♀️

Hiii !!! You are so welcome !!

I can totally understand that even though we are kind of the oppisite ( i would say I'm a pretty patient person and I go with the flow lol )

I feel like going with the flow and allowing things to happen without resistance has helped me a lot tbh !

Also yap however much you want!!

Experiencing death in your dr

This was absolutely very weird and I can't even explain how I felt at this moment....

I was in my fame reality and everything was going as how life would usually go. I was in a restaurant with my s/o and we were having a date night together and enjoying the view from the window we were sitted at, then suddenly we hear commotion and my s/o gets up and tells me that he thinks something is wrong we need to go, that's when the gun fire started so my bodyguards came to me and were leading both of us out that's when I see a masked person pointing a gun at me and firing it, the bullet hit my forehead head like I could feel it pierce it and then there was a ringing sound... Then darkness... It felt like I was in the void.... Like I was everything and everything was me...

My eyes open and I find myself in a room and guess what room was that?

My room in my K-pop reality. I felt like I was being yanked up and I opened my eyes to my members looking at me like I'm some kind of drug addict. I didn't even have the sike or energy to stay there so I said the safeword and woke up here to my friend telling me that her boyfriend cheated on her.

This made me realise that maybe we don't die at all and that has quited all the insecurities that I had around death.

It was weird, it was creepy and it happened so fast.....but I guess that means that we are immortal?🤷🏽‍♀️

~ No I didn't script this, why the hell would I even!!?!

After you shifted for 27 years, how long had passed in your cr?

A couple of months, I don’t know the exact time frame but I wanna say 2 months and three weeks passed. A couple of things changed about this reality as well, I noticed that a certain actor is still alive; Jim carry to be exact. Before I shifted I swear I grew up seeing posts about how great of an actor he was, and how sorry everyone was that he had died. Not only that but I was certain that my brothers dad worked at a serious management job in a fast food company, but I guess not?? Whenever I bring it up my mom jokes at me because I am so certain that he did work there.

Also my other brother broke the microwave while I was “away”. tore the handle right off, and a couple days later it stopped working all together haha

I don't want to guess that it's me but I also genuinely don't know if my ask about hrrtshape and her post led you to piece something better than Shakespeare's work... 😔 *sob

Anyway, my heart just cracked open a little at your latest post, thank youuuuuuuu regardless for your blog!!!🎀🫶🏼

oh it was you ! !

Now I don't want to lead you into thinking that what I will say is the best piece of literature you will ever read because its DEF NOT. It will sound like I smoked 20 joints at once while watching government conspiracy videos………………….. It might take me a day or two to write this up but don't expect anything like Ada Lovelace level of critical thinking but I will try my best lol

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So, would it be possible for me to change reality together with a person from my Waiting Room? Like, I "created" this boy, is it possible for us both to go to the same reality together?

yes, infinite means never ending, you can do anything !

I'd also add that I think shifting is more popular with younger people becuase a number of reasons:

Older people often have a strict outlook on the world, the idea of being aware of a different consciousness would not align with how they have been taught to live. Most young people have seen how poorly that outlook can have, then become more open minded. And because of what the world is turning into today a lot of young people would want an escape from that.. Hopefully this makes sense 

I know it's kinda stupid question, but does our age in this CR matter while shifting, I am above 30 years of age and only see shifters who are at most 22-23 years of age and it kinda makes me feel left and makes me think that shifting is not for me or lets say not as easy as for me as it is for them ☹️.

No question is a stupid one don’t worry.. Your age doesn’t matter at all!!! You can shift whenever wherever ! Mentally I would say I’m around 27 and I shift how I’ve always have. You can shift no matter what as long as you have an awareness. I promise it won’t change anything. :)

I mean think about there are infinite realities and in those there are people who are shifting when they are thousands of years old.. Nothing will stop you.