Self Insert Community - Blog Posts

I'm gonna need fellow self shippers to NOT apologize or put themselves down for making their s/is basic/mary sue/OP as fuck because we're here to have FUN!! If you wanna give ur s/i a taste of the power or to make them the hottest person in your f/os canon then DO it! Make characters u don't ship with have a crush on you, make yourself the sole savior of this universe and be unapologetic about it!! [OK TO RB]

Alright I've never made one of these but let's try it!

Astrology based f/o ask game!! <33 (may or may not be very stereotypical to make things easier on me)

♈️- Are your f/o(s) quick to anger? Do they have anger issues? If so, how do they cope/how do you help them?

♉️- What kind of meals do you eat/make? Generally how does meal time with your f/o(s) usually go/Do you eat together at all?

♊️- Have/has your f/o(s) ever lied to you? If so how did it get resolved?

♋️- What are your f/o(s) like when they cry? What do you when it happens, if anything?

♌️- Does your f/o(s) enjoy the finer things in life or do they prefer to stay humbler?

♍️- Are your f/o(s) introverted or extroverted? A mix of the two?

♎️- How hard does your f/o(s) find it to practice self care? How self-destructive are they?

♏️- (suggestive) - How easy is it to get your f/o(s) in the mood? What are some ways that work if difficult?

♐️- Does your f/o(s) have trouble with commitment? If so, does this bother you at all?

♑️- What is your f/o(s) sense of humor like? Do they even have one?

♒️- How competitive is your f/o(s)? Would they ever let you win at a card/board game?

♓️- Are your f/o(s) indecisive or impulsive? To what degree?

Since this is my first ask game I won’t ask you to practice reblog karma! <3

-PROSHITTERS DNI-

a bit of a personal post. taps chin. because i've been feeling highly insecure for an unspecified amount of time and so i thought i'd make an appreciation post !

putting this in big bold letters: PROSHIP DNI

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shoutout to selfshippers with bottling problems and/or tendencies. to those of us who keep our feelings locked up inside until it pops and pours out when we least want it to. to those of us who bottle so much to keep others feeling happy. to the selfshippers who are so scared to voice anything about how they feel because they've experienced negative reactions from those they've trusted, just by voicing their emotions.

shoutout to selfshippers who can't properly gush because they often feel like a nuisance to others. whether it's the kinda gushing that's about your f/o's lore, your f/o in general, your selfships— to those of us who find it weird and at times a bit uncomfortable to gush because we're so used to feeling like a nuisance. or that we won't even be given the time of day to have our stuff acknowledged.

shoutout to selfshippers who are genuinely not understood. who's reactions at times are viewed as unnecessary or overdramatic or illogical for reacting the way we do when we're scared of opening up.

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your f/o(s) wouldn't treat you like that. they'd listen to you oh so intently, to whatever you'd have to say.

if you've been bottling for so long, whether it's emotions or interests, your f/o(s) wouldn't let you keep that up. they'd gently encourage you to express yourself, even if it starts out small. they reassure you that they won't get mad about speaking your mind, that're you're not an asshole for how you feel, especially if your f/o(s) understand what cause your reactions and why you keep things inside.

your f/o(s) will do everything in their power to make you feel safe in being you, you who expresses yourself, just like every human should be allowed to.

Proship dni for my comfort thanks.

I feel like everyone portrays F/Os as these romantic, perfect all around lovers, and while that's all well and good! I prefer F/Os who are flawed, who don't always say the right things. Who can sometimes be petty or selfish. F/Os who have a habit of seeing conflict as a contest on who can talk the loudest, instead of a conversation. F/Os who run out of patience sometimes and have to go cool off mid-conversation, even if they're right. F/Os who struggle to communicate their emotions.

I find comfort in the idea of a relationship where mistakes like that are allowed and given room to breathe. A relationship where, no matter what the conflict is, the walls eventually come down. Maybe it takes hours, maybe days until you're both calm enough to work it out. Maybe it takes several conversations to solve it, but each end in Hey. I love you. I'll talk to you tomorrow.

You're not perfect, and neither is your F/O. That's okay. That can be beautiful, too. There's not a hug that's more comforting than the firm, tearful one after reaching mutual understanding. Knowing that you didn't mess it up too much, you didn't break things permanently. You couldn't if you tried. They missed you... and you've got some serious affection to catch up on.

selfshippers we need to be making more 'marysue' selfinserts. im talking crazy powers im talking loud designs im talking having at least 8 canon characters in love with them. im talking crazy backstory im talking canon-breaking storylines im talking earth shattering plot twist catalysts. like. seriously who is going to stop you the f/o police? yeah ok bud try me ill make them one of my unrequited lovers too.

pr*ship c*mship etc dni.

if your selfships have 100 fans I am one of them, if your selfships have 10 fans I am one of them, if your selfships have 1 fan it is me, etc etc

Any moment with you is a moment of absolute serenity...

Snuggles💜

I see you My world blooms around you A time-lapse in a flash I see my whole life beside you I bear witness To the garden that one day we'll tend to As futures unearth The only one I belong to is with you (TenKazu 3rd anniversary❤️💜)

Flower Language + Song UTC

Flowers and Symbolism:

Chrysanthemums - Red + pink: Strong feelings, Deep Passion, Gentle affection

Peony - Pink: Happy Mariage

Primrose - Red + pink + purple: Protection, love

Violets - Purple + blue- Faithfulness, Commitment

Single Red Rose: I Love You