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hey bros/sakhis/sakhas
so usually when my friends have misunderstandings between themselves that don't involve me I stay sort of neutral... like when i know or trust that ppl are genuinely good and it's a misunderstanding/clash of personalities I stay neutral... but it's so hard to navigate or to not feel snakey about it!!
my friends are all so lovely and usually say they trust that I am not being snakey but it's that like internal feeling of guilt...I feel like it's even more snakey to take sides...idk I just feel bad haha:( I wish I could sort peoples problems out by literally being a mediator... even tho ik it's not my responsibility...I just always try to see both sides yk... like if the person is truly being malicious or horrible then obviously I take the hurt/good persons side.
but my worry is that who am I to decide who's good or bad with my limited understanding? most of the time I feel like i can genuinely sense when ppl have a good heart and naturally drift away from those that are insincere, all of my friends are extremely sweet. and i know just cos ppl have a good heart they can still make mistakes cos everyone does, and be mean, have differences etc, and its not that i excuse them...but when it doesn't directly involve me what more can I do than be neutral...I'm not peoples parents that can force ppl to create an understanding between them...