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Remember how she personally funded organizations that will and has taken away trans right? Remember her bragging about it in a cartoony villain way on her Twitter account? Remember her giving a sexual abuser flowers? Remeber how she praised a man who thinks that sixteen is the "prime birthing age"? Remember her calling Lolita a "tragic love story"? Remember her saying that "at least the taliban knows what gender is"? Remember her calling trans people the "gender taliban"?
inshallah jk rowling loses her fortune and all her hateful deeds are returned to her x10
I hate how right-wingers try to excuse spreading hateful or ignorant ideas as "just a joke" or "I'm just asking questions". Like they somehow think that jokes or questions cannot be rhetorical.
It's like some people think that ideas just don't affect the real world in any tangible form. Like they are just having a purely theoretical conversation that effects nobody at all.
People on the right need to realize that rhetoric is very capable of inspiring violence. Saying shit like "trans people are groomers" is the kind of shit that gets trans people killed.
And public figures who advocate hateful rhetoric will always try to distance themselves from the consequences of their words, saying shit like "I never said I condone violence", even when violence is the natural logical conclusion of their words. Yall cannot act like implying that Jews run the world is not a call to action to commit violence against them, that is pure bullshit.
im trying to become a more happier person⢠which includes me avoiding any topics that make me angry or sad
anyways, who wants to play roblox?
> i open twitter
> mood immediately drops
atp im deleting the app lmao
fellow trans moots just a warning to block the person in the pic who genuinely doesnât believe that trans men or anyone masc aligning can experience misogyny and believe that we are somehow the oppressors đ
reminder to people who need to be explained it: TRANS men are STILL minorities. just because we are men does not negate the fact that we are TRANS. its in the same way that white people can experience racism but NOT systemic racism. trans men CAN be oppressors but CANNOT be SYSTEMIC OPPRESSORS due to the fact that WE ARE TRANS.
not only that, ANYONE can be an oppressor LMAO. only some can be a SYSTEMIC OPPRESSOR aka, WEALTHY CISHET WHITE MEN!! not even wealthy, cishet white men in GENERAL benefit from systemic oppression. someone like ME, a BLACK TRANS MAN will NEVER benefit from it. even if i werent black and was instead white, i NEVER WOULD. because i am TRANS. the man part does not matter because all they will look at is the TRANS PART.
may i remind you that trans men are affected by the reproductive rights issues going on currently? if i werent living in my state and i had been in like fucking texas and was assaulted? guess what? i wouldnt be able to get an abortion. and before you say âwhy didnt you remove your eggsâ. 1) why am i expected to? 2) thatâs expensive? lmao? and 3) i shouldnt have to have to remove my eggs to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. yall are forgetting that the issue of FORCED PREGNANCY is happening RIGHT NOW. but you dont care because it doesnt affect you.
so in the same way that us as trans men will never experience the issues trans women face, neither will trans women.
i keep seeing other trans people say stuff like this, a lot from certain transfems and its so disheartening to see people from our own community treat us like shit. infighting doesnt fix shit. you are making things worse especially for YOURSELVES by putting other trans people down. if i were to speak about other black people as if they were villians then i cannot be surprised when i am soon also treated like a villian. something something stones at glass house something something leopard eating face party. the trans community can talk about ALL our issues without making one group seem like shitty people just for existing, without putting them down.
at the end of the day, we are still the minority because we are trans. at the end of the day when theyre trying to make us ILLEGAL, they will not care about how much hatred youâre putting out towards other trans people, like yes great! you helped them cause even more separating the trans community more! this is exactly what #they want so instead of helping each other, we are just pooling hatred so guess what! when they get rid of us, we wont be willing to help each other. youre acting just like an undercover fbi agent right now babes with this infighting talk.
for anyone who genuinely thinks this negatively about other fellow trans people, i beg of you to realize that this is exactly what they want. they want the infighting and hatred. and to play this game that became popular back in like 2015-2016
thank you lmao
anyone trying to argue w me will be blocked this is not a discussion. i will not argue with people who genuinely believe i am a shitty person JUST for wanting to be a man. this isnt LGBTQ+ positive yall this is T hatred.
these were posted by someone else but i wanted this on my blog too
the intersexism and transandrophobia combo continues !
fun fact: trans people cannot be oppressors because they have no structural power. that applies to trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people too. hope that helps.
the amount of hate iâve experienced as a tman/tmasc is so shocking especially because a lot came from online queers and even other trans folk.
it disheartened me a lot seeing how trans men are treated online, ESPECIALLY by trans people and queers. weâre often forgotten, fetishized, have femininity forced on us, and are treated like villains for wanting to be / being men. even IN queer communities too!!
ive seen a post here on tumblr where someone was trying to vent in a trans discord server about how trans men are treated and usually ignored and erased and other trans people chimed in, telling him that its his fault because âof course he would be. no one wants to be around a masculine manâ.
a trans woman (who used to act on the hate/undermined the hate and discrimination tmen/tmascs go through) once told me on reddit that it often comes from them being uncomfortable with masculinity as a whole so some of them would force it on us then blame us whenever we got upset over the way weâre treated.
i was once even told by a trans medicalist that i wasnt trans because i never experienced dysphoria before and i almost believed them since i didnt know much about trans stuff at the time!! if it werent for the people rightfully calling them out on it and telling me that i could instead have gender euphoria (which i do!!) and if it werent for them i wouldnt have realized that i was trans.
im lucky enough that i dont get much dysphoria or dysmorphia dressing fem still and actually love dressing that way! its just annoying how much its expected of us since we âwere women at some pointâ. weâre fetishized in stereotypically feminine ways (ie: ftm porn often has us bottoming or doing more âfemâ roles)
but then again, all this hate towards tmen/tmascs came from twitter and a subreddit thats well known for hating non binary tmen so LMAO dont know what i expected
I was a teenager when ace and transmed discourses were at their peaks, and I canât exaggerate how badly it affected me then.
Now trans men are the latest target, and Iâm terrified for trans kids.
Itâs easy to say âintracommunity discourse is an online problem! Go talk to queer people irl!â, but people forget that so many kids and teenagers do not have safe or reliable access to IRL LGBT+ communities and support groups. For many, online spaces are the only option.
We need to make sure the younger members of our community are being heard, and block out the hateful voices with messages of support and encouragement. Things are bad enough for trans people right now, and it's easy to forget that trans minors are often the ones suffering the most.
The hate you are experiencing isnât normal, it hasnât always been like this, and it wonât always be this way. It is bleeding out from a small, miserable group of self-absorbed jerks.
Donât feel obligated to call them out, donât feel like you have to interact with these people. Please donât doomscroll through discourse tags; it will make you feel like everyone is out to get you.
If you want to speak up for your community, thatâs fine, but please take a break if you feel like your mental health is worsening. Block anybody who so much as breathes rudely in your direction.
Youâre just as trans as the rest of us. You are welcome here.
Oh, and if you want to seek out external resources and groups, PFLAG helped me a lot when I was younger. It is an American-based organization, however, so if anyone has recommendations for those living outside of the US, please let me know in the reblogs!
Let's make one thing clear: TERFs at large do not care about women's rights.
That is why they will complain about trans women in sport, but not about how underfunded women's sports are, how women at times are forced to play in revealing outfits for the benefit of investors, or on fake grass, making injuries more likely. It is why they complain about trans women in sport, but not cis male and at times cis female trainers accussed or even charged with sexual assault trainging female teams.
They do not care about women's rights. That is why they explicitly ask cis men who want to commit violence against women in women's brathrooms - to scare off trans women, who never really assaulted anyone. It is, why they will support rapist and domestic abusers, bullying their victims of social media, while also complaining about the supposed inherent danger of trans women.
They do not care about women's rights. That is why they stay silent on fascist regimes trying to persecute women who abort or loose pregnancies, or even on those regimes trying to just receive safe healthcare.
They do not care about women's rights. That is why they do not push for better diagnostic criteria and medication for women - specifically also neurodivergent women, while they fearmonger about what they suppose are "girls forced to be boys".
TERFs do not care about the rights or safety of women. That is why they would rather hunt down a minority, who is far more likely to be victim of all forms of violence rather than the perpetrator, than stand up to those cis men who have assaulted, violated, and at times killed many, many women, and try to make this violence against women legal.
There is a reason why TERFs cheer for men like Trump, and Musk, and those like them. And that is, that they never cared about women's rights to begin with.
Oh, and by the way, that Supreme Court ruling is where that Harry Potter money goes.
The argument of being âtoo attractiveâ to transition has always made me lose it- like full on witch cackling whenever the words reach me.
Cause excuse me, how do you mean. The scars all over my hands and face? Oh and what about the wonky bottom teeth and overbite that features teeth that make me look like a damn American girl doll.
Iâve been bullied my whole life for not looking conventionally attractive, but the second I realised I was a man? No yeah sorry about that, youâre actually a super model.
Let me be an ugly man in PEACE.
To any JKR supporters left after she not only bribed the Supreme Court to pass a law riddled with blatant transphobia but actually succeeded in getting that law passed?
Trust that you will be dealt with. I will personally invite myself into your abode and go absolutely mad. Apeshit even. Trust that I will gnaw your face off.
After all, I have nothing against biting chunks off a bigot if their views ruin the safety of my country.
If you give that filth any sort of money, e.g purchasing films, books, merchandise and watching the new series. Trust that you will be dealt with.
- xoxo, merakiitills
That entire first bit is you degrading women down to their basic components like a misogynist would. Why do terfs constantly insist womenhood is just âyeah womb and tits is about itâ like itâs some own? Lady the patriarchy wants you to be defined by your biology cause itâs used as a weapon against women and historically has been the key point to oppression by the patriarchy.
You also donât know anything about the titanic and you claiming the âwomen and children firstâ thing is about vulnerable class? Lady it was done that way cause of patriarchy. You as a woman under this standard is WEAK and panic prone therefore you were evacuated first cause you couldnât handle the situation like a man would the stronger sex. It wasnât protecting you so much as stating âwomen are too weak to handle this send them away to cry while MEN take care of the problemsâ.
You are so lost in your sauce you push the patriarchy like an incel or right winger. Go read some feminist theory and then try again cause you would get a zero in any womenâs study course with this nonsense.
I hate jk Rowling so much. Like "ooo cool magic book with queer coding, I wonder who made it!" .... "fuck"
Happy pride month and fuck all our homophobic relatives!
itâs so interesting to watch harry potter fans continue to try and distance the series/characters from the creator when jkr said this in 2023:
i get it, harry potter was important to me too. i played hogwarts with my friends, i started a harry potter club, i had a wand and robes. i almost took âreligion and harry potterâ as a freshman in college!! but when i found out that jkr was a transphobic nazi sympathizer? i dropped that shit so fast. it was kind of sad but mostly i was just angry at jkr. and i understood that the characters were fake while transgender people are real. you have to realize that transgender people are more important, right? and nonbinary people like myself because iâm pretty sure she hates me too but itâs mostly trans folks
and yeah you can interpret the characters however you want! you can make them black, queer, trans, whatever you want! youâre still using her characters, her series. her bigotry is inherent in her creations. you canât separate it and the fuck would you want even the smallest part in it?? just let it fucking die, already, please. or if you canât give up a mediocre fantasy series, you could at least admit that youâre not the best ally, huh?
people have invented so many different ways of rephrasing "don't transition" to sound plausibly progressive enough to bystanders that they'll think trans people are over-dramatic for reacting negatively to it.
medical transition is permanent so you should really consider it thoroughly and put off trying it unless you know for sure. yes, just keep second guessing yourself. 6 months, 3 years, 20 years...
you might not like how you look. other people might not like how you look. you might not look cis. don't you want to be desirable? do you want to risk feeling worse and more insecure? you look so good now! we think you're so hot right now, and you wouldn't want to change your body and make it not hot to us, right?
you are so valid if you don't transition. you don't need to transition. no one needs to transition. it's just cosmetic, it's just aesthetic, it's all optional and means nothing at all. (no, of course this is unrelated to arguments used for insurance not covering transition, or doctors denying care.)
why do you even want to transition? are you trying to look cis? are you trying to adhere to beauty standards? are you doing this to look hot? that's regressive and outdated and assimilationist. (if you want us to take your politics seriously, you shouldn't transition)
it's a waste of resources/privileged/bourgeois to transition. it's kind of morally suspect that you would transition and still ask for help ever in your life. why should we support someone who's transitioning if they're obviously not oppressed anyway.
DIY HRT is too dangerous. you could hurt your body. you could get arrested. your life will probably end if you take HRT. if you can't access HRT legally, you just shouldn't take it. not for transphobic reasons!! just for your own sake <3
like when will it end
understood, misgender transphobic cis people
teach them a lesson
hey full offense but the âuse the right pronouns even if the person is horrible!â statements arent made to coddle horrible ppl, its saying âdont view correct pronouns as a fucking privilege that can be taken away once people decide youâve fucked up enoughâ, misgendering someone on purpose is transphobic no matter what bc it equates transphobia as a âpunishmentâ for bad people, pronouns are a part of baseline human respect, its that simple
T - Transphobic
R - Racist
A - Ableist
S - Sexist
H - Homophobic
ostrich memes 6-9 because i made a lot