Just Wanted To Let You Know That If You Post Chubby / Plus Size / Fat People On Your Ed Blog And Degrade

w/ my grandparents for a week!! we eat all our meals together!! i love my grandma but she definitely fits the asian grandmother stereotype of "here how abt u try this, it's good!" (and procedes to put food on my plate)!! i try to tell her im not hungry but i don't want to hurt her feelings!! fuck i might be cooked!! lmao killing myself!!

How to support your mentally ill friends - a guide

instead of saying:

you need therapy ❌️

people won't love you before you love yourself 🚫

that fictional (wo)man isn't real (s)he doesn't love you 👎

you're not an angel sent from heaven, you have a personality disorder 🤬

who the fuck are you get out of my house. is that a GUN OH MY GO- 🤮

try saying instead:

here's my credit card number ✅️

you are sexy and beautiful and amazing and sexy and perfect and sexy and sexy 👍

your fellow divine beings in heaven yearn for your return ✔️

one day you'll be famous and then all those fuckass therapists will be proven wrong 🥰

i am humbled to be graced by your presence queen. i will give you free stuff forever and you never have to work again ever 🤩

Your ED is still valid even if

• you never got hospitalized

• you haven't experienced medical complications

• don't cry while eating

• you look forward to eating

• don't exercise

• still eat “unhealthy food”

you don't fast for more than a day

an ED isn't always determined by what you do but by how you think, it's not a physical disorder it's a mental one

UGHH STOP SHOWING ME FOODPORN TUMBLRRRRRR

“There’s really no shortcut to forgetting someone. You just have to endure missing them everyday until you don’t anymore.”

— Unknown

YOUR 3D IS STILL VALID IF...

- u have conflicting thoughts about how to go about ur 3d

- ur not making any progress / stuck in a plateau

- ur w8 is fluctuating

- you have not been diagnosed that you have one

- ur wanting to get better / thinking abt r3c0very

- clothes are fitting a little too well (iykyk)

- ur not taking any ð1ur3tics

- you are taking a temporary 'break' from everything

- u look completely 'normal'

- your hygiene is poor

- ur not underw31ght or in the l0w ßmi range

- ur still stuck at ur hw

- you don't like / do not 3xercise regularly

- keep rel4psing

- don't drink enough water

- not seeking any attention / doing it for someone

- haven't f4st3d in a long time

- cope w/ emotions through $h

- don't fit the norms

- avoidant of your own reflection

- dissociates occasionally

- enjoys food

- doesn't count c4ls

- u don't like to r3str1ct

- overshares / undershares abt your problems

- just starting ur w8 g0al journey

- needs constant reassurance

- not willing to wear tight fitted clothes

- never worn clothes that are aimed to s3xu@l1ze ur figure

- prefers baggy clothes

- u don't enjoy following d13ts

- you procrastinate

Your 3d is still valid.

Effy Stonem core <3

there's a part of me that wants to starve and be skinny and love myself but there's another part of me that chases the happiness of forgetting about my eating issues and just simply enjoying life without worrying.