People using subtle hints instead of being direct makes things very hard for autistic people.
In some cases, it's understandable to do that. If you have trauma from being punished for being direct, then you have no moral obligation to sacrifice your own feeling of safety. This often happens when a woman is uncomfortable with a man and has had experiences in which being direct has made a man violent. Autistic people could even be afraid to be direct, because they've likely been bullied and abused for it constantly.
But if you're an authority figure, you have no excuse to use subtle hints. If you expect something to be done a specific way and failing to meet the expectations will cause you to punish them, then you damn well better be clear about what you're expecting and why you're expecting it.
Oh wow, it might help me, thanks 😊
I will fancy it up later lmao. Name: Harmony! Age: 16-19 I have ADHD, Mild Autism? and am Aroace! I mostly repost stuff I like which includes: Pretty stuff, stim posts, moodboards, memes, ADHD/Autism/Mental Health stuff, Art, Anime, Merlin, Harry Potter, BL, Plushies, AgeRe and more! I love making friends! please feel free to message me! (I often open notifs and forget to reply though so I'm not ignoring you! just message again and I will reply!) Usually not-nsfw (unless its funny nonsense posts)
I have a side-blog for my OC's, not yet being used however: https://www.tumblr.com/arialux-astralites?source=share
My Furina art progress ✨️
Affirmations for Autistic People
Neurodivergent Lou
Here's a quick au idea that just came to me today:
In a modern au where Merlin is still waiting on Arthur, historians recently discovered a whole batch of legal documents from Arthur's reign. These documents detail many changes he made to the laws of Camelot, including the repeal of the magic ban (which the historians assumed was just a halt on witch hunts).
However, one thing that the historians note as strange were the large number of laws that only applied to the king's personal manservant, who was never mentioned by name in the documents. These laws range from oddly specific, such as 'the king's manservant shall not accompany knights to the tavern', to downright bizarre decrees that make no sense, like 'the king's manservant is hereby forbidden from pointing out stew in the king's hair.'
The historians' first guess was that perhaps King Arthur was going a bit mad in his later years, but they didn't find any other ludicrous laws besides the ones pertaining to his manservant, which then led the historians to question the identity of this manservant and his relationship to the king.
All of this culminates in a historical exhibit showcasing the documents and postulating on this mysterious manservant of king Arthur. Many scholars flock to the exhibit, eager to examine the documents and debate their meaning and impact within a historical context.
Which then leads to a very tired Dr. Merlin Emrys, a medieval history professor, being dragged by his colleagues to see the exhibit and having to stifle is laughter as these world-renowned scholars tear their hair out trying to understand what was essentially a prank war between him and Arthur.
ID credit: Xiali2410 on 小红书
(please like, reblog and give proper credit if you use any of my gifs!)
Fuck off🖕
The way most autism literature describes "literal interpretation" is often not at all similar to how I experience it. Teenage me even thought I couldn't be autistic because I've always been able to learn metaphors easily.
In fact, I love wordplay of all kinds. Teenage me was fascinated to learn all the types of figurative language there are in poetry and literature.
But paperwork and questionnaires are hard, because there's so much they don't state clearly. Or they don't leave room for enough nuance.
"List all the jobs you've had, with start and end dates." What if I don't remember the exact day or month? Is the year enough?
"Have you been suffering from blurred vision?" Well, if I take off my glasses the whole world is blurred, but I'm fairly sure that's not what the intake form at the optometrist is asking.
Or the infamous (and infuriatingly stereotypical) "Would you rather go to a library or a party?" What sort of party? Where? Who's there? I work at a library. Am I currently at the library for work or pleasure? Does it have a good collection?
It's not common figures of speech that confound me. It's ambiguity, in situations that aren't supposed to be ambiguous.
ID credit: kris1009t on 小红书
(please like, reblog and give proper credit if you use any of my gifs!)
She/Her/Aroace/ADHD/Loves OC making, K-pop, Anime, BL, HP, SPN, MLP and more, love making friends!/ 16 / Love talking so please feel free to DM me!<3
80 posts