Going To Say Something Stupid But

my heart breaks for her and all the unhoused women. men do not see women as humans.

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Whoever wrote this, slayed so hard with all these statements, truer words have never been spoken

while equality in the feminist sense consists of a safe existence in society, for men it is always in the violence.

"oh, you're a feminist? then join the army and kill people with us."

"oh, you're a feminist? then I can hit you. we're equal, right?!!"

"oh, you're a feminist? and do you know that women actually kill too? It's not just men who are bad, you women are just as bad as us!"

instead of eradicating cruelty from our society, instead of advocating for the existence of everyone without the feeling of a threat to her or his life and well-being, they decide to remain with their right to inflict pain. because to give that right up means to give up male. privileges. which, of course, should never happen.

ECGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS ECSTASY OR MDMA

OLOGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS OLOLIUQUI OR MORNING GLORY SEEDS

MARIGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE DRUG KNOWN AS MARIJUANA OR WEED/MARY JANE

DIMETGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS DIMETHYLTRYPTAMINE OR DMT

ACIGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS ACID OR LSD

SHROOMGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO THE PSYCHEDELIC KNOWN AS SHROOMS

PSYCHGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO THE DEPENDENCE OF / ADDICTION TO PSYCHEDELICS

ADIGENDER

A GENDER THAT IS STEMMED FROM/EXTREMELY CONNECTED TO ADDICTION

I know two men who are currently single. One is 26, and the other is 38.

I’ve spoken with both of them at length about what they want in a woman, seeing as they’re cishet and white.

They both immediately went for physical attributes. Thin, but needs to have a nice butt. Boobs can’t be too big. One likes short hair, the other likes long hair. They also went into facial features for some reason. That was the part that made me really uncomfortable as I hadn’t expected either of them to have been that focused on appearances.

Aesthetics came next. Both want ‘alt goth / witchy’ women. It should be worth noting both of these men said their potential partner can’t wear too much makeup.

Lastly came personality and interests. They both said this is the most important thing to them, but they also ‘have to be pretty’. Oh, and they need to listen.

I have some single ladies I’ve also spoken with.

It’s the opposite. They rarely care about looks. It’s about chemistry, emotional connection, feeling safe, and sharing common goals / ideals.

While I know it’s not ‘all men’ it sure as fuck is a lot of you. Also both of these men think they’re part of the ‘good cishet white liberal men’ who voted for Kamala, despite one of them not voting at all.

He’s the 38 year old. To make things worse, he’s trying to date a 24 year old. 🤷‍♀️ His criteria for a potential partner was also under the age of 30 because it means less baggage and they’re still ‘fun to be around’.

You don’t want to know what he doesn’t bring to the table. Either of them, rather. 😅

We do have a male loneliness epidemic, but it’s not women’s fault. We don’t owe you anything. We’re not vending machines you put tokens into and get sex out of. Male culture made by men and perpetuated by men has made men this way. And it’s your job as men to fix it, not point the finger at us and say it’s our fault for not wanting to be with you. Some of us like myself want to actually HELP you, but you guys rarely want to listen. You instead want to complain to us about our gender and how unfair we’re being by not giving you a chance.

We don’t owe you anything.

On January 20th, 2025 and forward, they’re going to try to take our rights. They may succeed.

Men have to take from us because they’ve gaslit themselves into seeing us as the enemy, despite having driven us away by their own actions centered around self interest.

“It’s not all men. But it sure is a lot of you.”

calling men who are immature and treat women like trash "boys" just takes blame off of what they're really doing. they're still accountable, they're fully grown men who need to take responsibility for their actions

I cannot believe what I am about to say, but radical feminism is healing me.

I’ve been suffering from an eating disorder (an0rex1a) nearly all my life, my first worries about weight started when I was 9 years old and slightly chubby (and people made sure to point out that was bad).

More than a year ago, I reached my weight goal of 45kg at 175cm (99 lbs at 5’9"), and I thought I had made it. Finally, I became undeniably skinny, skinnier than most, the smallest I could be without dying, and therefore worthy.

Spending my days faintly, mostly sleeping, unable to work, study, or read, I thought that made me better. That my endless suffering meant I was worthy of true love, admiration, and all the better things in life.

Looking back, I am sad for my past self. For the first time in my life, I am making an effort to gain weight, to gain my life, my capacity, my abilities. I gained 7kg (15 pounds) in a year, but most of it came after reading (and taking it in—which took months) radical feminism theory, and now, being in this community.

Now, eating breakfast worth of calories of my full day back then, I feel freer. I am genuinely stopping equating my worth to my suffering, not just pretending I do in front of therapists and psychiatrists—but from within.

I cannot stress it enough. I had never been this free in my life, and throughout the endless years of treatment, I was sure I was never going to heal; some therapists even declined to work with me, for I was deemed a desperate case.

Therapy has flaws, as it focuses on the individual, on our own actions, while radical feminism points out the wider problem—systemic oppression.

The problem was never me.

i really really really don't care about trans shit anymore. like it's just not a thought in my mind. I'm terrified. i went on instagram and the first post i saw was "trump said there are only two genders! that's awful" I DONT GIVE A SINGULAR FUCK? I'm terrified. I'm terrified for the earth, there's a nazi in the white house that gets control of a whole department, 4 hours into his presidency there was a sieg heil by musk, he will leave everything to states and i will have no protections. I'm scared that my birth control will be taken and i eventually die alone and bloody from pregnancy complications. im scared for how bold nazis and racists and misogynists are going to be. i don't want more drilling.

i don't give a fuck if he said there's only male and female. he's trying to distract you from all the horrific shit he wants to do

joins tumblr to pass time

becomes a radical feminist

so incredibly tired of choice "feminists"