"Nice Characters Are Boring" To YOU. I Love Characters Who No Matter What, Will Always Have Genuine Love

sometimes i forget this but like its ok to have a lot of lore for ur selfships and its ok to have like no lore for ur selfships. its cool to have pages on pages of headcanons and fics and drawings and its ok to just see a character and go that's my f/o now. its epic to have a fully fleshed out s/i and tons of ideas and its pog to have none at all. don't be too hard on yourself or ever feel any less valid for not having as much detail to your ships as others and never feel bad or annoying about having too much either cause it's not possible and there's no one right way to selfship

pr*ship/co*ship dni

imagine kissing your touch starved f/o for the first time. maybe they melt into your touch, or they kiss against you harder because they don’t want you to pull away. 

imagine how they sheepishly ask you for more kisses because they liked it so much and want more.

Friendly reminder that it is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel extremely attached to/have intense feelings for fictional characters.

The human brain cannot differentiate the feelings and attachments we have to irl people from the feelings and attachments we have to fictional characters. Chemically, the feelings are the exact same

More to the point, if a character you love ever gets hurt or god forbid dies, it is absolutely normal to feel genuine grief and hurt because of it. As far as the chemicals in your brain are concerned, you genuinely just watched your friend/partner/family member get hurt.

Your feelings are valid and normal.

wanna put on some lipstick and leave kiss marks all over my f/o’s face. just want him to be a flustered giggly mess <33

in-law f/os that tell you to call them by their first name. or by mom or dad. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying for dinner. in-law f/os that ask you if you're staying the night. in-law f/os that give you your own key. in-law f/os that tell you to call them if you need anything. in-law f/os that welcome you into their lives easily because they see the way you love their kid and they see the way their kid loves you.

i want to FLUSTER that man. i want to make him BLUSH. i want to make him feel VULNERABLE AROUND ME. i want to make him WEAK IN THE KNEES. i want to kiss him

Imagine your f/o feeling really nervous when they’re around you, so they end up rambling when they speak to you.

proship/comship DNI

Imagine being "the exception" for your f/o. Being the one who they feel closest to, the one they confide in, you're the one they come to, because they trust you the most. Your f/o puts such loyalty and positive emotional energy into your connection, because you are that special to them. You make them feel loved, heard, accepted. And that is something your f/o will always be thankful for - the opportunity to be themselves by someone who gets it, who gets them.

your f/o having a crush on you but they’re the worst at hiding it .. always perking up at the mention of your name , getting you gifts and paying for your food , offering to take trips with you and do things for you , rambling on and on about you with their friends with the sweetest smile and flushed face , always stuck to your side whenever you’re around .. and somehow , it’s obvious to everyone but you ;3

Ooh. Please please make more self-inserts. Not only is it fun you have no idea how much it can help you be kind to yourself. Have the hero of the franchise fall in love with you for what you think are your annoying quirks. Have the wisest man in that fictional world, tell others that your are the kindest and the smartest person he has ever met. Have the evil guy fall for you and revoke his evil ways cuz youre just that hot. Allow yourself to be loved by the fictional characters you look up to and in time you may also begin see how wonderful you really are.