hihi!
my daddy isn’t all that into ddlg stuff and some of the bdsm things that i myself am into
however he’s interested in sex and mostly sex he’s not interested in the emotional side of bdsm purely the sex and pleasure for him
it upsets me that he doesn’t want to explore kinks with me but i can understand most of the time
i was wondering if you had any advice
The short answer here is “it depends”. It depends on multiple factors. Perhaps your partner is just selfish and does not care all that much. More likely, your partner may just not be super comfortable with taking the dynamic further and doesn’t want to feel embarrassed… like they don’t know what to do. Rather than risk looking/feeling stupid, they avoid taking things further and may even claim they are not that “into it”. Fear generally and fear of something so personal as sexual embarrassment are quite potent motivators to overcome. If he doesn’t care enough, that is another story altogether.
However, if they care about you, you may be able to convince them to explore more, but it will take some work to make them comfortable with it.
In anon... I can only offer some general advice on how to get an intimate partner to explore more things with you. Every relationship is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Therefore, I encourage you to communicate openly, honestly and respectfully with your partner about your desires and expectations and listen to their feelings and preferences. The biggest key to deepening your relationship this way and reaching your goals is empathy. It is the most powerful thing humans do. There are ways to help this, but that is a bit deeper and would likely require direct messaging rather than anon. Or if you like I can point you to some resources on it.
Feel free to reach out more if you like. Either way, I wish you all the best.
Let me humiliate myself for you. Let me debase myself for you. I want your approval so badly I’ll do anything to get it. I want you to be pleased to have me. If that means I have to turn myself into a desperate, needy, pathetic little fuckdoll so be it.
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This is my new main.
truth
People tend not to get moral credit for their self interested contribution to the welfare of others.
I want someone to hurt me. I like pain, yes. But it's knowing that someone *wants* to hurt me, that my pain arouses them, that they are pleased by my suffering. That's the sexiest thing.
Tell me that I make cute noises when you hit me.
Tell me that my tears make turn you on.
Tell me that I'm so pretty when I'm afraid.
Sometimes, pin me down or tie me up so that I can't escape the torture.
Sometimes command me to take it using my own discipline to stay still.
Give me the opportunity to prove my devotion by suffering for you.
I promise, I'll be a good girl.
i wanna be invited to a sex party, only to be tied up as soon as i arrive to serve as lube dispenser. someone positions a bowl underneath my already dripping pussy to catch any excess juices while another man shoves a vibrator against my clit, bringing me right to the edge before stopping, sliding his hand down over my pussy. i wince as he suddenly pushes three fingers in, nodding in approval as he uses my slick to lube up someone's ass.
for the rest of the night i am edged continuously, with people using my dripping pussy to lube up their dicks, toys, fists, or anything they find fun to insert in me. it's never fucking; the only stimulation i get is just slow, almost clinical insertion and exertion. sometimes not even that, only using the bowl under my legs as i beg them to fuck me, please. i try to clench around their dicks, to shake my hips, but they are not here to fuck me. i am just an object to them, an edgeslut so ruined this is the only way i can be useful.
an underrated kink is corruption. i want to make you worse. i love to coax it all out of you and make you admit how hot you really think it is. don’t worry, no one’s going to find out. no one’s going to judge you. it’s okay, you don’t have to fight it anymore. just let it get to you. you need this.
I vow to never cum again. Daddy told me that a girl's orgasm is a vital tool for the pleasure of real Men and never for the pleasure of a stupid inferior girl...
I promise to edge and edge until I'm all stupid and wet, but never cum.
Staying orgasm free means being a good girl. 😇
💞Good girls never cum, good girls rub their brains DUM💞
He edged and denied me over and over. Broke me down to the point that I couldn’t think straight. No words. Just crying.
He told me to beg.
I usually try to say the nice words that I know he loves. Strained words as I hold back my pleasure. Please, may your whore cum? Can she orgasm for you, Sir?
But this time, I just screamed. Frantically repeating please, please, please, please, PLEASE through my tears.
I couldn’t think of anything more.
I couldn’t think at all.
You are OK. If you’re unsure about how far you let your kinks go.. If you surprise yourself how far your kinks go.. If you are still discovering new levels to your kinks.. You have no need to worry when you just take a moment to realize.. You’re trapped. You’ll always want this. It will probably only get worse. The more you fight it, the more your need for it gets stronger. The more you feel it getting stronger the more you feel you need it. Your body isn’t lying to you. This is who you really are. Have an amazing day.
Fascinated by the broken. Possibly a bit of a sadist but in a good way. 52M 18+ Only. Minors DNI. DMs open. All the trigger warnings some hypno, trancy & corruption stuff and lots of dark kinks. Formerly omgwoolybully, &2
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