This Purity Of Love Is Why I Adore The Bimbofication Kink. Out Of The Many Fetishes There Are, Bimbofication

Let's give this man a few points. It is a problem that if there are woman who want to live the Bimbo lifestyle in real life and that is what makes them happy and they have found a partner that works with their needs and desires, that they are attacked by feminists. But guys and gals, woman couldn't vote. There's a ancient greek myth about a son could murder his mother and it was fine because they weren't related due to some warped ancient greco roman logic. As for being polite to woman. Just do that for everybody? If someone doesn't want help, respect their wishes and don't help them. If your lover wants you to act like a gentleman as part of your lifestyle? Do that. As for the trans baiting? Go look up a Contra Points video on gender. There's so much here people that is bad. This is why you don't let kink and real life clash and fuse without understanding what is real and what is your THING. Why aren't their a lot of woman engineers? A complex history of a male dominated profession and roadblocks set in the way of woman wanting those jobs. Go read history, I recommend a woman's history course or a good text on woman's history to get a grasp on how deeply woman have effected our culture and society just in America. You'd be surprised at how much shit they are involved in.

Debunking misogyny

Misogyny comes from Greek - misos (hatred) + gunē (woman). The “hatred of women” is the original, core meaning. The meaning that is still given as a short explanation of the word. The timeline of the use of “misogyny” shows a tremendous peak in the last two-three decades, “coincidentally” matching the emerge of the third-wave feminism.

Currently, if you google the term, the definition you’re given is much broader. It’s “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women” or “hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women, or prejudice against women”.

Apparently hatred was a bit too much of a strong word to throw around easily, therefore “contempt” and “prejudice” were added to help popularize the term. Funnily enough, though, the short explanation of misogyny remains “hatred of women”.

Let’s ponder “contempt” and “prejudice” for a moment - these are very, very broad terms. Basically, if you make any assumption whatsoever, it can be quite effectively called a prejudice. Things as natural as assuming a woman has a vagina are already being labelled as prejudice by transgender communities. And if that’s not a safe assumption about women, then I don’t think anything is. Same with contempt. We’ve arrived in a world where being a gentleman and offering to help carry a woman’s shopping bag can be branded contempt for said woman’s independency, strength of her body, will and character and often a presumable rape attempt. As you can see, we have enough problems with these terms as standalone expressions, but now they have been thrown into one big bag labelled “misogyny”, which means that by wanting to help a lady cross a street you can be, technically, a “hater of women”.

It gets better though! Wikipedia goes even further, by saying that “Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification”. With this definition, any action that could correlate with any of the listed “offenses” automatically translates into misogyny, with its core and most common meaning still being “hatred of women”. You’re a member of a male football team? Social exclusion, you hate women! You’re defending your family from an armed female assailant? Hostility, you hate women! You happen to be the breadwinner of your family when your wife happily takes care of the kids? Patriarchy, you hate women! You have eyes and understand math and can’t pretend a vast majority of engineers aren’t men? You’re belittling women, and therefore hating them!

And the funny thing is, with misogyny being a word that seems to be almost exclusively aimed against men, we somehow tend to forget that the social group holding the most contempt towards women is… women themselves! Feminists judging bimbos. Bimbos feeling sorry for feminist’s small tits. Successful women belittling housewives and mothers hating women who don’t have their kids puke all over their dresses. I have never met a woman who has never shown any sign of contempt towards other women. Which, by the current definitions, makes all women misogynists!

With a definition this broad, the word loses any practical meaning. It becomes an empty slogan. One that can be used anywhere by anyone and against anyone with a high percentage chance of sticking, but… So what? The word still makes no sense in its current meaning, so we might as well just forget about it.

And really… What do we need the word for? If someone is hostile, just call him or her hostile. If someone represents male privilege, whatever that little monster of a term is, then just call her or him out on that, go ahead (and try to define it while you’re at it)! Don’t elevate it to some made up blanket term that is supposed to brand everyone in this planet as a “woman hater”.

And if that isn’t enough for you to stop using the word, then by calling anyone or any action misogynistic, you are assuming that the woman (including you, if you happen to be the target) said action or individual is opressing cannot defend herself, you are belittling her. And as we already know, belittling women is misogynistic. And that’s what’s so amusing about the current definitions. Every time you use the word misogynist or misogynistic, you are being a misogynist yourself. 

Tired of the word already? Yeah, me too. Let it rest in peace.

(originally posted in June 2017)

I feel agreement. Ultra femininity will take multiple forms, and the shape of the Bimbo's personality should reflect their inner slut. If a girl wants to be a Bimbo, the kind of Bimbo she should be is best if it comes from her interests in what she finds sexy. Bimbofication is about the perfection of beauty, and beauty is of many facets. Bimbos should explore what kind of body and appearance they want for their creativity and to get the most fun out of it if this is what they want.

You reblogged it a few times, but I feel a need to reiterate. The fact that bimbofication defaults to one type bugs me. I personally love the kink, but the fact that almost every bimbofication story results in the girl no longer being a tomboy/liking darker colors/whatever feels so samey. It's not even that it's bad, in and of itself, I just feel that more people should try different stuff, you know?

I do totally agree. Honestly, everyone has their preferences, and I think part of the popularity of bimbofication is the embracing of "traditionally feminine" interests, styles, etc. that in the past have been treated as embarrassing or stupid.

But I do totally agree that pastel pink bimbo isn't the only flavor; it is, admittedly, a popular one since it fits the molds of what many people are looking for in the kink. But ultimately, bimbo diversity is a good thing.

At first she argued with you about how she had a career, ambitions outside of her body and moans. You showed her you make more money than she could want. Built a palace out of silk and pillows and blankets, garbed her in lingerie and shackled them in dainty beautiful things. Slowly you touched her more and more, casually stroking your hands over her side and thigh and breasts, feeling her nipples and skin stiffen and respond to your touch. When she asks what she can do for you, with her breasts hanging out, more perfect every day as you mould them, you cup one in your hand and bite it and tell her she can be pliant and accepting of her purpose. She asks what the purpose is, and you pet near her legs and command her to open them, and with your fingers you spread the gates of her womanhood wide and you set your fingers crawling inside her and say this is her purpose. She protests with a whimper, says she is smart and ambitious, and you tell her she is a woman. And she is a breeder and a sexual work and she only needs to focus on the signs of her fertility and beauty, and her protests dwindle as you explore her, and explain to her what she will be. Serious Talk: It's okay to have one partner be the wage earner, but don't force your girlfriend or wife out of a job.

There's a desire in us for greater signs of fertility. Large breasts, the kind you can squeeze and caress. Tits that are expanded because the girl did it for you. This is an aspect of Bimbofication that I think gives it it's strongest source of interest. Controlling and modifying a woman to become a fertility an sex idol. The fantasy that someone wants to become a sex toy and needs only the concentrated encouragement you can provide. The best way to do this in my view would be to make it a shared effort. You want the Bimbofication to come from the fantasy of the Bimbo as much as yourself. If it's her body being changed to fit a higher impossible standard of beauty, she should have input on what sort of ass and cleavage expansion she undergoes. When the Bimbo takes possession of her body, it is better than if she was told to do so. Shared passion is better than a solitary fetish project projection.

This is important. Do not trash yourself too hard. Be clear on your flaws, but know what those flaws exactly are and don't say you are vaguely bad. That doesn't help. Remember why you write. What you enjoy about writing, and keep it in mind.

Things to say about your writing instead of “this is so bad”

My writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time

The dialogue in this scene feels stale (or another adjective), but I can revise that later

The descriptions lack specificity (or another issue), but I can revise that later

The [another specific craft element] isn’t working the way I’d hoped, but I can revise that later

I don’t feel like I can objectively judge my work at this current moment

I’m not happy with my writing right now, but that doesn’t mean I’ll feel this way forever

I’ll reread this writing at a later time and move on for now

This scene isn’t turning out how I’d pictured in my head, but I can accept that for now and tweak it later

I trust myself to edit this in the future

I’m afraid people are going to judge my work, but I’ll accept that I can’t control the reactions of other people—my reaction matters most

This scene/subplot/character/etc is overwhelming me.

I’ll take my time through this scene/chapter/subplot as more time may allow me to immerse more in the draft.

I’ll write this scene/chapter/subplot as quickly as I can—I would like to get through this part ASAP.

It’s okay to make mistakes in my writing.

I’m not feeling very confident in my craft right now, but I know this will pass

This scene might be bad, and that’s okay. Sometimes I write gems, and sometimes my writing needs a bit more work (that’s normal)

This scene relies on [certain skill] that I’m still honing. I understand to get better at something, I have to practice and practicing requires mistakes.

I’m not excited about this scene right now

I had high expectations for this scene, and unfortunately, I don’t feel like I’m hitting them. However, it’s okay for expectations to change.

I’m disappointed with how my writing is turning out. That’s normal, even though it sucks.

I’m going to remind myself what I DO like about my writing because this feels bad, though I know this feeling won’t last forever.

Sometimes writers need to say “my writing is so bad,” and that’s fine too! Sometimes though, it’s good to note what is specifically wrong in case you need an extra boost forward! <3

Do you see her whisper her fears? She looks at you, scared of the changes she wants but doesn't wish to feel. She feels her value is in her tits and as they grow larger and rounder and better, so does her value increase. She worries about how much she's been thinking about her lips, about the feel of cock entering her mouth, or pussy caressing her tongue. She's started looking at her clothes with dismay because you whisper sweet poison in her ears about how they aren't the most beautiful. You show her pictures of ideal woman, woman who sacrificed decency and control to lust, and been rewarded for it with love and desire by men and woman who want their bodies. You tell her she doesn't need a job as you pat her cheek and hold her chin, looking at her eyes with a commanding and ruthless look, your grip hardening as your fingers dig into her skin. You explain to her you have the trainer ready so her body is prepared for the new breasts. You tell her she will love them, and if she doesn't? You smirk and slap the weak and soft and pathetic rack she now has, she will learn to love it because she will be forced to walk around with them and you will show her how the only love she needs is the love of rapacious gazes tearing her apart, objectifying her figure into segments for their minds to play with in the dark corners of their thoughts.

Her protest, her squirming words, trap them and lead them down the path you want her to go. She'll thank you later. Serious discussion: Being supportive of your partner is imperative. If they have fears about body modification, talk to them about it. How important is this to their ideal self image? Will the fetish help their body positivity, and how fast do they want to go? Don't push what makes them uncomfortable. If Bimbofication is important to you in a relationship, be considerate of others feelings on having their self played with like a crafted toy. Do not force via physical or emotional manipulation body images on your partner or make them commit to surgery. Fetish is shared, or it is not acceptable.

The title of my name does say Fantasy and Smut. Let's get some fantasy in here. This guy? This guy gets it. Don't just have your Warlock patron be a source of power. Have them be a source of storylines. Tests for more dark knowledge, trials of loyalty, explore the bond between the Warlock and Patron. Don't limit yourself to only evil. Have a Devil or Demon that is morally grey and have the Warlock question the nature of the cosmos because of the unique character of their Patron and other outerplanar beings like them.

Yes she is. With that faces and those breasts? Very much so

Am I cute enough to date ?

If a Bimbo is pure physical perfection meant to be admired by others, than you should share that with the world. Talk to your Bimbo wife about it, make sure she's fine with it and wants it. If she genuinely lives to be a sex doll, if being objectified is her pleasure, and cat calls and lustful glances make her happy, see what else she can explore. Letting woman and men grope her, giving blowjobs while being complemented. Praise her sexual skills and her using them to bring herself happiness and make others feel good. She has those giant boobs, that pretty face. Share that with other men and woman, ask her how she wants them to grope her or fuck her. If we going extremely into the bimbo fetish to the point of a lifestyle, how far does her kink go? Does she want to be gangbanged till she's bred and pregnant? Have her clothes taken off her by her partner and exposed in front of strangers? If she doesn't and you have communicated with her about this and she just wants to fuck you, stick to that. If she does want to be physically appreciated explore the full lengths of what being a bimbo slut addicted to sex would mean. Be proud of your Bimbo if she wants to be a whore, and be proud of her if she doesn't.

There is no greater fun than modding up your wife. It takes knowledge, imagination, and dedication. It is all about fine tuning, highlighting, and broadcasting her voluptuousness. Your goal is simple. You want everyone to want her. You want everyone to dream about her whether they want it or not. It is all about details and obviousness, blunt perfection to maximize grip but also supreme minimalizations such as for example her eyebrows or skirt lengths. The interplay between exhaustion and reduction is the goal, the overall intensification of contradiction such as a tight waist in comparison to her bulging huge breasts, her almost hairless face with big kissing lips framed by her wavy, golden mane of auspicious smoothness and softness. All of this will lead to a staggering, breathtaking, mind-shaking appearance everyone will envy you for. Everyone will want her, and she will feel the glances, the appreciations, the greed around her while shining and striding, residing in the center of everyone’s attention. And in the night, the show must go on, and she will thank you with bringing upon you ultimate physical sensual limitless satisfaction.

This is in mind a far healthier way to look at this kind of thing than the usual humiliated cuck. Your girl is beautiful to you, and that beauty doesn't go away when she fucks other guys or girls. People love porn stars, and yet decry the same slutting they idolize. You want your wife to fuck and be fucked because she is gorgeous to you and seeing her happy makes you happy.

A warning, don't abuse trust. If your a girl who's hot wifing, don't forget this is fun and not an excuse to hurt your husband. If your a guy who's convincing your girl to hot wife, don't push her boundaries too far and be prepared to hear her concerns and limit your fantasies. Work together slowly.