Let's give this man a few points. It is a problem that if there are woman who want to live the Bimbo lifestyle in real life and that is what makes them happy and they have found a partner that works with their needs and desires, that they are attacked by feminists. But guys and gals, woman couldn't vote. There's a ancient greek myth about a son could murder his mother and it was fine because they weren't related due to some warped ancient greco roman logic. As for being polite to woman. Just do that for everybody? If someone doesn't want help, respect their wishes and don't help them. If your lover wants you to act like a gentleman as part of your lifestyle? Do that. As for the trans baiting? Go look up a Contra Points video on gender. There's so much here people that is bad. This is why you don't let kink and real life clash and fuse without understanding what is real and what is your THING. Why aren't their a lot of woman engineers? A complex history of a male dominated profession and roadblocks set in the way of woman wanting those jobs. Go read history, I recommend a woman's history course or a good text on woman's history to get a grasp on how deeply woman have effected our culture and society just in America. You'd be surprised at how much shit they are involved in.
Misogyny comes from Greek - misos (hatred) + gunē (woman). The “hatred of women” is the original, core meaning. The meaning that is still given as a short explanation of the word. The timeline of the use of “misogyny” shows a tremendous peak in the last two-three decades, “coincidentally” matching the emerge of the third-wave feminism.
Currently, if you google the term, the definition you’re given is much broader. It’s “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women” or “hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women, or prejudice against women”.
Apparently hatred was a bit too much of a strong word to throw around easily, therefore “contempt” and “prejudice” were added to help popularize the term. Funnily enough, though, the short explanation of misogyny remains “hatred of women”.
Let’s ponder “contempt” and “prejudice” for a moment - these are very, very broad terms. Basically, if you make any assumption whatsoever, it can be quite effectively called a prejudice. Things as natural as assuming a woman has a vagina are already being labelled as prejudice by transgender communities. And if that’s not a safe assumption about women, then I don’t think anything is. Same with contempt. We’ve arrived in a world where being a gentleman and offering to help carry a woman’s shopping bag can be branded contempt for said woman’s independency, strength of her body, will and character and often a presumable rape attempt. As you can see, we have enough problems with these terms as standalone expressions, but now they have been thrown into one big bag labelled “misogyny”, which means that by wanting to help a lady cross a street you can be, technically, a “hater of women”.
It gets better though! Wikipedia goes even further, by saying that “Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification”. With this definition, any action that could correlate with any of the listed “offenses” automatically translates into misogyny, with its core and most common meaning still being “hatred of women”. You’re a member of a male football team? Social exclusion, you hate women! You’re defending your family from an armed female assailant? Hostility, you hate women! You happen to be the breadwinner of your family when your wife happily takes care of the kids? Patriarchy, you hate women! You have eyes and understand math and can’t pretend a vast majority of engineers aren’t men? You’re belittling women, and therefore hating them!
And the funny thing is, with misogyny being a word that seems to be almost exclusively aimed against men, we somehow tend to forget that the social group holding the most contempt towards women is… women themselves! Feminists judging bimbos. Bimbos feeling sorry for feminist’s small tits. Successful women belittling housewives and mothers hating women who don’t have their kids puke all over their dresses. I have never met a woman who has never shown any sign of contempt towards other women. Which, by the current definitions, makes all women misogynists!
With a definition this broad, the word loses any practical meaning. It becomes an empty slogan. One that can be used anywhere by anyone and against anyone with a high percentage chance of sticking, but… So what? The word still makes no sense in its current meaning, so we might as well just forget about it.
And really… What do we need the word for? If someone is hostile, just call him or her hostile. If someone represents male privilege, whatever that little monster of a term is, then just call her or him out on that, go ahead (and try to define it while you’re at it)! Don’t elevate it to some made up blanket term that is supposed to brand everyone in this planet as a “woman hater”.
And if that isn’t enough for you to stop using the word, then by calling anyone or any action misogynistic, you are assuming that the woman (including you, if you happen to be the target) said action or individual is opressing cannot defend herself, you are belittling her. And as we already know, belittling women is misogynistic. And that’s what’s so amusing about the current definitions. Every time you use the word misogynist or misogynistic, you are being a misogynist yourself.
Tired of the word already? Yeah, me too. Let it rest in peace.
(originally posted in June 2017)
This is important. Do not trash yourself too hard. Be clear on your flaws, but know what those flaws exactly are and don't say you are vaguely bad. That doesn't help. Remember why you write. What you enjoy about writing, and keep it in mind.
My writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time
The dialogue in this scene feels stale (or another adjective), but I can revise that later
The descriptions lack specificity (or another issue), but I can revise that later
The [another specific craft element] isn’t working the way I’d hoped, but I can revise that later
I don’t feel like I can objectively judge my work at this current moment
I’m not happy with my writing right now, but that doesn’t mean I’ll feel this way forever
I’ll reread this writing at a later time and move on for now
This scene isn’t turning out how I’d pictured in my head, but I can accept that for now and tweak it later
I trust myself to edit this in the future
I’m afraid people are going to judge my work, but I’ll accept that I can’t control the reactions of other people—my reaction matters most
This scene/subplot/character/etc is overwhelming me.
I’ll take my time through this scene/chapter/subplot as more time may allow me to immerse more in the draft.
I’ll write this scene/chapter/subplot as quickly as I can—I would like to get through this part ASAP.
It’s okay to make mistakes in my writing.
I’m not feeling very confident in my craft right now, but I know this will pass
This scene might be bad, and that’s okay. Sometimes I write gems, and sometimes my writing needs a bit more work (that’s normal)
This scene relies on [certain skill] that I’m still honing. I understand to get better at something, I have to practice and practicing requires mistakes.
I’m not excited about this scene right now
I had high expectations for this scene, and unfortunately, I don’t feel like I’m hitting them. However, it’s okay for expectations to change.
I’m disappointed with how my writing is turning out. That’s normal, even though it sucks.
I’m going to remind myself what I DO like about my writing because this feels bad, though I know this feeling won’t last forever.
Love to see the cool artistic design. The use of dark blues, purples, and tan brown complement each other. Don't use too many color tones, find a few good ones that combine together and work them into different parts of the design to build contrast. You'll get a better art piece.
Thinking of calling him Bracken 🌿
At first she argued with you about how she had a career, ambitions outside of her body and moans. You showed her you make more money than she could want. Built a palace out of silk and pillows and blankets, garbed her in lingerie and shackled them in dainty beautiful things. Slowly you touched her more and more, casually stroking your hands over her side and thigh and breasts, feeling her nipples and skin stiffen and respond to your touch. When she asks what she can do for you, with her breasts hanging out, more perfect every day as you mould them, you cup one in your hand and bite it and tell her she can be pliant and accepting of her purpose. She asks what the purpose is, and you pet near her legs and command her to open them, and with your fingers you spread the gates of her womanhood wide and you set your fingers crawling inside her and say this is her purpose. She protests with a whimper, says she is smart and ambitious, and you tell her she is a woman. And she is a breeder and a sexual work and she only needs to focus on the signs of her fertility and beauty, and her protests dwindle as you explore her, and explain to her what she will be. Serious Talk: It's okay to have one partner be the wage earner, but don't force your girlfriend or wife out of a job.
I love Bimbo Whisperer's immersive dialogues underneath every picture they post. It's more arousing to get into the psychology of the fetish and embrace the lewd logic. That being said, I have a big issue with the pokemon talk used here to describe Bimbos. Treating them as only physical characteristics collected together to form different breeds of sex slave animal. It's very weird and while I get the fantasy of the bimbo as a live in lust pet, it verges on this is too dehumanizing. Fucking written hot as fuck tho. To be clear, the writing is sexy, the subtext is what gets me eh.
Claudia Rivier/ Croatia
There is something very beautiful about making someone slutty by complementing and praising their desire for physical perfection
To secure the fastest possible progress in her bimbo level is easy. One strategy is to create a lustful vicious cycle which short-circuits your bimbo's mental activities for good. Here comes, how it goes (other combinations are possible but this one works nicely): Make her aware that her lips and boobs are your most favorite thing on her. Compliment her, and then look only at her boobs. Soon, she will ask to have her lips filled, for she fears you have lost interest. Have her lips filled and then look only at her lips, only kiss and compliment her on the bulging, sucking perfection of a mouth. She will soon ask to have her boobs enlarged. Have them enlarged and then look only at her boobs, grope, knead them, compliment her on them. I guess the idea is clear, for now she will ask to have bigger lips and so on. It is a blissful, very elegant path to total bimbohood and satisfaction guaranteed.
Do you see her whisper her fears? She looks at you, scared of the changes she wants but doesn't wish to feel. She feels her value is in her tits and as they grow larger and rounder and better, so does her value increase. She worries about how much she's been thinking about her lips, about the feel of cock entering her mouth, or pussy caressing her tongue. She's started looking at her clothes with dismay because you whisper sweet poison in her ears about how they aren't the most beautiful. You show her pictures of ideal woman, woman who sacrificed decency and control to lust, and been rewarded for it with love and desire by men and woman who want their bodies. You tell her she doesn't need a job as you pat her cheek and hold her chin, looking at her eyes with a commanding and ruthless look, your grip hardening as your fingers dig into her skin. You explain to her you have the trainer ready so her body is prepared for the new breasts. You tell her she will love them, and if she doesn't? You smirk and slap the weak and soft and pathetic rack she now has, she will learn to love it because she will be forced to walk around with them and you will show her how the only love she needs is the love of rapacious gazes tearing her apart, objectifying her figure into segments for their minds to play with in the dark corners of their thoughts.
Her protest, her squirming words, trap them and lead them down the path you want her to go. She'll thank you later. Serious discussion: Being supportive of your partner is imperative. If they have fears about body modification, talk to them about it. How important is this to their ideal self image? Will the fetish help their body positivity, and how fast do they want to go? Don't push what makes them uncomfortable. If Bimbofication is important to you in a relationship, be considerate of others feelings on having their self played with like a crafted toy. Do not force via physical or emotional manipulation body images on your partner or make them commit to surgery. Fetish is shared, or it is not acceptable.
Ah, sexual fantasy. The thumping, arousing, primal fire of desire which courses like violence through our veins. All you guys and lesibans out there want girls to be this free with their body don't ya? Wearing skimpy outfits to parties, dancing without a care in the world, shaking that ass and swinging those tits that you want to bite and grab. You know how you will get this? Confidence. Your girl needs to be confidant in her body, in her place by you, and in your respect for her. All these different smut stories and blogs about training the girls, really you need to train yourself. Complement, support, and reinforce committed respect. You want that woman to be a fucking horny slut bitch who's willing to show herself off like a trophy? Than prove tha your worth it, that you will listen, and that this is good shared fun. What does she want from you socially and emotionally for this kind of lewd behavior? Desire is a road going both ways. You need to see what steps you'll take before you have someone else walk.
Proper dress code for a Halloween party.
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This is in mind a far healthier way to look at this kind of thing than the usual humiliated cuck. Your girl is beautiful to you, and that beauty doesn't go away when she fucks other guys or girls. People love porn stars, and yet decry the same slutting they idolize. You want your wife to fuck and be fucked because she is gorgeous to you and seeing her happy makes you happy.
A warning, don't abuse trust. If your a girl who's hot wifing, don't forget this is fun and not an excuse to hurt your husband. If your a guy who's convincing your girl to hot wife, don't push her boundaries too far and be prepared to hear her concerns and limit your fantasies. Work together slowly.
This stupidity should be exalted part of the Bimbo Kink, I got troubles with it. As a performance? Training your partner to act as a stupid, cock addicted, semen hungry Bimbo who says yes to every request and denies all restraint on her lusts is hot. It's mega hot. A woman who doesn't think, only feel and act based on the carnal impulses you inflame.
That being said, it's dehumanizing too. Reducing a person's personality to just their tits and face and ass, removing their ability for complex thought, destroying their capacity for reason. Keep in mind the edge between fetish fantasy and damaging reality.
This is actually true and is why writers tend to be emotional wrecks.
writing is fun because instead of peacefully enjoying daydreams i can stare at a blank document and cry about it <3