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11 months ago

I didn’t know this was an AU I needed??? Like???

Moth to a Flame

Moth To A Flame

Fandom: The Fall Guy (2024) Word Count: 5.7k Relationships: Colt Seavers X Jody Moreno Tags: Drug Addiction, Injury Recovery, Angst, Hurt/Comfort, During Canon Link

Description: Colt has a long road ahead of him in the journey to recovery after breaking his back. He gets lost along the way, and ends up losing way more than he planned for.


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10 months ago

You would look cuter holding my hand, but whatever.


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Love this!!! But also LOVE reading an active series. It’s like waiting for the next episode of your fav show to come out.

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11 months ago

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Should I take the plunge? Should I start a side blog for The Fall Guy??


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11 months ago

Yeah I accidentally gave an opiate addict a drive around town a few weeks ago. Not one of my smartest moves I’ll tell ya what

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11 months ago

One time during chemo they took my BP and the nurse kinda froze for a second and my mom(a doctor) went “what’s the number” and the nurse said “60/40” and I was like ‘hmm I wonder what that means’ so I i tried to sit up to look and realized it was a Bad Number cause I could not sit up and was suddenly Very Very Popular

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11 months ago

This!!!

not to sound like a boomer, but I need some people to learn how to write emails in a semi-professional (at the very least) format so you're not cold emailing a business/potential employer/any other stranger about formal matters in the exact same way you'd DM a close friend on instagram

the formality/language can loosen up in the email chain once you've established a rapport and you match the other person if they're being less formal, but please don't have the very first email you send a stranger be written in all lowercase ultra-casual sms slang with no greeting or signature and a billion emojis


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11 months ago

probably my most powerful interpersonal communication hack is to, whenever possible, ask either/or questions rather than yes/no questions

for example, when chatting with coworkers, i’ll often ask if they have any fun weekend plans. but let’s be real - we all feel like friendless losers when someone asks that question and we go “uhhhhh… no.” so instead, i phrase it as “so, do you have anything fun planned over the weekend, or are you just going to enjoy having some time to relax?”

phrased like this, there’s rarely any awkwardness. you’ve presented two options & given both equally positive connotations, so your conversational partner has an automatic “out,” so to speak

but it works for higher stakes conversations too!!!! my mom was saying this weekend how she and her neighbor both like walking around the neighborhood & that she wanted to suggest they take a walk together sometime, but was worried about how to approach the conversation

so i said “how about you just say ‘i’ve noticed we both like taking walks! would you be interested in going for one together, or do you use walks for some precious alone time?’”

now Walking Neighbor has an automatic “get out of jail free card” if she wants to say no!!!! which means my mom doesn’t have to worry about the conversation being uncomfortable, because she’s set it up to go smoothly

either/or questions rather than yes/no questions. it is really like magic

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