Rb If You Think Asexual People Are Cool

Honestly all this Rue thing is stressing me out painfully, and seeing people throw the "groomer" label so lightly over, literally anyone they hate, feels invalidating (speaking as a grooming victim). It's sad when these talks started to be less about spreading awareness and more about internet fights, this is real people and your words have real consequences

I agree. I’m tired of seeing people throw the term around. And it infuriates me to no end when I see people using the situation just to cause arguments online. Like you said, these are real people and words have consequences.

I think it’s a lesson both sides need to learn. I’ve seen some really insensitive things from all sides. I try to handle the situation delicately when talking about it, so please correct me if I ever word anything in an insensitive manner.

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SAME TWS APPLY (SA AND SUICIDE), this is related to my other post about the recent developments

video politely snatched from Jay who runs a lvjy/wilbur discord server I'm in. so the voice isn't mine in case anyone wonders

also important to note the video was tagged '#tubbosexuallyharrasedme'. I hope she's doing well

wilbur soot photo taken by a fan (@lovejoyfan2278 on twitter) last week

That’s just fucked up. I hope you’re doing alright.

Serious Talk

I am so fucking done. I’ve stayed quiet for too long hoping this would stop, hoping that if I didn’t engage too much, maybe it would just die down. But it hasn’t. It’s only gotten worse.

For the small number of people who follow me on my alt account or know me through my content on YouTube, you’re probably aware that I don’t stir up drama. I don’t look for conflict. I mind my own business, make the things I love, and try to stay in my lane. But for the past month—maybe longer—there has been this one person, a self-proclaimed Shubble supporter who goes by the name Tankevelyn, who has made it their mission to harass me constantly. Not because I’m part of WSS. Not because I did anything to them. But because I exist. Because I’m me.

Let that sink in for a second.

This person has commented on almost every single one of my community posts, replied to my videos, and even gone out of their way to harass someone close to me—my friend and platonic partner—on their channel. It’s obsessive. It’s invasive. It’s gross. And I’m done letting it slide.

This has affected more than just my online presence. It’s drained me emotionally. It’s made me second-guess every post I make. Every word I say. Every part of myself I put out there. This isn't just "internet drama." This is targeted harassment, and I don’t care how petty or insignificant some people might think it is. When someone chips away at your mental peace every day for weeks, it’s not “just online.” It’s personal. And it hurts.

I’m going to be uploading an unlisted video and linking it right here soon. That video is going to show everything—screenshots, timelines, receipts. All of it. Not because I want attention or pity, but because I need people to see how far this has gone. How much I’ve put up with. And yes, in full transparency: I wasn’t perfect in my responses. I was angry. I was tired. I lashed out in ways I’m not proud of, and I won’t pretend otherwise. But when you’re being pushed this hard for this long, there comes a point where you stop trying to be the bigger person and start trying to survive the situation. That’s where I’m at.

I’ve already made this video before, addressing this person and another who thankfully backed off. But clearly, this isn’t over. And I shouldn’t have to keep asking the same thing over and over again like it’s unreasonable: leave me the fuck alone.

Respect people’s boundaries. It's not a hard concept. If someone blocks you, if someone tells you to stop, you stop. You don’t dig deeper. You don’t drag their friends into it. You don’t stalk their content like a parasite and then act like they’rethe problem when they finally snap.

This kind of behavior doesn’t just discourage creators. It dehumanizes them. It tells people like me that no matter how much we try to create something meaningful or share our voice, there will always be someone lurking, waiting to tear it apart for sport.

And frankly? That’s disgusting.

To the people who’ve supported me, thank you. You’ve kept me grounded. You’ve reminded me I’m not alone in this. But to Tankevelyn—I’m done. You’ve crossed every line. Grow up.

dad lore is crazy istg

Hey. International people.

Keep calling it the Gulf of Mexico or whatever your term is for it. Do not allow the Republican regime to label that body of water the Gulf of America to the world. The name came from a the term Mexica, what the Aztecs called themselves. It’s been called the Gulf of Mexico since the 1600s.

Keep calling it Denali. The original name before it was Mount McKinley. Don’t let the Indigenous Peoples/First Nations be erased.

It may sound stupid and petty. But it is an attempt to rewrite history and make us forget the origins. It is a literal white washing of history. This type of censorship is a beginning to greater evils.

You've gotta love Jews more than you hate Nazis.

You've gotta love trans folks more than you hate TERFs.

You've gotta love your unhoused neighbors more than you hate the billionaires.

You've gotta love immigrants more than you hate ICE.

You've gotta love queer kids more than you hate christian fundamentalists.

You've gotta love fat people more than you hate the diet industry.

You've gotta love disabled people more than you hate the insurance companies.

You've gotta love your fellow humans more than you hate the worst that humanity has to offer. You don't have to like every person you're fighting for, and you sure as hell don't have to give up your righteous anger, but hate is ultimately corrosive.

You've gotta love.