I’m A Barista And Got Pronoun Pin Even Though I’m Cis-assumed Most Of The Time Now. I’m Confused

It’s Trans Day of Remembrance.

This is the day we remember the trans lives we lost this year, both known and unknown. These lives may be lost by their own hand or by violence dealt against them.

This day gives me strange feelings: some survivor’s guilt, to be sure, some grief for siblings I’ll never get to know, but also a feeling I struggle to find words for.

There are many names that should be on that list that never will be due to never coming out. Back in high school, I almost became one of those names. Honestly, what kept me from being one of those names was the fact that it would never be known, and that I would be deadnamed at my funeral. Having that experience gave me a point of relation that I think about whenever this day rolls around. Those are the ones my mind drifts to.

You may be a closeted trans person, considering the value of your life now, considering a feeling of entrapment and restriction and the alternatives to that feeling. I have lost much by coming out, but I’ve gained so much more: freedom and recognition of my self from people that truly love me. Know that there are places and people of support that will love you for you. If living inauthentucally is too big a burden to bear, as it so often is, please try to live authentically rather than give up entirely. You won’t be alone.

For the rest of you, please take some time today to meditate on the life and love that could have been, and how you can make the world a bit better for those at risk of becoming a name in this group, whether that be in a sense of welcoming, loving acceptance, or in a sense of protectiveness from those that might harm them. If you’re the praying type, please pray for a world more accepting to us so that this day becomes less and less significant.

For those for whom this day exists, rest in the peace and love you did not know in life. You are remembered.

—Sophia Esther

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To my uk trans people and allies out there.

Here's another one #nofilter

“Facts don’t care about your feelings… unless we’re having trouble controlling you, then my feelings matter and your facts don’t.”

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Fanart for A Sterling Garden, a Star Wars 5e campaign run by @akasketch! Meet the Pelican, an XS stock light freighter on a mission. Watch the first stream tonight (March 6) at 6pm PST and help raise money for queer people

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This is SO lovely omg. Thank you.

This is my first time ever posting fanart, so I hope it goes well🦡

Anyway f*ck TERFs💗

I'm very fond of this video

This. So much this.

When subby, I don’t need degradation, I need uplifting. When dommy, my goal is building up, not tearing down; I’m here to take care of you, but I can only do that if you do as I say. 💜😘🎶

A lot of dommes rely on degradation to feel in control, and while that can be fun from time to time, it almost feels... beneath me~

I don't need to prove to you who's in charge. You know your place, and the possibility of any other scenario is entirely out of the question.

I can treat you as mean or as nice as I want because I'm the one that knows what's best for you~

Yeaaaaaaaahhhhh p much

Who else?