manifesting is too easy. getting everything i want is so easy. If lucky girl syndrome was a sickness, iโd be ILL!! ๐
เญจเญง ๐ฏ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ , ๐ฎ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐, ๐ช๐๐๐๐ ๐บ๐๐๐ เญจเญง
๏ผ*โขฬฉฬฉอโฉโขฬฉฬฉอ*ห๐น๐ฉฐ๐ฆข๐๐ชตโฆแฐแฉ
current attitude ๐
The Prince and the Showgirl (1957) dir. Laurence Olivier
๐๐งSEE YOURSELF AS GARBAGE AND THE FLIES WILL COME๐๐ง
โChange your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change.โ
- Neville Goddard
If you have a bad self- concept and lack self- love , you will continue to attract people who will treat you like trash. Why ? Because our inner world creates the outer world. It is easier to blame external circumstances and people rather than understanding that we created them and have the power to change them according to our will.
Of course, you can manifest without working on self-concept too. But self-concept is crucial in daily life if you ask me. You can't go on your whole life feeling bad about yourself. There is nothing wrong with feeling good about yourself , being confident , knowing you are the creator of your reality and loving yourself.
If you see yourself as garbage , the flies will come meaning If you feel bad about yourself and feel that you have no control over the 3D reality, you will continue to attract people who won't treat you well. If you see yourself as garden , the butterflies will come meaning If you have a good self-concept, you will attract people who will respect you and treat you well. Also , remember - we accept the love we think we deserve.
Inner world creates outer world. 4D reality creates 3D reality. You don't need to " try " to change your circumstances or people , you need to focus on changing no-one but " SELF". Most people think that love and happiness comes from love and respect of others. They are desperate and seek for love and respect from others when they themselves don't love or respect themselves. You need to be your validation, you really need to love yourself and focus on the things you like about yourself. If you improve your self- concept , you will believe in your power , get rid of doubts easily and manifest instantly. Self-concept work never goes in vain. It is always worth it ๐
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a talk on my favorite timeless beauty and fashion detailz
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things to put in ur fashion journalโ.เณเฟ*:๏ฝฅ๐๐
Journaling Ideas!!
โ the 2025 princess guide:
hello sweethearts! mindyyy here! continuing our semester prep series with something super important - planning your schedule with intention and care.
here's a little break down into breaking this down into manageable pieces that won't overwhelm your precious mind:
essential planning elements:
class schedule
study blocks
self-care time
social activities
rest periods
creating your weekly template:
start with fixed classes
add study blocks (2-3 hours per class)
schedule meal times
plan exercise/movement
include social time
mark dedicated rest periods
time blocking tips:
use color coding (pick pretty colors!)
leave buffer time between activities
schedule harder tasks during your peak hours
include preparation time
add flexible blocks for unexpected things
digital vs. paper planning: digital sweetness:
google calendar for main schedule
notion for detailed planning
reminder apps for tasks
digital sticky notes
paper paradise:
pretty physical planner
weekly schedule template
monthly overview
habit tracker
to-do lists
remember:
don't overschedule
include white space
be realistic with time
plan for self-care
allow flexibility
my favorite planning hack: schedule your planning time! set aside 30 minutes each sunday evening to review and adjust your week ahead.
gentle hugs, mindy x
p.s. what's your favorite way to plan? digital or paper? ๐
amazing post by @milkoomi
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it's super helpful and super cute!! check it out!! <3
Some of my recent purchases ๐
I.AM.GIA blare tracksuit in black and pink: Iโve literally been eyeing these for the longest! so glad to finally make them mine ๐ itโs so cute on me and I get tons of compliments. Iโm so grateful and happy to have them.
The tour 23โ Iconic Pink Stripe Robe: i love Victoriaโs Secret and I needed a new robe so my juicy robe wouldnโt be alone. Itโs so pretty and I feel like a princess in it!!
Primadonna Necklace by HeavenSent: Never thought they would restock it, but they did!!! And I got my hands on it. It looks so pretty with all my outfits.
Juicy Couture vintage bag: got myself the cutest juicy bag FOR I feel unstoppable, literally.
Pink Custom Converse: my pink converse are so cute and they have Princess embroidered on them. I love showing them off lol
So 2000s tracksuit by fine girl in both pink and black: if you know me you know i ADORE the finegirl brand. Usually Iโm all pink but I just had to get black as well. They are such a cute throw on and the set looks perfect on my body.
Miss December playboy necklace: I have no words for this!!! Itโs absolutely perfect and when I walk around with it i feel so sexy and rich. The girls are obsessed with my necklace.
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