On Tumblr People Will Say "yeah I've Got 7 Mental Illnesses" Then Call You Schizo For The Most Mundane

2024 Proship-tober!

I don't believe the proship community has an art-tober sort of thing! So I made one! Feel free to skip days! Posting this early to give people time to prepare! <3

Guys please are we normal about proshippers who dont like sexual content? Are we normal about sex-repulsed proshippers? Are we normal about proshippers who only like fluffy stories?

Are we normal about proshippers?

Art is meant to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comforted. I love you, Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov. I love you, 120 Days of Sodom by Marquis de Sade. I love you, All Quiet on the Western Front by Enrich M. Remarque. I love you, The Death of the Heart by Elizabeth Bowen. I love you, American Psycho by Bret E. Ellis. I love you, Speak by Laurie Halsie Anderson. I love you, I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou.

Alr no one is gonna talk about this so i guess i will, even if i really do not want to bring this sort of topic onto my account.

Long long ass post so (i’m a Proshipper AND ANTI-radqueer. rant ahead)

As a proshipper who has been harmed by "pro-c radqueers" (and questioned joining the community for a while for reasons i will also discuss later on) It is extremely difficult for me to interact with fellow Anti-rqs (blogs or just people) because of the idea that all proshippers are also rq.

I am not here to start discourse, Just to spread the word around that while we may disagree on shipping and fiction, please know that many proshippers do not want any of the true harm that rqs push onto others!! The proship community has been here far far longer than them, we have unfortunately had to deal with becoming their scapegoat over time and i would love for others to recognize that anti-rq proshippers exist, But interacting with the community makes it feel as though one can "only be on [the actual irl danger] side if you're into [fictional characters doing something i do not like] thing" , it makes it very easy for some proshippers to fall into the trap, !!!!Radqueers depend on others’ exclusionism to take advantage and bring others into their community!!!!!

Yes, many Rqs are proshippers, but proshippers are not all inherently rq!!! Kind of like a squares and rectangles situation.

tht moment when you realize the 'cute moments of peace' between you and your abusive partner are literally just the honeymoon/moment of calm phases in a longstanding multiple-year long cycle of being abused and you're highkey tweaking out so much but also there's nothing you can do about it so like OIFNOINFDGNFIDODNFNFDNFPNFPNNPVFDGNPNVFDPND deep sigh. when is gonna be the next eggshell I accidentally step on. when is this prick going to get bored of the lovey dovey romance and either lie about me for attention or outright just beat me again, or rape me again, or try to break my stuff again. so tired of this divas bs istg every time I stand up for myself I'm the bad guy and every time I try to forgive im just a doormat that gets trampled on I EHYHVVONNPSDIOOBOBIOD

aging your self insert down >>>>>>

people with tooth decay aren't bad people. they aren't lazy either. neither are they unclean or irresponsible. tooth decay doesn't make you a bad person. you don't deserve mockery, judgement, or tooth pain for having any. the only thing people with tooth decay deserve is healthcare.

Sometimes having a fiance is him having to tell you to stop eating his fucking hairties when you miss him

something that doesn't get talked enough about in my opinion is how absolutely isolating it is when you throw up all. the. time. and especially because it's seen as a "gross" symptom by most people. It is and has been the most isolating symptom for me and also happens to be my most severe symptom. I have thrown up at almost all of my friends houses, in my friends cars, at the majority of all sleepovers that i've been to, in public, on public transportation, in front of my friends or my friends parents, etc etc and this has been happening since i was a young child. It is absolutely devastating to lose your social life due to something you can't control and it is even more devastating to be considered gross by those you are around. And I ask that people please be kind to those of us that experience symptoms like vomiting and other gastrointestinal problems, because i can guarantee that it is a lot harder on us than it is you for witnessing it.

all these young, 'conservative-in-a-progressive-hat' antis spewing garden-variety death threats over pixels is sending me, lmao.

actively hating on someone who ships something different than you? doxxing and stalking? trying to make others conform?

sorry bro/sis, having a " toddler in the sandbox/i said i get to decide others' morality and trauma responses " moment is cringe asf.

oh, and --- let us know when you've got better comebacks.

The death of creativity lives strong within many antis, in their choices, creations, and threats.