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@ all trans people about to attend online school:

This will visually remove your deadname from any webpage. Obviously switch it off if your parents wanna check up on your work, but yee here's the link fam!!!! BOOST THIS!!! SEND THIS TO ANY TRANS PERSON YOU KNOW WHO WILL NEED THIS

chrome.google.com

Deadname Remover

An easy to use Google Chrome plugin to automatically remove and replace deadnames

so while I’m thinking of this, I wanna make a post with some tricks I’ve learned for handling my adhd; probably applicable to anyone, but especially people who struggle with executive dysfunctions

Add it to an Existing Routine

Even if you’re the most disorganized person in the world, there are moments in the day where you have SOME habits and SOME routines you stick to. Whether that’s that you brush your teeth every day, ride the bus in the mornings, or make food at home; you have some regular thing you can actually remember to do. 

So build on this structure to add in more habits. If need be, put a reminder where you do the existing routine. I could never remember to wash my face until I realized I could do it while I showered, and started keeping my facial cleanser by the shampoo. I clean the dishes while I wait for the oven to finish preheating, convenient since they’re both in the same area. Whatever makes sense to you. 

The 5-minute Rule

I wasn’t the one who came up with this, but I use it a lot. Basically, since it’s easy to forget things, as SOON as you think of something you need to do, if it takes less than 5 minutes, do it now. (Otherwise write it down.) These little things can pile up otherwise, and it feels nice to get them done. I also find doing little tasks makes it easier to move onto bigger tasks, as I’m already in the right mindset.

For bigger projects, if your main problem is getting started:

Just Set it Up

Need to work out? Put on your workout clothes. It’s okay if you then keep messing around for a bit. But a lot of times you’ll then have enough momentum to go ahead and go. Either way, it’s an easy step, but now you’ve commited yourself. What, are you gonna take off the workout clothes without going?

Same with other tasks. Open up the instructions for your assignment. Maybe just read them over. Then maybe open up word and type in the header (your name, title, etc.) This also helps break down tasks into very small steps. It can really get you over sticking points. Treat even the smallest step as a success.

Last but not least, this one is less of a trick and more of a general attitude:

Focus on the good feelings, not the guilt

A clean room feels fresh and invigorating. Brushed teeth are nice and minty. A completed assignment is such a relief. Focus on your desire to achieve something, rather than “ugh I’m such a mess my life is a mess my room is a mess why am I like this.” It makes the whole thing more pleasant, and I atleast find it way more motivating.

Hope this helped someone! 

Random TVs from my husband's (@svyatoivo) uni

International Transgender Day of Visibility

F I N A L L Y

I think you should know John as a person. He's still a human though he's a slasher oc

보여줄게 숨겨왔던 love, is it real? cupid is so dumb

this is mostly a joke

Part 2 of 4 of original and recolored Pride Angels, featuring Aroace, Abrosexual, Bigender, Agender, Omnisexual, Aromantic, Polysexual, Demigirl, and Demiboy angels.

Free for personal, non-commercial use! Credit is appreciated.

You can find the other angels here, here, and here.

See my #pride angels tag for even more angels I couldn't fit in these posts. And if my colors aren't what you're looking for, you're welcome to take a stab at your own recolors - preferably with each design's intended flag. If you do make one, I'd love to be tagged to see what you come up with!

MLM terms list

Achillean/wildean

Apollian

Chaeronean

Hyacean

Hyacique

Patroclian

Vincian

Gay man terms list

Carnatian/viridian/thamyrian

Casian

Floric

Gayan

Magnian

Solian

Turian

Some I couldn't find original source: virescin, erosian. There are more in the links. Tell me if you know others.