Sometimes You (me) Just Gotta Remember That Your Fantasy Story Doesn't Have To Be Dnd Based And You Can

I love being a transsexual

hey. hey you.

look at that character you’re headcanoning as a trans man.

are you headcanoning him that way because you think it’s interesting, or because he’s a twink and acts kind of feminine?

if you write about him, do you treat him the same way you do your other characters, or is he distinctly separated?

can he handle himself, or is he always the damsel in distress? do you have someone bigger and stronger than him always save him?

do you make him act more childish or confused? is he super innocent and needs someone wiser to guide him?

are you willing to explore what his transness means, or do you just think it makes him hotter?

did you make him trans because you wanted to write him as the bottom? is he trans because you wanted him pregnant without "technically" writing mpreg?

are you willing to headcanon big strong men as trans men? old men? not stereotypically attractive men? men of color? fat men? disabled men?

is his transness a part of him or do you just treat it is a prop?

on the other hand, is he more than just his transness, or is that all there is to him?

do you include other queer and trans people in your work? how do you treat them in your writing?

how do you treat actual trans men? trans men who dont pass? trans men who do? who dont feel comfortable being perceived as feminine? who present in a more feminine way? who identify as more than just a man? who arent just white twinkish silly feminine men? who are kids, meaning you can’t just sexualize them? who are more than just props to be used within a story to push the plot along?

are you willing to listen to trans men who speak out on their issues, or does that seperate them too far from the fantasy you’ve concocted about them?

how do you treat trans men?

no y'know what. I did my time idolizing gay twinks. reblog if you love fat ugly boys with gay earrings rat nao

fat trans people. you agree. reblog

Hey if you’re schizophrenic/psychotic I just want you to know that you’re a wonderful person and that you deserve so much better than the demonization, marginalization and stigmatization you face in this society.

I love you bottom surgery I love you phallo I love you meta I love you getting rid of your vagina I love you keeping it I love you glansplasty I love you scrotoplasty I love you UL I love you 3 stage surgery I love you 1 stage surgery I love you people who have/want these surgeries, all of them or just one.

Support Sukka at gofundme.com/enbysudanese

Sukka is a 24 year old nonbinary trans person who had escaped Sudan’s jenna-side and fled to Uganda. Their childhood best friend told me that “Sukka is currently facing life-threatening challenges as Uganda is really bad with LGBTQ+ folks after their recent bill.” (Trigger Warning: talk of transphobic attacks and SI) Sukka says: “Firstly, I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for taking the time to listen to my distressing story . Your willingness to lend an ear has given me the courage to share it fully with you. To start, I lived in Sudan until the outbreak of conflict forced us to flee for our lives to a neighboring country, Uganda. Now residing in Kampala, Uganda, I am confronted with life-threatening challenges, particularly due to the country’s stringent laws against LGBTQ+ individuals. Each day, I live in constant fear and desperately wish to seek asylum, but I lack the necessary funds to do so. Just this month alone, I have faced attacks from multiple transphobic and anti-LGBTQ+ groups. These relentless threats have had a profound impact on my mental health, leaving me traumatized and plagued by su*cidal thoughts. l’m seeking a financial hand to help me work on my asylum elsewhere” Dough-nations will go towards: help with processing travel documents and asylum Dough-nations will first go to my bank account and then I will transfer it to Sukka through the WISE app. Because of the extreme transphobia and attacks, we cannot post photos of Sukka for their safety! follow Sudan.Online_Space on Instagram to learn more about Sukka and to find more Sudanese GFM’s to support!

[Image Description: Text Reads: “Help a 24yo nonbinary trans Sudanese friend seek asylum to escape transphobia” gofundme.com/enbysudanese White text on a blue graphic with yellow/green/light blue gradient blobs all around. There is a QR code in the top right corner that goes to the GFM link In the bottom right corner is a trans symbol with a circular Sudanese flag in the center. With little lines around it making the symbol look excited in the style of Keith Haring. ]

if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.

it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.

people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.

it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.

i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.

take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are

An informational comic I drew last year for my Comics 2 class, reposting it to my new account (had to jump ship from the old one unfortunately) with some minor grammar changes and learned my lesson in adding watermarks! Happy early pride :)

Btw, being aro, ace, aroace, or another identity that falls under the a umbrella is one of the most queerest experiences I've ever heard of. Like, society has ingrained into pretty much everyone that you need to be in a romantic relationship and have sex? And you go AGAINST that??? That's fucking AWESOME!

Loveless aros, you have everyone, even the aro, ace, and aroaces communities talking about how "B-but, aros can still love!! We love our friends!! Not like those monsters who don't!!" and you're still you, and continue to be awesome??? Amazing!!

Moral of the story: aros, aces, aplatonics, afaimials, and others that fall under the a umbrella are queer as hell and are awesome and fuck aphobes