Transmascmilomurphy - Milo :]

big neurodivergent mood

left foot, right foot, left foot, one step at a time. Hope is a thing with dirt under her fingernails.

i hate being disabled so much. i stood on the side walk across my house for half an hour because it was so hard to cross. i hate it so much i hate it so so so much

Autistic Headcanon:

Candace Flynn from Phineas and Ferb

1. She has a strong black and white moral code.

Candace is constantly trying to bust Phineas and Ferb, along with being obsessed with enforcing the rules and being the one in charge. Even after seeing people enjoying their creations, she still continues try and bust them (in most cases) because what matters most is the fact that what they are doing is wrong to her.

2. She likes her routine and knowing what to expect, sometimes going to extremes to keep that routine.

Even when Candace is sick she still needs her “busting routine” and enlists her friend, Stacy, to help her with this. When Phineas and Ferb decide to have a “do nothing day,” Candace goes out of her way to try and make the boys build something, even going to the extent to build something herself instead. She even has a “panic room” that she goes to when overwhelmed with the unexpected.

3. She scripts conversations!

When she isn’t busy busting her brothers, she’s busting scripting conversations to have with Jeremy Johnson. Sometimes even talking to pictures of him taped to teddy bears or into bananas.

4. Grilled Cheese is her same food.

Candace loves her grilled cheese and everyone in her life knows that about her.

5. She has had a special interest in Ducky Momo for a long time.

She goes to conventions to engage in her special interest and has an impressive collection regarding it.

6. She stims… like a lot.

Here are just a few examples, there are a lot more.

8. She hyperfocuses (most often on busting), and is not able to focus on something else.

9. She has some very particular obsessions and rituals.

For example, Candace only plays instruments that start with the letter B. She also has to brush her hair 500 times in order to have a “perfect hair day.”

i want you all to know that there is an artist (carmen papalia) who, after he started using a white cane, assembled a 12 foot long white cane and began using it in downtown vancouver. the length of the cane made it functionally useless as a device and the only purpose it served was making him an obstacle for sighted people. dare i say… 2019 goals

actually i think its horrendous how the word delusional has been co-opted & watered down (especially to the term "delulu") by ableminded & sane people to mean "thinking your crush likes you back!!!!!!" when actual delusional psychotic & schizophrenic people are treated like absolute shit and are constantly being thrown under the bus even in mental health communities and people act like we just killed their entire family in front of them when we even mention our mental state.

my side blog that i use more often: @paranoidtranssexual

see now THIS is how you do an introductory google form

This whole obsession with wheelchair users struggling on foot down the aisle at their wedding or across the stage for graduation is 100% powered by ableism.