I've Never Been In A Spirit Halloween And I Want To So Bad! I Know Its Dumb, But The Fact That I've Been

is pokemon sun and moon still relevant?

Meetings really only exist to encourage my deconversion at this point. I don't know how saying that "feminism making women think they should be fully equal in the marriage is damaging" will make me, an afab person, agree that God knows best lol.

Like no. I don't know about you but I don't want to be in a position where my partner can abuse me without consequence.

Giveaway—found family zine

We’re in the final stages of our BNHA found family zine! All proceeds go to the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, an American charity that helps connect foster children to permanent, adoptive homes.

Preorders end April 17; to help promote the zine, we’re offering a free Hearth bundle giveaway, which includes a digital PDF of our 150-page zine, two digital prints, and a phone wallpaper.

All you have to do to enter the giveaway is reblog this post by April 14. 

Once the winner is announced, they will have 48 hours to contact us and claim their prize. Should the winner have already ordered the zine (either PDF-only or PDF plus merch), their payment will be canceled, and they will receive the zine at no cost.

may i request a rainbow snom for prode month

Black history month art for y'all.

This goes for

Black LGBTQIA ( my trans brothers my trans sisters too I ain't forgetting y'all)

Black artists

BLM ally's

People in general whether what race celebrating this month with us.

Black singers

Black writers

Black actors

Black furries

Black anime fans

Everybody!!

I'm very happy this month.

Anyone have PIMO birthday ideas? My birthday day is coming up and while I can't exactly throw a party I want to do something nice in the spirit of rebellion. Especially since this will essentially be my first!

Now that I'm POMO interactions with parents are weird. In a way I'm fortunate that my family is still willing to talk to me, but they still suck as people. Their abusive and continue to misgender me and be manipulative. It was really hard to say that "no, I don't want to meet up rn even for a meal" because I know how many people desperately wish they could have that offer. Even knowing how triggering it would be I almost said yes because I miss my parents. But I guess I more miss having parents I can trust and support me, than them specifically.

I know I go on fuck terf rampages every couple of months, but it's really alarming how many people in the ex cath and Christian tags have "terfs dni" in their bio and yet interact with and reblog posts from terfs!!

it can be hard to spot dogwhistles, but if you consider yourself an ally to trans women you have to make the effort. here are my tips for spotting terfs:

(disclaimer: i am a white, transmisogyny exempt trans lesbian, from a very white part of the united states. i was raised catholic, clearly am not anymore.)

If on desktop, download shinigami eyes. This is a browser extension that shows transphobic people in red, and trans allies in green.

Block the tags "radical feminism", "gender critical", and "terf safe". when these posts pop up on your feed, you can usually find a whole chain of terfs to block.

red flags in bios: excessive use of the word female; the word goddess; most mentions of vagina, vulva, or womb; the phrase "gender critical"; mentions of pagan goddesses (more on this below)

i have less than 100 followers on this blog, so i understand that this is not viable for people with larger followings, but if you take 30 seconds to search the word "trans" on a new follower's blog, you see either positive or negative posts about trans people.

another common red flag i see a lot is defensiveness over whiteness. i saw a post recently in the ex christian tag that said "well i am white and live in a predominantly white area but i am still oppressed by the patriarchy!!" and when i went to her blog she ticked off every point on this list.

i specifically mentioned pagan deities earlier. i know that a lot of people, once they have left christianity, jump into pagan religions and they find a lot of solace in them. most of these people are fine. but there is so much rampant transmisogyny, misognoir, and antisemitism in the pagan and witchcraft community, that anyone who advertises this on their blog instantly becomes a red flag to me (and I'm usually right).

I really implore everyone in the ex christian and ex catholic community here on tumblr to start taking action, and start blocking terfs. don't engage, don't argue with them, DO NOT GIVE THEM A PLATFORM, just block them, tell your friends to block them, and move on.

Your cult aesthetic looks like dark cloaks and goblets of virgin blood. My cult reality looked like modest dresses and indoctrination training.

Please don’t forget the real cults that are under the radar and remain mostly unchecked in our society to this very day. Please don’t forget how many people spend years of their lives being abused and misled by these cults.

reblog if you're a sick individual who's attracted to women over 30