Being A Sick Omega Is The Worst. Too Sick And In Pain To Make A Nest But I Need A Nest AND THEN The Realization

people always say autistic people think in black and white, but then they *teach* us in black and white. good girl, bad girl. good (normal) behavior, bad (abnormal) behavior. you have to be consistent with these kids

my therapist gave me a feelings chart and when I circled more than one told me to choose one feeling. in social skills group, they were always asking questions like, “is talking about airplanes expected or unexpected behavior?” and “it depends” was not the right answer- talking about airplanes is unexpected, inappropriate, abnormal, bad behavior (at least when you are one of Those Kids. when you like things too much you aren’t allowed to like things anymore)

here is your behavior chart, you either get a sticker or you don’t. here is your anger scale, you aren’t allowed to say you don’t know. we need an answer that fits into a graph because we are graphing your anger. here is a social story where everything is so simplified it resembles real life about as much as stick figures resemble people. here are your right and wrong answers and you play, move, think wrong

special educators are some of the most rigid people I’ve met. you have to follow the program. it has to fit on this chart. you have to be consistent with these kids

PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ PPLZPLZP PLZ lols

Matching profiles, calling, making Pinterest boards for each other, making Spotify playlist for them/about them, sending paragraphs, sending videos/reels to each other, watching movies on call, sleep calls, making hand made gifts, buying each other things, just being there for each other, talking out arguments/misunderstandings, gushing about them in servers, showing them off, putting them as ur pfp, insta highlights made just for them, posting each other. >>>

i really want to talk to my crush, but my anxiety isnt letting me so if this post gets 10k notes by valentines day i will try to talk to her

“Fall in love with the person who enjoys your madness, not an idiot who forces you to be normal.”

— Unknown

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My plushies feeling the wrath of my sensory seeking scenting (I must cheek rub everything soft)

Scent Glands

General information

Scent Glands are skin areas on a body that hold and release a smell.

Scent glands vary in location based on secondary gender and age.

Different scent glands vary in sensitivity regarding how well they release and hold scents.

Scent glands release pheromones that impact the behavior of receiving individuals, whether it be to warn them, soothe them, express how the person is feeling, or other.

Alphas

Because Alphas have the biological urge to protect and, before civilized societies, were almost always the leaders and protectors of the pack, their scent glands cover more skin on their body than the other dynamics.

Having more of the Alpha’s scent on the pack kept them safe.

Alphas’ strongest scent glands are typically located on the neck and shoulders and on the inner thighs.

Having more scent glands allows Alphas to scent mark multiple pack mates at one time, satisfying their needs and keeping everyone safe.

The downside of having more scent glands is accidental scenting. Alphas have scent glands on their fingers and on the side of their torso, so brushing against people can cause unintentional scenting.

Alphas often have the most control of their scent out of all the secondary genders.

Omegas

Omegas have the biological predisposition to be the caretakers of the pack, so they developed the most sensitive and reactive scent glands.

On a biological level, Omegas’ scent glands have billions of nerves that relay information to the brain in record time so Omega’s can quickly respond to situations.

Certain scent glands, such as the ones on the Omega’s inner thighs and neck are as sensitive as lips or genitals (depending on where they are in their cycle). Many Omegas use numbing gel to take the edge off.

Omegas are prone to subconsciously respond to situations with their scent glands before they actually process them. For example, if a pup gets injured, an Omega will instantly release calming pheromones before physically reacting.

Scent glands on the breasts and stomach only develop once an Omega becomes pregnant. Scent glands on the stomach fade after pregnancy but the ones of the breasts remain.

Betas

Betas have the weakest scent glands out of all the secondary dynamics, however, this can make them more pleasant to be around and makes them excellent peacekeepers.

Betas’ strongest scent glands are on their neck, inner thighs and behind the ears.

Betas scent glands are generally weaker in terms of releasing pheromones and scent, but they can hold scents for longer periods of time than the other secondary genders.

Betas also have scent glands on their breasts, however, they only appear during pregnancy and fade in under 2 years after the birth of their child/ren. Scent glands on the breasts only appear on female Betas.

Pups

All Pups start out with about the same base scent glands. When they present and age, their scent glands develop to accommodate to their secondary gender.

A pup’s strongest scent gland is on the crown of their head.

Unfortunately, pups’ scent glands do not hold smells for long periods of time, so they need to constantly be scented by their parents and pack mates. Evolutionarily, this ensured that a pack would not leave their pup alone for long durations.

Specific Glands

Inner Thighs

It is only proper for mates and partners to scent mark each other’s inner thighs (for all secondary genders). Scenting inner thighs without consent, especially if the people are not mates, is considered highly inappropriate.

Aggressive scenting and biting to the inner thighs can trigger heats and ruts.

Aggressively scenting (such as licking, biting, etc) pups on their inner thighs is considered as rape.

Crown of Head

The scent gland on the crown of the head is called the Pup’s Crown. It is most sensitive during childhood and becomes the weakest scent gland as the person ages until it holds very little scent or fades completely.

Wrists

Wrists are the most respectful place to scent mark someone. Friends often scent each other on the wrists or after a successful first date, the people in question may scent each other on the wrist.

Rubbing one’s wrist scent glands may be a sign of anxiety or stress.

Wrists are also where pack bites are placed, this includes siblings bites, close relatives, or pack leadership.

Cheeks

Cheek scent glands are very similar to wrists in terms of respect.

Pups often rub cheeks with their friends to scent mark.

Cheek scent glands are usually not very sensitive, but when stimulated can produce minor scent.

Neck

The scent glands on the neck are the most sensitive for all the dynamics.

The neck is where a mating bite is placed. Parents may also bite their pups on the nape of the neck to solidify pack and parental bonds.

Scent marking that occurs on the neck also holds smell longer than on any other gland.

Sorry

@sammyplaz BABE OMG BABE ITS YOU :0!?!!?

✦Alpha Pride Flag✦

(Yet again the image is blurry because Tumblr is a clown, but okay). If you don't know what a Miscecanis or haven't seen the original Miscecanis Pride Flag click here to see the flag. And here for the original Miscecanis post.

✦The meaning of the colours and shapes✦

✦Gold: Symbolizes Community. For an Alpha there's nothing more important than their pack. The community they nurture and love is the backbone of all Alphas. ✦Yellow: Symbolizes Protection. This is the core of all Alphas. An Alpha yearns to protect. Protect their loved ones, their children, their parents, their pack, themselves. The desire to protect that which is valuable to oneself is what drives Alphas to be Alpha. ✦White: Symbolizes Pride. The honesty and pride in oneself to be who they truly are as a miscecanis Alpha. ✦Blue: Symbolizes Honor. May sound a little knightly but Alphas, shall strive to be Honourous, honest and kind to those they protect and those they don't know. An Alpha who is rotten in character is no Alpha at all. It also symbolizes afab Alphas. ✦Cyan: Symbolizes Resiliance. Perseverance and strenght are the base of an Alpha's character. It also symbolizes amab Alphas.

✦Purple: Symbolizes Unity. Unity as a community, as a dynamics and as a miscecanis community. ✦Triangle: It Symbolizes the original Three Dynamics, as welll as the letter A for Alpha.

✦Elongated Star: Symbolizes the Dynamics as the "ruling" dynamics at first. Even if this is not entirely true. Any dynamics can rule, but Alphas are hystorically associated with the rulling dynamics, so the elongated star shows this legacy we were left with, and for better or worse shall carry. I hope Y'all liked it. Check out the other flags here: Miscecanis Pride Flag. Omega Pride Flag. Beta Pride Flag. Dynamifluid/Other Dynamics Pride Flag.

>listening to nin

>hear a new layer to song ive relistened to over and over

>"wow i cant believe i never noticed this before! i wonder what kind of synth he used. its very forboding in a specific way only nin can achieve"

>pause song to write post praising nin

>the synth specifically keeps playing despite the rest of the song being paused

>look outside window

>garbage truck