parents, please be consistent and communicate clearly, in advance, when it comes to household chores.
kids should be helping with chores in a shared household (and learning how to be self-sufficient in the future). but! kids also deserve to have their free time respected by not having chores sprung on them unexpectedly. and assigning them chores at random just encourages them to isolate themselves from the family. talk with them in advance about what’s expected–setting & respecting clear boundaries will make you both happier.
im accidentally in love
why is tumblr different i only left for a few days oh god
What’s up. I have OCD and anxiety, and here on tungl dot com, there is a nice little type of post that makes my blood pressure flip the fuck out every time, and it’s those “if you are reading this [x]” / “reblog and [y] will happen” type reblog memes
You know the ones: money cat, lucky xyz post, that sort of shit. The revival of old school yahoo viral email chains. Even immunity rabbit or whatever – same premise. Anything that says, ‘By reading or reblogging this post, you are activating some specific effect.’
Basically, most people can probably ignore them easily if they don’t like them; but others, especially those with particular psychological conditions (aka, ME) can actually suffer stress responses to posts like this. Obsessive-compulsive, schizophrenic spectrum, anxious, paranoid, magical thinking type disorders especially can see a superstitious post and have it automatically activate an anxious or compulsive reaction, because to the brain, it’s like a new rule/parameter has suddenly been introduced to your environment without warning. Now suddenly, whatever atypical structures frame your brain function have to accommodate for an alien factor. <- I don’t know if any of this really makes sense; it’s hard to articulate in a NT-accessible manner, but hopefully the general gist comes through.
Anyway. So far it’s been basically impossible for me (and therefore, I presume, others as well) to avoid posts like this, because they don’t tend to have any sort of universally recognized term to tag warn for. As a result I’m basically always playing Russian roulette with my dashboard.
A while ago, I asked tweeter followers to vote on the best thing to call these, and most agreed that ‘superstitious posts’ was fitting. So now I’m asking tomblr users to consider making my life and others’ lives easier and less stressful in One Easy Step:
Please
tag for #superstitious posts !
It would... honestly make a big difference if this were standardized and I will be eternally grateful ❤️😪
(Ok & encouraged for ppl to reblog this!!!)
hi i’m back i haven’t drawn in a week
let’s see paul allen’s mall-based outfit
ADHD Rats is a discord server that accepts all lovely rats between the ages of 13 and 15 who have ADHD (or self diagnose ADHD). We aim to make it a fun, safe, welcoming and chill place where you can talk about your experiences with ADHD and about your life in general with people who can relate to it, as well as a place where you can make friends.
We have plenty of channels to talk about your interests, your hyperfixations, your struggles and anything and everything that might come to your mind. Hope you stop by and check our server out! :D
DISCLAIMER: We are very adamant about our age boundary, so if you are younger than 13, please respect that you can’t join yet and don’t lie about how old you are. If you are older than 15, you can either join ADHD Crew (the parent server to this one- the age limit is 16-19) or you can join ADHD Vibes (no age limit).
ADHD RATS INVITE LINK: https://discord.gg/vBPvmYh8G5
13-15 age limit, have to have or self diagnose adhd
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16-19 age limit, have to have or self diagnose adhd
ADHD VIBES INVITE LINK: https://discord.gg/zc8NcCY
all ages, have to have or self diagnose adhd
that one ghosty time travel soulmate au thing thats really big in the atla fandom except its bnha and . izuku just has like 22 soulmates yes
i dont get offended at white people jokes even though im white because:
i can recognize white people as a whole have systemically oppressed POC in america, which is where i live
most people when they make white people jokes only mean the shitty white people and i am not a shitty white person
im not a pissbaby
shinsous a killer big brother
dsmp + osmp + fnaf hyperfixation | all the pronouns give me ur pronouns theyre mine now
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