I just told someone I identify as queer and they got all pissy at me and said, “no, you’re just gay.”
First off, who does this person think they are trying to tell me what my sexuality is and how i should identify myself? The nerve. (Im aroace, not gay)
Secondly, people who erase the term queer are also erasing All the other LGBTQIA+ labels like asexuals, aromantics, bisexuals, pansexuals, intersex, agender, nonbinary, and trans, etc.
*side note- if someone doesn’t feel comfortable using the word queer, that’s fine (if they don’t like the word, then they don’t have to use it, but to tell someone else not to use it at all even to identify themselves is peek wacko behavior) and if they don’t want to be identified as queer, that’s fine too, but I draw the line when someone disrespects somebody else’s identity. If a person is bothered because someone identifies as queer, that’s their problem, not to mention queerphobic. Also, trying to erase an entire word from existence is ridiculous.
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"I could sleep when I'm dead again. Daydreaming in my head again" - Kami Kehoe Sleep when I'm dead
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Thank u for the tag Sevonnie ! <33
put a emoji you like, a lyric from your favorite song, and you’re favorite color in 4 emojis then tag your moots!! i’ll go first!
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Kuroko's Basket fandom !!! PLEAAAASE
Does anyone know where this image is from and if there is an english translation please ???
I want to know so bad why Seijuro is scared !! 😭😭😭
And if there is the whole page translated too pleaseee !!
My poor baby... 🥺❤
I can't find it anywhere even though I did an image search...
Shu: So this is your new way of seducing me. Haha not bad. Not bad at all. I think you should do this more often. you're really beautiful Yui.
Reiji: Oh dear. Mt beloved Yui, you're really gorgeous. This dress really suits my beautiful lady and the queen of vampires. I think you should try more of these clothes.
Ayato: What the hell? Who would have thought that you would look so cute in these clothes? Chichinashi, you don't look like Chichinashi anymore.....
Kanato: See? It wasn't that hard to wear nice clothes and look less like servants. Fufu, you have become as beautiful as dolls. Teddy also likes your new look. Ne Teddy....
Laito: Oh my beautiful slut lady is trying to seduce me? Nfu~ You look very beautiful and gorgeous, Yui-chan. Hurry up, let's go to my room. These clothes are beautiful, but I prefer to take them off as soon as possible... Nfu...
Subaru: *mumbling* Fuck my life. How can she be so cute? Haaaa? I didn't say anything. I said, you look like shit... oh gosh... these clothes.... suit you very well... I mean... you look nice anyway.
Ruki: My cute angel... you sure look beautiful. And very seductive too. Fufu... your beautiful and radiant face and smell are driving me crazy...
Kou: Fufu... my cute M-Neko-chan... You are so cute. You now have the ability to become a famous idol. Although not as much as me. But I think I will ask for your help in my next magazine interview and introduce you as my cute girlfriend...
Yuma: Hell Yui... Ya look so cute. Huh I don't think I can stop myself with this face. You are now like a bunny caught in my trap.
Azusa: My dear Eve... you have.... become so beautiful. You are..... like a goddess. Fufu.... I like to..... hug you and..... kiss your..... cute face..... all day long.
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In this post, I will discus the following terms: AroAce, Angled AroAce, Oriented AroAce, AroAceFlux, and AroAceSpike.
Let's start with AroAce.
A person who identifies as AroAce experiences little to no romantic or sexual attraction. They don't look at someone and go, "Oh, they're cute. I wonder if they're seeing someone. And if not, I wonder if they'd like to go out with me." They don't look at someone and go, "Oh, they're hot. I wonder if they're down for Netflix and chill." They may, on the other hand, get to know someone and go, "Oh, they're such a cool person, and they share many of my interests. I wonder if they'd like to be my best friend for all eternity."
Now, let's move on to Angled AroAce.
An Angled AroAce experiences some romantic and sexual attraction, but this attraction falls solidly within both the aromantic and asexual spectrums. The romantic or sexual attraction they experience may feel nebulous and complicated. "Oh, that person's good looking. Would I want to ask them out on a date? Maybe not." In addition to experiencing some romantic and sexual attraction, they may also experience tertiary attraction, such as platonic, emotional (alterous), physical (sensual), and/or aesthetic.
Next, let's look at Oriented AroAce.
Oriented AroAces experience little to no romantic or sexual attraction, but they do experience a strong tertiary attraction. Many who identify as oriented AroAce will also identify with another orientation label, but they only identify with this label in a nonromantic and nonsexual way. For example, a lesbian oriented AroAce may look at an attractive woman and go, "Oh, that woman's hot. But not in a sexual way. Most definitely in an aesthetic way."
On to AroAceFlux.
Note: I don't know if this is the correct flag.
AroAceFlux individuals experience a flux between their romantic and sexual orientations, but it always stays on the aro and ace spectrum. The flux can occur simultaneously or independently of each other. One day, you could experience no romantic and sexual attraction; and the next day, you could experience some romantic and no sexual attraction; and the day after that, you could experience no romantic and some sexual attraction. As the name implies, attraction is always in constant flux and motion. You may see someone and go, "Damn, I wonder if that person's single." You may see that same person at a different time and go, "They have nice eyes, I guess."
Lastly, let's look at AroAceSpike.
Note: I don't know if this is the correct flag.
AroAceSpike individuals generally don't feel any romantic or sexual attraction, but they will occasionally feel a strong romantic or sexual attraction for a brief moment of time. Some will use only this term to describe their sexual orientation while others will use an additional orientation label. They'll use this additional label to describe the type of romantic or sexual attraction they periodically feel. For example, a biromantic AroAceSpike individual will periodically feel romantic attraction towards the opposite and same gender as themselves; whereas, a homosexual AroAceSpike individual will periodically feel sexual attraction towards the same gender as themselves. They may see someone and go, "Oh, they're so pretty. I could just drown in their eyes." A brief moment later, they look at this same person and go, "Oh, never mind. Whatever I felt for them before has gone."
I would like to close this post by saying that I fall solidly under the AroAce term. Never in my life have I experienced sexual or romantic attraction. I have experienced emotional and aesthetic attraction but not necessarily in regards to people. I react to a beautiful painting the same way that I react to someone who has very beautiful eyes. "Ah, that's pretty." And after that brief thought, I simply get on with the rest of my day. As a result, I may not have given the best descriptions or examples of Angled AroAce, Oriented AroAce, AroAceFlux, or AroAceSpike.
If you are AroAce and disagree with any of my definitions or would like to share your own AroAce experiences, please leave a comment in the notes. I just love connecting with all my fellow AroAces out there in the digital realm.
And if you're not AroAce, I'd still like to hear from you. Especially the other folks on the aro and ace spectrum. ❤️
Well, that's all I have for today. Until next time, take care and stay curious.
ghost reunion a bit too early
ppl who are aphobic are really pathetic lmao
you’re mad that nobody wants to fuck you so you project onto someone who chooses not to fuck?
you’re mad that others aren’t romantically attracted to you so you project onto someone who chooses not to be romantic?
okay suck it up buttercup cuz we really don’t want you either 💃
Dont trust any post i make with a yellow background, that means i did it very late at night while feeling uncharacteristically wistful and retrospective
I think about what Sabo feels about Ace often. What would he mourn most? The loss of a Friend, the grief of his brother, or the lack of a chance? How would he feel about someone who he only can see the waves of. Would he revere him? Would eating the fruit feel like a communion?
I dunno 🤷♀️
Bonus:
I want to read fluff and smut heacanons and fanfictions about A͟k͟a͟s͟h͟i͟ S͟e͟i͟j͟u͟r͟o͟ X͟ R͟e͟a͟d͟e͟r͟ X͟ N͟a͟s͟h͟ G͟o͟l͟d͟ J͟r͟ i͟n͟ a͟ p͟o͟l͟y͟r͟o͟m͟a͟n͟t͟i͟c͟ r͟e͟l͟a͟t͟i͟o͟n͟s͟h͟i͟p͟ BUT THERE IS NOT A SINGLE ONE AND YES I COULD WRITE SOME MYSELF BUT WRITING IS NOT MY STRONG POINT...!!
I have an Oc in a polyromantic relationship with these two and can writing about them but I'm lazy, don't have the energie and like I said, writing has never been my strong point so...
Still hoping to find at least one well-written one day... ;-;💔
the birth of satan 🦚
The prefect was lucky not to end up propelled into the air...
French / Introvert / AroAce/ Agender and Xenogender (I'm okay with all pronouns) / One Piece and KNB fan / Like mangas and animes + my comfort characters.
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