I'm Glad And It Comforts Me That You're One Of The Ace Ppl Who Enjoy School And Who Haven't Been Too

I'm glad and it comforts me that you're one of the ace ppl who enjoy school and who haven't been too annoyed or be in this kind of situation that made you uncomfortable ! 💞

If only it was possible to leave and get away from the person when we're in a classroom (for example)... I have always said that I'm aroace and sex-repulsed with the ppl I was hanging out with and close to. Always. But it comes back to the fact that they forgot or invisibilized (involuntarily or voluntarily...) and told me about their sex life... (I hate them so much it's crazy !)

WHILE I HAD JUST SHARED AND SAID MY BOUNDARIED AND WHAT SUBJECTS BOTHERED ME OR THAT I DON'T LIKE/HATE !

Positive point : I have cut ties for a long time with my former college/ high school classmates with whom I hung out.

I'm well aware that some allos ppl are not comfortable talking about this kind of subject but unfortunately I was surrounded by many horny asf ones, from college to high school + post high school... I still hope to be surrounded by ppl, allos or non-allos, with whom to hang out, are benevolent and understanding towards me and other living beings !

Anyway, it warms my heart that you're surrounded by caring and supportive friends ! Really. 😊

Also, I hope to meet an aroace person (or somewhere on both spectrums), that I could consider as a friend, with whom we would share the same interests and values or even be in a queer platonic relationship whith !

(I unfortunately have specific and high criteria to the point of no longer being able to consider a classmate as a friend -not for lack of having tried several times but I no longer can. Thanks traumas lol :/)

I agree with you, unfortunately aphobia (+ morons, and still I weigh my words !! 🤬) is too present everywhere and this is one of the reasons why I prioritize the aro and ace community in the queer community and hate allos ppl... and I know it’s stupid asf and disrespectful but the allonormative society has always pissed me off.

Sorry I talk too much about my life and must pass for a person who only complains lol. X)

It makes me happy to read that someone shares the same feeling as me. By the way, happy pride month !

Ps : I hope my english is not too disgusting and incomprehensible to read. ^^'

I had the reflection not long ago of why I was uncomfortable at school (regardless of grade level) apart from stress because of the oral to pass and being an introverted person :

Being aroace and have to stay stuck a whole damn day surrounded by allos pp horny asf and who will not understand me, who tell me about their s€x life (at what point do you think it’s fckin normal to talk about it as if it was a banal and interesting subject ?? Wtf ???💀) without taking into account whether it made me uncomfortable or not (I think they didn’t give a shit because it didn’t come to their mind, those dumbass...).

Being surrounded by queer pp but none of them had defended me when I had received acephobia from a straight guy one day and only watched the scene without saying anything. The fact that most of them with whom I hung out invisibilized or even forgot my aromantism by remembering only my asexuality (bitches I'm aroace dammit. I’m both. Not one or the other !) and couldn't remember or didn't know the definition of being aro or ace.

But the worst I would say is that by dint of receiving arophobia and acephobia in about twenty years in the face, as an angry person by nature and who doesn't appreciate disrespectful pp etc, I became allophobe...

But let’s be clear : I don’t hate all allos pp ! Even if I speak in general, be aware that : generality =/= globality !

I know that some of them are decent, respectful and open-minded and these are the pp I appreciate ! Unfortunately, I have never met someone like that before. Maybe one day...

So to return to the subject :

Am I the only aroace person to be uncomfortable at school ??

It's a bit rough sorry and sorty again if my english is bad, it's not my native language but I hope you will understand the essential !

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I had the reflection not long ago of why I was uncomfortable at school (regardless of grade level) apart from stress because of the oral to pass and being an introverted person :

Being aroace and have to stay stuck a whole damn day surrounded by allos pp horny asf and who will not understand me, who tell me about their s€x life (at what point do you think it’s fckin normal to talk about it as if it was a banal and interesting subject ?? Wtf ???💀) without taking into account whether it made me uncomfortable or not (I think they didn’t give a shit because it didn’t come to their mind, those dumbass...).

Being surrounded by queer pp but none of them had defended me when I had received acephobia from a straight guy one day and only watched the scene without saying anything. The fact that most of them with whom I hung out invisibilized or even forgot my aromantism by remembering only my asexuality (bitches I'm aroace dammit. I’m both. Not one or the other !) and couldn't remember or didn't know the definition of being aro or ace.

But the worst I would say is that by dint of receiving arophobia and acephobia in about twenty years in the face, as an angry person by nature and who doesn't appreciate disrespectful pp etc, I became allophobe...

But let’s be clear : I don’t hate all allos pp ! Even if I speak in general, be aware that : generality =/= globality !

I know that some of them are decent, respectful and open-minded and these are the pp I appreciate ! Unfortunately, I have never met someone like that before. Maybe one day...

So to return to the subject :

Am I the only aroace person to be uncomfortable at school ??

It's a bit rough sorry and sorty again if my english is bad, it's not my native language but I hope you will understand the essential !


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8 months ago
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It was a nice addition that helped with Akashi Masaomi's character. He made Seijuurou study everything, but at least he was there himself to watch over his son instead of just throwing a mountain of work at Seijuurou and leaving the kid to himself. While he was distant and did not seem to give much thought to Seijuurou's feelings, he did try to spend time for his son despite the workload of a CEO, and I think that made him a little better than how he was depicted earlier.

Also: "Did Masaomi love Shiori?"

I think this question was brought up some time before and the answer was behind this panel. The English translation above said "as though he'd forgotten she had ever existed" - in past perfect tense, giving the impression of "he had already forgotten about her". The Japanese dialogue said "それを忘れようとする" which meant "Masaomi tried to forget Shiori existed". And it's obviously different.

I'd like to believe the reason why Masaomi did that was the fact that an Akashi isn't allowed to show weakness. This is likely something he was taught as a child, as shown when his expectations for Seijuurou wasn't because "you are my son", but because "you are an Akashi". It's a family tradition thing, and Masaomi was another victim to it. He tried to forget about Shiori's death (maybe tried to make his son do it too), as the negative feelings that came with it would get in the way of being the perfect leader he (Seijuurou) had (will have) to be.

I believe he did love her after all. He was in pain just like Seijuurou, and buried that pain by focusing on pushing Seijuurou harder which ended up hurting the kid even more, which was sad for both of them.

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French / Introvert / AroAce/ Agender and Xenogender (I'm okay with all pronouns) / One Piece and KNB fan / Like mangas and animes + my comfort characters.

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