As a ace/aro baby writer, I need this. Thank you ππ
For aro/ace writers:
- you don't have to write sex scenes. Tolkien didn't
- you don't have to write romance. Lewis didn't
- you can write very close friendships that have nothing romantic nor sexual in them. Scott Lynch did
- you can write sexual relationships that don't involve romance. Sapkowski did
- you can write romantic relationships that don't involve sex. Pratchett and Gaiman did
Don't let anyone tell you that some kinds of relationships are impossible or that a story must contain some themes. It's your story, write it the way you want
the idea of public restrooms as "women's spaces" continues to confound me. you know who I hope is in a public bathroom when I go in?? no one. I would prefer no one else be in the bathroom. and if someone else is in the bathroom I am going to ignore them as much as possible. I did not go into the bathroom to connect with other women. I went into the bathroom to piss and/or shit. it's a toilet's space, not a women's space. shut the fuck up and let trans people piss and shit in peace. let's all continue to avoid eye contact with each other and any and all interaction in the toilet's space.
A butch wearing a βButch Baitβ shirt. Send post
itβs never too late to be the guy you have always dreamed of being, transition today!
New set of completed papercrafts Iβm making to sell at LA Comic Con this fall! :)
you guys need to be normal about people who don't like penetration. people who don't get hard easily. people who finish quickly. people who participate in kink without having sex. people who don't like being touched. people who don't like giving head. people who only like penetration. people who (almost) always squirt. people who take a long time to cum. people who have a hard time getting wet. people who don't talk during sex or anything else that is not part of the way you think people or bodies should behave during sex
"feminine urge" "she/they coded" "girl [thing]" the way social media commodifies and memefies gender roles these days is so fucking weird dude.
like idk maybe we should be doing more to break the notion of separating behaviour by gender instead of reinforcing it but with quirky language
like i understand that sometimes people use these memes ironically and that's fine, but there's certainly a pattern developing and a lot of people use these memes a lot more earnestly than you'd think
I felt (and still do) the same when I read the book, but ignore it thinking that he written it to show how thick and horny teenages are
You can still have that statement without insulting jews, and/or anyone really
Remember that time John green wrote about two goyische teens kissing in the Anne Frank house and all major literary publications were like βHow Romantic πβ. Because making out inches away from where a child was led away at gunpoint to her slow and painful death is Relationship Goals. I just cannot believe he got away with that shit.
This time-lapse was taken over 6 days with a GoPro.
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Illustration by Charles Vess for Stardust by Neil Gaiman