Because so many littles have asked me about this topic. I decided to take an excisting post and I added some points to it because there was some information missing in my opinion.
💥 Unfortunately Tumblr is becoming filled with “Daddies” that don’t deserve to ever be called Daddy by any little, because these guys are just perverts/creeps in disguise. Here’s some ways to spot these “Fuckboy fake Daddies” as I like to call them, before they hurt you. 💥
1. He asks for nudes and insists you do whatever he says within hours of meeting you.
2. Doesn’t give you structure. Doesn’t act like a Daddy. There are no rules. No bed times. Nothing.
3. His compliments exclusively focus on your appearance, so he says things like “you look great” and “your boobs are amazing”, but you never get a compliment on your personality, character or what you have achieved today.
4. Is suspiciously quick to punish you. You’re always being told you’ve “been a bad girl”, you always feel like you’re not doing enough to make him happy.
5. He’s only ever really engaged in the convo when he needs something. Other times he’s distant or he is busy with work and barely tolerates you. You feel like you’re bugging him.
6. His profile icon is a picture of his dick, or of him shirtless, or something dumb like that. Further his blog will be full of just porn and nudes.
7. He never really feels like your Daddy, the relationship feels empty and hollow. He is never or barely there for you when you really need him. You still feel still alone and sad.
8. Calls you pet names so often that it becomes nauseating. Ends every sentence with “little one” and “princess” and “little girl”; it comes across like he’s trying too hard.
9. He doesn’t seem interested about learning more about DD/lg and BDSM. You won’t find him reblogging long text posts such as this on his blog (instead it’ll be 100% sexual content).
10. He doesn’t seem to want to find out more about you to get to know the real you. Like what you do, your mental issues, your family, friends and so on.
11. Can be very mean and hurtful when he doesn’t get his way. Doesn’t understand how sensitive littles can be and is quick to make harsh personal comments.
12. Somebody who just likes to be called in the bedroom Daddy.
he has hat 🍃 x
i myself am a online flip with a carer lean, and these are some things that i’ve picked up from experience and others that makes things easier to manage :)
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☆- first things first, figure out what timezone it is for your regressor. knowing this makes communication a lot easier.
☆- keep messages shorter, reading can be a lil hard when regressed
☆- if you’re both comfortable with rp, say things inside two “*” so your little can feel closer to you! (ex: *gives you a bigg hug* )
☆- try to use emoji and/or tone tags that way your little can make out your emotions better
☆- if you’re regressor has rules, remind/reinforce them throughout the day! (ex: reinforce bedtimes as it gets closer)
☆- only if you’re both comfortable, you can send each other photos throughout the day! you can send selfies, activities, meals, whatever y’all would like! this can help you both feel a little closer :)
☆- send cute post, gif, plushies, etc! this could possibly help them regress! and just the thought of them squealing over a cute post is just adorable to me ^^
☆- try to avoid saying “gtg” but instead “i’ll be right back” so it doesn’t worry your little one as much
☆- speaking of ways to not worry your little, if your cutie pie is a little bit clingy, tell them before you leave for a bit and about how long it’ll be before you can talk again :D
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those are all the tips i have for now ^^; but i hope this helps a little bit :)
psst! part two here
fairy cow
"I crave the most innocent parts of a relationship. Like holding hands, forehead kisses and being able to tell someone how much I adore them."
I LOVE COWS
Cow agere board
DNI: Kink, nsfw, 18+, (no)maps, proship, dd/lg or variants even if "sfw", hate/discourse, violence/gore/yandere, pro-ed/thinspo
How do I know if I'm dealing with a bad or fake Dom? And is it possible to be used by a bad Dom for sexual purposes?
I'm going to answer the second question first then the first question.
Yes. Absolutely. 100% yes. Bad doms are primarily only interested in sex. They only care about their own pleasure and their own comfort. Bad doms have little to no consideration to others about how you feel and what you want out of a dynamic.
Dynamics are about structure, safety, and communication. With bad doms some of this maybe missing.
Some bad doms will give you "structure" but not enforce it. For example you have to drink 32 Oz of water Per day. But they don't check in on it and they don't enforce with a agreed upon punishment when you dont complete the task.
Some bad doms won't be safe when playing. Using toys in an improper and unsafe way like using belts around your neck, using unsafe rope putting you in a compromising position not checking in on you during a scene.
Some Really Realy REALLY bad doms will cast aside or just ignore what you've communicated to them. For example if you don't like anal then either preessuring you to do it or just doing it when you don't have the ability to say no or when your in a position you can't move. Or if you say your safeword and they don't care and keep going. Or if they punish you when you use a safeword.
Bad doms may miss a couple of these or just miss one of them. But they will show themselves eventually. And it's never your fault. It's never the fault of the submissives for what's done to them. It's the fault of the dominant that you have given the power to that needs to act accordingly.
-“all about me!” list all your favorite things! then draw a fun self portrait!
-“games!” write down a bunch of fun games to play while feelin small! maybe doodle some of your favorite things from those games!
-“in my bag!” draw your favorite backpack/bag, then doodle all the things you’d put in it!
-“baby wishlist!” make a checklist of all the gear you want! then when you’re able to get it, you can check it off!
-“likes/dislikes!” draw a line in the middle of the page and label one side “likes”, and the other “dislikes”! draw or write in things you like and dislike!
-“treasure map!” youre pretending to be a pirate for this one!! >:D draw out the route you plan to take for your next adventure! will you be going through a jungle? over a rainbow? it’s up to you!! :D
-“small playlist!” make a list of all your favorite tiny time songs!
-“about ____!” pick something fun to learn about! write down a few facts about it and draw a lil picture! (animals n bugs are the best to learn about imo!!) and you could do this prompt more than once with different things!! ^^
-“design a paci!” draw a plain paci, and use stickers, crayons, glitter, or any other fun material to decorate it how you want!!
-“story time!” write your very own short story! or draw your very own comic! make up fun characters n draw them if you like!
-“yummies!” write down recipes for your favorite snacks or drinks! maybe doodle or glue in a picture as well!
-“A is for...” on lined paper, write a letter of the alphabet on each line! then write something you like that starts with that letter next to it!
-“the great outdoors!” collect some leaves, grass, and/or flowers from outside! put them underneath your paper and color over them lightly with a colored pencil or crayon n see the print it makes! :D
-“my morning routine!” write down your morning routine!
-“reasons to smile!” list as many reasons to smile as you can!! and look back on that page when you’re feelin down! <3
-“baby hands!” get some non-toxic washable paint! (crayola is good for this!) and use a paintbrush to paint your hand or finger tips with paint! press them onto the paper n add silly faces or make them look like bugs!
i hope this list helps with starting or working in your agere journal!!
{DNI: k!nk, nsfw, ddlg/variants, t/abdl, pedo/map, racist, anti-lgbt}
to comfort and/or motivate <3
“It’s okay to feel small.”
“I believe in my big self and my little self.”
“I’m allowed to be a child when I need to.”
“I’m allowed to feel negative feelings.”
“My bad days don’t make my good days any less valid.”
“I’m proud of myself, no matter if I’m big or small.”