Mood

Not every tale has a happy ending…

holy crap. i just realized just how truly awful some people are. it’s worse to say ‘i accept you’ but be a douche about it than to openly not accept them (not to extremes, obviously)

Acceptance

My mom “accepts me”, but she “knows I only chose to be bisexual so I didn’t have to break up with my girlfriend when she started transition.”

My dad “accepts me” but often reminds me that “monogamy is important no matter who you’re attracted to” because bi girls are more likely to cheat.

My girlfriend’s mom “accepts her” but won’t use her chosen name and only uses the right pronouns half the time.

My pan friend’s mom “accepts her” but still calls her girlfriend her “best friend” because she “knows my friend will find the right boy someday”

A gay guy I met in class has parents that “accept him” but when he said he was being bullied for his sexuality said that “he should just be less public about it.”

None of us have been kicked out. We still talk to our parents. They give us food and clothes and help pay college tuition. They haven’t threatened to kill us. They haven’t actually killed us.

They “accept us”

But no they don’t.

Not kicking your kid out/not murdering them cannot be the standard of acceptance. It’s not accepting. It’s almost nothing.

If you want to be a wonderful accepting parent to a LGBTQ+ kid, you have to listen to what they say and trust them. You have to do your research and understand that this is who they are and it’s not up to them. You have to do anything you can to make their lives easier because the rest of the world is already going to make them go through hell.

And if you’re not ready to trust your kid and love them no matter what, don’t call yourself progressive or accepting.

You’re just a dick.

I decided to start reading Shakespeare so I would have something else to quote instead of memes

not at all! we get to know the pan first, maybe take it out to lunch/dinner a few times

why is keysmashing a gay/bottom thing please give me answers

I just realized that I actually have people who care about what I have to say. Thank you 2019-isbitingmeintheass, falloutchemicalveils, and chriswallastattoos.

I had an idea: a lesbian werewolf and a lesbian vampire. It’s double gay because in everything ever werewolves and vampires are enemies and not supposed to like each other

this. this is why i’m here.

new job.

what about short guys

Short girls reblog if you agree

you can make water wet by putting ice in a cup of water because when ice melts it makes whatever it’s touching wet and water. alternate experiment is to put water in a cup made of ice and then let the cup melt because water in the cup is making the cup wet and then it . . . I realized that this was gonna go on way too long for it to be obviously a joke

Is water wet?

No. To be wet, it can’t already be a liquid, but has to be saturated in a liquid.

You can get a towel wet, but water can’t be wet because it’s already liquid, not saturated in one.