Signs of unhealthy masculinity in women:
- hating your natural female traits (breasts, hips)
- hating your voice or height
- irrational fear of being percieved as feminine by other people
- obsessing with gender roles (especially in relationships, metaattraction - being attracted to someone only because this person will affirm your masculinity)
- fear of being vulnerable, being uncomfortable with receiving sexual pleasure from your partner (in fear it will "feminise you", it comes from unhealthy views about womanhood and sexuality)
Signs of healthy masculinity in women:
- wanting to be fit and taking care of your body
- embracing all natural traits of your female body and respecting them
- having strenght that doesn't fear vulnerability with a trusted person (it takes strenght to be vulnerable)
- wisdom to recognise negative/sexist thought patterns
- having sexual boundries but not being afraid of having someone pleasure you because you know you deserve it and it's not degrading
- dressing however you want, make-up/no make-up doesn't matter, just wearing what you think makes you look good
- not caring about gender roles much (doesn't matter if sth you do will be seen as "feminine" or "masculine" by society, do what you want)
- having discipline and determination, facing your fears, focusing on self improvement
- being kind to yourself
recently I found a really cool male coach
and I think I'm also dissapointed in men as well
he's an older guy but he isn't like those therapists in my city
All they care about is:
- parties
- fucking
- they go to gym only to look buff and flex
Are sexist assholes and/or wimps with fragile masculinity.
I feel like a big part of it is this show off gender bs eating at people's brains, no matter if they're a man or a woman all they care about is putting on a show for people to prove their femininity/masculinity and affirm it.
Secure femininity/masculinity doesn't need to prove itself so badly. It goes beyond gender ideology. This whole obsession with gender concept and conformity is fucked.
It's literally eating at people's brains like a parasite.
gender ideology is the biggest cancer to this earth
my sister hates her body she says her shoulders are too broad
my mother was always a woman who wasn't 100% feminine (like me) she was always shamed for that and called less of a woman, now she hates herself and how she looks even though she's in her 40's
this is what this bullshit does
honestly fuck drag, fuck your obsession with femininity and degredation of women who don't want to conform
I want to see women in leadership positions, I want to see women in the military, police forces being generals, ordering men around.
I want to see real strong beautiful women who are not afraid to be smart, be tough and say whatever they want to say and do whatever they want to do. Fuck your disgusting gender ideology bs.
radical lesbian feminists say they're okay with masculine women AS LONG AS they don't have masculine personality, values or interests
cutting your hair short, wearing suits and ties, having bodyhair, being a "stone butch": fine
valuing honor, having "male gaze", high libido, liking weapons: YOU NEVER HAD A PROPER MOTHER FIGURE IN YOUR LIFE THIS IS WHY YOU'RE A PORNSICK PICK ME WHO SUPPORTS THE PATRIARCHY!!
all types of SECURE masculinity in women are okay, as long as it's not compleatly averse or disgusted by femininity
we are supposed to challenge gender roles and just because I have other interests than most women, it doesn't make me a "man" or a "pick me"
I'm proud to be my own kind of woman
Alstroemeria
the price I have to pay for being myself is profound, bone freezing loneliness
all my friendships are short and fleeting, I think I'm deeply misunderstood by pretty much everyone
I very often feel like I have truly noone I can talk to so I write my thoughts down, I can only really trust myself when it comes to them
sometimes you have to look over the wall to remind yourself that - it's not okay
looking over the wall of a place you're feeling safe in can give you an insight into what's fucked about this world
take that lesson - have courage to be different
say: "NO" even if you're the only one who says it, be the example
it honestly motivates me as bad as it is, it really does... every horrible thing I see tells me that I should be different and that I should protect others who were in the same position I was in, especially if everyone else seems to be ignorant about it
it took me a while to realise that some life lessons are really freaking painful and it's normal to cry, to feel pain and fear but also listen to what that pain is telling you "this is not okay" "this is wrong" "it shouldn't be this way"
most of the time - your body is right
be different, do better
arranged marriage is rape
there is no "it's a different culture" excuse - it's rape. period .
I hate how in my woke uni they're teaching us that there is "different morality" than morality that is against women being raped and treated like objects. Leftism will defend rape of women as long as the rapist isn't white and christian.