So true
gay gay im gay as fuck
Question (/gen)
where can I get a bra that I can use as a binder? Or like, good bras I can use as a binder?
I want something I can hide from my family. so maybe something from like Walmart or Target or something. Preferably not from Amazon or an online site. And If it is from online, then it can’t say ‘binder’ or ‘compression bra’ or anything like that.
Thankies
i need to prove a point on my parents
please reblog this if you think that missing school because you're on ur period and you're not feeling well either physically or emotionally is completely valid
As a musical theater fan, flirting is so hard. Like, do I drop a chandelier on him? Do I sneak in through his window in the middle of the night? Do I tell him he strikes me as a woman who has never been satisfied? Do I give him a paper flower? Do I go to punch him in the eye but kiss him instead? Do I tell him that if I took a meat cleaver down the center of his skull, I’d have matching halves? Do I throw an ear of corn across the room in his line of sight? Do I turn him into a scarecrow? Do I tell him I’m not moving into a nunnery? Do I pretend to be friends with his dead brother? Do I set him up with the girl of his dreams and then sing a song about how he never notices me? Somebody help. I suck at this.
I tried to scroll past this. I really did
literally we need to get rid of the stigma of questioning once and for all.
call yourself gay. call yourself ace. call yourself a lesbian today and a nonbinary bi trans man tomorrow. its fine. literally no community has ever been harmed by someone thinking that label might apply to them and then discarding it later. anyone who says otherwise is drinking the exclusionary kool-aid and isn’t worth the time it would take to argue with them.
- Queer character says/does homophobic things to repress their feelings and protect their straight image: Nick is confused about his sexuality, but he never turns to homophobia or toxic masculine behavior in order to ward off rumors about his sexuality
- Queer character breaks up with partner because they're closeted: Charlie breaks things off with Ben because he doesn't actually care about Charlie and is emotionally abusive, not because Ben is in the closet. When Nick and Charlie start dating, Charlie respects Nick's desire to keep things a secret for the meantime.
- Queer character is "flamboyant" or displays "effeminate" or "tomboyish" traits: Ironically, Tao (the "token straight friend") is the most "extra" and flamboyant character. Additionally, Nick's interest in traditionally masculine activities such as rugby does not preclude him from being queer.
- Someone catches queer couple being intimate and outs them to everyone: Isaac walks in on an affectionate moment between Nick and Charlie but never says anything about it, even if he can detect the attraction between the two of them. No one walks in on Charlie and Nick sharing their first kiss in public at the bowling alley. They can just enjoy the moment together!
- Queer character pretends or tries to be straight by dating someone of the opposite gender: While Ben does fit this trope, Nick subverts it when he cancels his date with Imogen and tells her that he doesn't have romantic feelings for her. And contrary to expectations that Imogen might be jealous and retaliate in some way, she accepts that Nick doesn't like her and appears to be supportive of his relationship with Charlie at the end of the show.
- Parents reject their child when they come out: Charlie's parents are seen being supportive of him and expressing concern about potential bullying. When Nick comes out to his mum, she is completely accepting, telling him she loves him, hugging him, and apologizing for saying anything that made it difficult to confide in her.
- Female characters kiss for the enjoyment of male characters: When Nick sees Tara and Darcy kiss at Harry's party, he is empowered to pursue his own feelings for Charlie and be himself. He doesn't objectify or fetishize them in any way.
- Trans characters can't be in straight relationships: Tao and Elle clearly have feelings for each other, and her being trans doesn't matter in the slightest!
- Queer character signals acceptance of their identity through dramatic public announcement: Nick could have done this by kissing Charlie in front of all the other students after running off the field during Sports Day, but instead, his moments of self-acceptance are quiet, intimate celebrations (e.g., Nick telling Charlie he is "definitely bisexual" and saying "Oh my god, I like you so much. And I love liking you" to Charlie on their beach date)
Feel free to add more!
know the Statistics (from NWW)
Indigenous Women (girls +) murdered 10x higher than all other ethnicities.
Murder is the 3rd leading cause of death for Indigenous Women (Centers for Disease Control).
More than 4 out of 5 Indigenous Women have experienced violence (84.3%) (National Institute of Justice Report).
More than half Indigenous Women experience sexual violence (56.1%).
More than half Indigenous Women have been physically abused by their intimate partners (55.5 percent).
less than half of Indigenous Women have been stalked in their lifetime (48.8 percent).
Indigenous Women are 1.7 times more likely than women to experience violence.
Indigenous Women are 2xs more likely to be raped than white women.
Murder rate of Indigenous Women is 3xs higher than white women
donate:
also recommend checking in with your local tribes to see if they have domestic violece shelters or their own MMIP initiatives
if you're new to the potc fandom jack is bi btw we called dibs he's ours
in case it hasn’t been clear, this blog is firmly and unwaveringly pro-choice.
*lemony snicket voice* police cars say ‘protect and serve’ for the same reason a box of dry, unflavoured rice cakes might say ‘delicious treat’. rice cakes are not a delicious treat, nor are the police there to protect and serve, but if you are unfamiliar with either you’re likely to believe what you’re told.
i think we forget about the most important thing heartstopper did for the queer community and that is showing keysmash on television for the first time.
okay i know it's supposed to be tragic and all but when gay people ask their love interests to run away together with them without warning i kind of get why they always refuse. like. you want me to run away with you now? like right now? without even giving me time to pack my things? i need 3-5 business days' warning just to decide what pizza toppings i want when we order takeout you can't just do this to me
since some of yall (mostly racist white people and c**ns) got upset with me the other day about supporting black fanfiction writers, i decided to explain to you all about why i said what i said.
A cabin in the woods with a library, and wifi, a cozy bed and giant sweaters. Thats all I need.
I’ve binge-watched The Owl House, and I absolutely love it, it’s cute, funny, got soul, original, there’s magic and demons and monsters, it’s great. However, I have a beef to settle. I know the latest episode is a lot, Amity.exe stopped working and Luz is Goku levels of oblivious. Amity’s crush being as subtle as a drunk truck driver is so important for LGBTQ+ rep, and it’s worth talking about as long as possible. Also people are simping on Bosha for some reason?
I know this is all worth taking most of the conversation. However, I cannot believe
I repeat
That this kid’s face
… Is not a meme yet !
I expect BETTER from you!
There’s SO MUCH POTENTIAL!
Here, I’ll give you a few examples. Wanna talk about Luz’s obliviousness?
Here we go! Too classic? Too “old school”? Let’s spice things up a bit shall we?
Wanna talk about something other than the show? I gotchu fam!
Too basic again? I know, depression and anxiety memes are where it’s at! (TW: existential crisis)
And finally, guys, gals, and non-binary pals, let us not forget the classic lens flare
Come on, folks, help me out here, I’m not gonna do your job for you! Make me proud! This needs to become a meme!!!!!
K, BYE!
So I went to ysa with my straight friend (yes this matters) on sunday and her dad told us to go "straight there and straight back" We ended up getting lost and doing some other stuff that made us two hours back. She then made the joke that we went "Bi there and trans back"
I'm both proud that she made that joke and angry I didn't come up with it myself
This thread on reddit is making me lose it in class
Let’s hear it for bagel & cream cheese