things that happened to me when i was a woman in STEM:
an advisor humiliated me in front of an entire lab group because of a call I made in his place when he wouldn't reply to my e-mails for months
he later delegated part of my master's thesis work to a 19-year old male undergrad without my approval
a male scientist at a NASA conference looked me up and down and asked when i was graduating and if i was open to a job at his company. right before inquiring what my ethnicity was because i "looked exotic"
a random male member of the public began talking over me and my female advisor, an oceanographer with a pHD and decades of experience, saying he knew more about oceanography than us
things that have happened to me since becoming a man in STEM:
being asked consistently for advice on projects despite being completely new to a position
male colleagues approaching me to drop candid information regarding our partners / higher ups that I was not privy to before
lenience toward my work in a way I haven't experienced before. incredible understanding when I need to take time off to care for my family.
conference rooms go silent when I start talking. no side chatter. I get a baseline level of attention and focus from people that's very unfamiliar and genuinely difficult for me to wrap my head around.
like. yes some PI's will still be assholes regardless of the gender of their subordinates but, I've lived this transition. misogyny in STEM is killing women's careers, and trans men can and do experience male privilege.
Headcanon: in warrior cats when a cat transitions the leader announces it at the next gathering by saying "(Cat) has given their identity to StarClan, and the one that StarClan gave them in return is named (Cat's New Name) and they wish to be referred to as a (gender)."
science fiction as a genre was invented specifically to show lesbians some greasy sweaty women in tank tops fixing machinery
So rn the US government is starting to defund the National Parks Service, and while this is a bad thing largely because it's mainly being done to open up the possibility of oil drilling in a lot of those areas, I think it also needs to be said that no the National Parks Service was not just there to "protect natural wonders" or whatever. It was there because a lot of those places are incredibly important land to a lot of Indigenous Peoples and if you give it special status that means you can't live on it you can make the natives leave easier because they get arrested if they don't. Like I am very much not in favor of this change as it is being done but I don't think we should respond to it with wholehearted praise of the National Parks System either. Please know the history of the land you live on and visit.
imagine how much of a fucking horrible person you have to be that on the first day your elected into office the crisis calls of a Suicide Prevention Project Go Up 33%. The Trevor Project Received over 1,400 Call By Early Monday Afternoon. Most of those calls, if not all, are coming from children. Children scared of you and what you will do. Imagine how much power and how horrible you have to be to do that.
The real will wood (and tapeworm) I saw in my dream yesterday
“And if dreams can come true, what does that say about nightmares?”
^^ The tweet is not REAL*
But this is real B)
american leftists seem extremely focused on anti imperialism (good) but rarely- if at all- discuss decolonization in their own fucking country, despite acknowledging that it is a settler colonial state.
Why do we call our parents mom and dad or their siblings aunts and uncles. Why do we call teachers and strangers Ms. or Mr.? Why can’t I call my mom Megan or my dad Joe? Why can’t I call my history teacher Kevin? I already call my adult roommates by their first names and I’m barely a teen. I get it “respect and blabitty blah!” But, how would you feel if you were addressed as Mr. Madden all the time. Just let Kevin shine.
ATP I'm convinced the entire cast of Sonic is a polycule
I got Quailwhistle which I'm now stealing for my fanfiction
spin this wheel for a prefix, and then spin this wheel for a suffix
as a bonus you can spin this wheel to find ur role in the clan (note: spin twice if you get apprentice)