is it a first house ketu experience to have spirits attack you in your sleep? particularly when your really cold for some reason?
i remember when i was HUNGGGG up on my ex, at night when i got cold i literally had such bad sleep paralysis and woke up to spirits that were dark and looked like evil fairies attack me but never show their face. this was also during the time i was experiencing a spiritual awakening
maybe it was acc a nightmare and has nothing to do with being a ketu 1st houser. my ex said he was fighting demons and ngl when i got depressed abt him i has those experiences đź’€
Hi, in your post you said Venus aspecting Pluto and mars aspecting Pluto can make you attached, especially after sex. I have Venus square Pluto ( Venus in Pisces), and mars sextile Pluto (Aquarius mars). Do you think I shouldn’t have sex. I haven’t yet, but you’re right I get so attached before I even date someone. I’m so afraid that losing my virginity will make me clingy and annoying. I currently make sure to close off my emotions and isolate myself, and I don’t tell people how I feel, out of fear of it being too much.
Hey girl!
Girl to be honest I’d advise to do the opposite. I understand your fears, but believe me there are people out there who are just as passionate about love and relationships as you may be. Since you have easier aspects with mars, I notice people with easier aspects being able to be very attached to their partner but also have an easier time not crossing the line from being passionate to being borderline obsessive, especially sexually since mars is a planet of sex and desire and since you have mars in aquarius the ability to be become sexually detached when it’s not being reciprocated is something that can be learned in time. with venus squaring pluto, and having a venus in pisces, i’d advice you to trust your intuition with someone and to not overlook the red flags within a relationship because since pisces can often time do so, people can take advantage of it. allowing yourself to feel passionate with someone but not allowing yourself to do so where you lose yourself or when you know it’s not reciprocated by the other person (when they aren’t showing signs that they reciprocate it). i knew someone with pisces venus squaring pluto and they were super obsessed with someone who clearly did not reciprocate that and they used them for attention. it’s just having clear boundaries with yourself in seeing the reality of things and being selective of who you choose to be in a relationship with. and I advise that although you deserve to feel passionate, when you become too infatuated with someone it will hurt you more than it does them.
About your virginity, I’d advice it to lose it to someone you truly trust and who you know won’t make you feel clingy or annoying bc GIRL U AINT EITHER OF THAT! you deserve to have a sexual experience with someone who doesn’t fear intimacy and closeness! When I said people can be clingy with those aspects, they can usually become more emerged with their partner and can become paranoid because they’re afraid of opening up to a person just for them to not reciprocate.
overall i’d advice using intuition and discernment, allowing yourself to be passionate with someone but understanding who is reciprocating that energy and who isn’t (whoever isn’t KICK THEM TO THROUGH CURB FAST!) and allowing your self to have a healthy attachment with someone so you don’t lose yourself to your partner and to have better trust with and in your partner, and realize that you shouldn’t close yourself off due to the fear of being too much because there are people in the world who will validate you and help you realize that your not too much!
Sorry for the long response but I hope that helped🥺🥺🫶🏾
this thread is, just wow. i wish this was the stuff they teach in schools.
For example Frederick Douglas’ wife did so much for his ungrateful ass. She helped him get on his feet, gave him her last name, and supported him financially and took care of house and home. And in return was does this nigga do? He lets white abolitionists tear her down and treat her like a slave in HER HOUSE. Moved two bitches into HER HOUSE over a span of 20 years. Belittles her for being illiterate while using HER MONEY. Not even in death does she get the respect she deserves. His last wife is more recognized as being apart of his life than she was. Just trash. And y'all still normalize that shit as if it’s a black woman’s job to struggle. Fuck that.
Like do not push their buttons though. However, with personal experiences with the Taurus portion of Krittika they are more likely to get angry and rage for like 10-30 minutes and then the next minute-
So many guys are so ugly but all girls are beautiful. That's why there shouldn't be any beauty indicators for women because there's no such thing as "ugly women", women that look bad don't exist. Men on the other hand, there should only be beauty indicators for men, cuz why are the majority of them so fucking ugly, every time I go in public, I see women and I'm like "fucking goddesses, the most beautiful creature that I've ever laid my eyes on" and then I see men, their pants are hanging so low you can see their hairy ass, they look like a fucking bear (just uglier), no fashion sense, and just not groomed. The men i personally know look good, but in public....beautiful women significantly outnumber beautiful men. If you're a woman, you're beautiful, you just are, I don't need to see you to say that. I just know.
my sun dk is screaming they all have sun ak with a yang nakshatra like???? ugh
if u have had experiences with a mars dk guy lmkkkkkk
me dating men with sun ak with a mars dk, next time i see a mars dk im running the opposite way!!!!
men with mars dk want to be treated as princesses. they act like YOU'RE the one who should plan dates, open the door for them, pump their gas like 🤮🤮 be a fucking man!!!!
There are way too many sons out here where their Mothers kiss the floor they walk on, but a young girl is held to an impossibly higher standard.
As a black woman, and in our community sons who do degenerate things are constantly being praised and given grace to due "white supremacy", but a black girl who gets abused by the very same men never gets that same grace. Look how people baby Kanye due to him losing his mother versus the high standard they put on Megan who also lost her mom. That comparison (there are so many more stories) let alone should be a definition of the grace men for doing shitty things despite whatever issues they blame their mothers for.
It's audacious. No shade to the original OP though 🙂🫶🏾
A common argument I hear about men's maltreatment of women is that they were raised poorly by their parents, particularly by their mother.
While I agree that mothers play a role in raising misogynistic men, I don’t think it's fair to pin it entirely on them. Because at the end of the day, men have a mind of their own and are free to make their own choices.
i have finally moved out from my pretty much toxic family. I made this comic when I literally had a break down while packing my things (im ok now)
Right now I'm living at my friends' place and I would really be grateful for any financial help in renting my own room
Even a dollar or two would really help http://paypal.me/fiznaru
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Empty markets, hungry stomachs, an unknown future, the threat of death, daily massacres... and every massacre and crime you can think of is happening now in Gaza.