Rosemarie333 - The Demon In Your Sleep.

All women (and I mean ALL) are on the pick-me spectrum. No woman is immune to patriarchal indoctrination, even if she grew up in a matriarchal household. We're all initially on the pick me spectrum. Thing is, are you deconstructing patriarchy? Are you deconstructing the socialization and deep-rooted programming? Like, are you putting in the work to actually change? Because calling yourself a "girl's girl" means NOTHING. Bashing overt pick-me's doesn't automatically absolve you from what little pick-me tendencies you have. Calling yourself a feminist means fuck-all actually.

And being male-centered doesn't mean you wouldn't pick your female friends over a man any day — although that's more of an extreme example which harms those outside of you. Being male-centered / pick-me could be as 'harmless' as planning your future around an imaginary man or seriously waiting for a man; "Oh I want to move to Paris by 30 but I can't because I want to meet my husband first", "Oh I'm studying hard only so that I can meet a very educated accomplished man when I'm educated and accomplished myself", "Oh I plan on moving to Spain only when I'm with my future boyfriend 😁✨". When you have to halt your plans or dreams to prioritize a man/imaginary man, that IS male-centered. When you center a man/imaginary man around your plans or dreams, that IS male-centered. Putting your wants + needs second for a man/future man is male-centered. Women are socialized to center men in even the "little" things.

Hey 💌 I’m Saja — a mother trying to hold onto hope through days that feel impossibly heavy.

I know you probably see a lot online, but if you could take just a moment… I’d be so grateful.

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@sajagz, thank you for listening.

Even gentle support creates strength.

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I’m not writing this to ask too much of anyone. I’m sharing a piece of my story — not because I want sympathy, but because I still believe someone, somewhere, might care enough to listen.

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i fucking hate how people are so comfortable using mental illness as an excuse for abusive behavior these days, especially when it comes to misogyny.

no, your favorite actor did not beat his girlfriend because he has bpd, he did that because he is a piece of shit misogynist who only sees women as objects. no, your brother does not make rape jokes because he's autistic, he makes rape jokes because he hates women.

plenty of people with mental illness go through life without acting like actual monsters, especially women. because the behavior that is considered acceptable from men is the same behavior that women would be hunted down like witches for.

i have finally moved out from my pretty much toxic family. I made this comic when I literally had a break down while packing my things (im ok now)

Right now I'm living at my friends' place and I would really be grateful for any financial help in renting my own room

Even a dollar or two would really help http://paypal.me/fiznaru

please reblog 🙏

i also have had really bad sleeping habits during tbh us transit. i don’t even sleep heavily throughout the day but i take a 2 hour nap and then right around bed time i’m awake until the morning. this pisses me off bc ??? I NEED SLEEP

i wonder if ketu going into my 12th soon will help🐈‍⬛

people with ketu in the 1st house, are you guys very sensitive to energy drinks/coffee?

i have ketu transiting my 1st house and I drank coffe before bed (i know that was stupid) and my body was lowkey shaking and now i have been awake for 12 hours and i’m going insane😩. i wonder if you guys also have bad sleeping habits as well.

LET ME KNOW!!

people with ketu in the 1st house, are you guys very sensitive to energy drinks/coffee?

i have ketu transiting my 1st house and I drank coffe before bed (i know that was stupid) and my body was lowkey shaking and now i have been awake for 12 hours and i’m going insane😩. i wonder if you guys also have bad sleeping habits as well.

LET ME KNOW!!

Krittika when you start messing with them

Like do not push their buttons though. However, with personal experiences with the Taurus portion of Krittika they are more likely to get angry and rage for like 10-30 minutes and then the next minute-

my sun dk is screaming they all have sun ak with a yang nakshatra like???? ugh

if u have had experiences with a mars dk guy lmkkkkkk

me dating men with sun ak with a mars dk, next time i see a mars dk im running the opposite way!!!!

men with mars dk want to be treated as princesses. they act like YOU'RE the one who should plan dates, open the door for them, pump their gas like 🤮🤮 be a fucking man!!!!

women who speak out against other women for men makes my ass itch bc WHY!??????

half of the time the women who do this the minute they change their rhetoric and start pressing men, men turn from “your so beautiful”, “your doing gods work”, “finally a women understand us”, to “YOU BITCH” and degrading her REAL QUICK

don’t do it 😭😭😭