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It feels like another time✨
Debbie Parker 2022
'Queen of Winter' by Marjorie Miller, 1933
'Queen of Winter' by Marjorie Miller, 1933
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Recently, I have been reflecting a lot about myself and my personal growth from the past year. This year was tough for me, academically and personally. And many, many, many things have not gone my way. So, I uh, I have kind of failed a lot this year? I think I have failed more in this past year than in the previous nineteen years of my life. I failed at my new job, I almost failed calculus, my grades have struggled all year long, I had to withdraw from my summer class, etc. As hard as this year has been, I definitely think I am a better person now that I am on the other side of it. I am so much stronger than I was June 29th of last year. I have had to grown up a lot, and learned some “big girl” lessons. So here are my thoughts on dealing with failure, in school and just in life in general, and how to tackle all the messy emotions that come along with it.
1.) Remember: college is a tough environment.
Most of my friends and acquaintances are all tirelessly working towards some impressive end goal (graduating, getting into med school, getting an internship). Many of my friends are also in hard programs, and must be at top performance at all times. I attend a competitive university, and so it really does seem like EVERYONE has their life together. Everyone I know has big dreams/goals/plans. We are all trying SO damn hard to succeed at our respective fields, and it can be hard to always be around successful, overachieving friends. Most of the time it is great– I have a great support system and I love to see all the great things my friends are doing…but
It can be so hard to not compare. It’s hard when everyone seems to have everything working out for them, and I don’t. Especially when I feel as though I put in an equal amount of effort. It is important to remember that first of all, it is impressive that you are even in college. You would not have gotten accepted into your university if you could not have handled the work. It is important to remember in school, that everyone goes through their struggles. Some struggles are just more apparent than others.
2.) It’s okay to not be perfect.
I know this can sound cheesy, but it is true. I struggle with perfectionism. I always feel like I need to be in top performance mode for school, but somedays, I just can’t be. I get tired, or sad, discouraged and stressed, just the same as everyone does. You aren’t a robot, and you can’t just go-go-go without stopping. Sometimes to you need to stop and take a break. It is okay to rest. Resting is not quitting. It is not failure.
3.) Reflect and learn from what happened…then MOVE ON.
I honestly think this is the most important point. It’s very important to look back on your past mistakes and think “What could I have done differently?”…Could I have studied more effectively? Could I have started planning earlier? Could I have been a better friend? Use your failures to your advantage– learn something from them. This is how you better yourself.
However, after wallowing in self-pity, and dwelling on whatever happened, move on. It is now in the past. It is done. It is hard to not be hard on yourself. Nobody is perfect. No one should expect you to be perfect, and you should not expect that of others.
4.) Failure is necessary.
Failure is the scary part about “putting yourself out there,” in every aspect of life. But, it does make you a tougher person. I have failed a lot in my life, but I can say with confidence that I have more grit than pretty much anyone else I know. I throw myself at my goals, but only get the desired results half the time. That is life. Life is not fair. I have such a steadfast grasp on what I want to do with my life, and I refuse to let any obstacle overcome that. My failures have made me realize how badly I want to achieve my dreams. If you are not comfortable with failing, then you are going to miss out on a lot of life experiences. It’s going to happen to you, no one is immune.
Well, I hope anything I said comforts at least one person. If anyone else out there isn’t having the best time, remember: it’s okay. You are doing enough just by trying. Go do great things, friends.
Listen to everything they’re taught, not just hearing
Take notes
Listen to opinions they don’t like
Be open to having their minds changed
Don’t listen to music with words when studying
Practise
Commit
Keep a regimen of self-discipline even in the face of a lack of motivation
Take breaks
Sleep regularly and more than expected
Work very hard during the day
Exercise
Plan in advance
Get small tasks done when there isn’t time to do bigger ones
Engage
Take failures as a learning curve
Think positively
Do their best work at the start of the year so they get more slack later
Talk to those who teach them
Debate
Do a little every day instead of all at once
Ask for help
Help others
Drink water
Work hard but work smart
Know what study setup is their most productive
Hold themselves accountable
Figure out which work is a priority
Don’t waste time re-reading as a form of studying
Find out things they don’t understand
Test themselves frequently
Work backwards through things to understand why something works
Learn more than they need
Have more interests and hobbies than just academics
Find out the most important concepts in a course
Learn the most important 20% of the course to get 80% of the grade
Don’t complain
Tailor their courses to focus on what interests them the most
Play hard after working hard
Read in advance
Know how to say no but don’t say no unless they have to
Take every opportunity they can
Eat well
Defend their personal beliefs
Don’t use other people’s successes/failures as an excuse for anything they do
Don’t let studying become the main part of their life
Understand that everything is temporary
Set goals, short- and long-term
Put their phones away/on silent when studying
Don’t expect any results immediately
Jenna Ortega
Amazonite: Confidence, Self-love, Creative Expression
Amethyst: Intuition, Balance, Higher Wisdom
Apatite: Energetic Clearing, Psychic Attunement, Authenticity
Aventurine: Prosperity, Well being, Good Luck
Angelite: Divine Love, Gentleness, Healing
Black Tourmaline: Protection, Banishing, Security
Black Onyx: Blocking Negativity, Patience, Determination
Blue Goldstone: Inspiration, Optimism, Dreaming
Blue Aventurine: Hope, Clear Speech, Empathy
Blue Calcite: Serenity, Restoration, Releasing Stress
Carnelian: Passion, Sexual energy, Creativity
Citrine: Brightness, Positive Energy, Clearing, Prosperity, Success
Clear Quartz: Awareness, Amplifying Energy, Clarity
Dalmatian Stone: Loyalty, Family Bonds, Connection to Animals
Fluorite: Renewal, Harmony, Energizing
Garnet: Self-Esteem, Victory, Eternal Love
Hematite: Courage, Inner Strength, Grounding
Howlite: Calming, Compromise, Sleep
Lapis Lazuli: Psychic Vision, Celestial Energy, Nobility
Labradorite: Awakening Joy, Interdimensional Travel, Innovation
Lepidolite: Emotional Balance, Stress Relief, Spiritual Growth
Leopardskin Jasper: Adaptability, Shamanic Journeys, Animal magick
Malachite: Wealth, Beauty, Individuality
Mahogany Obsidian: Earth Energy, Personal Power, Integrity
Moss Agate: Contentment, Connection with nature, Abundance
Moonstone: Intuition, Sensuality, Safe Travel
Prehnite: Shielding, Self-Care, Discernment
Pyrite: Shielding, Success, Money Magick
Red Goldstone: Happiness, Ingenuity, Boldness
Red Jasper: Strength, Honesty, Stability
Rhodonite: Forgiveness, Relationships, Overcoming
Rose Quartz: Unconditional Love, Emotional Healing, Compassion
Ruby Fuchsite: Integration, Friendship, Trust
Selenite: Purification, Peace, Enlightenment
Sodalite: Communication, Self expression, Truth
Serpentine: Hidden Mysteries, Observation, Instinct
Snowflake Obsidian: Spiritual Protection, Transmutation, Acceptance
Sunstone: Leadership, Generosity, Blessings
Tiger's Eye: Willpower, Warrior's spirit, Self-Motivation
Unakite: Attraction, Resolve Conflict, Healing the Past
Almond: Prosperity, wisdom
Apple: Love, healing
Ash: Protection, healing, prosperity
Aspen: Protection from thieves
Avocado: Love, lust, beauty
Banyan: Luck, knowledge
Beech: Creativity, tolerance
Birch: Rebirth, purification, protection of children, Moon matter
Bodhi: Meditation, wisdom, fertility, protection
Buckthorn: Exorcism, protection, legal matters
Cedar: Healing, purification, protection, prosperity
Cherry: Love, divination, healing
Cypress: Immortality- longevity, protection, strength, death, protection, wishes
Elder: Defends against evil and negative energy. Protection, health, spirituality, banishment
Elm: Protection, love
Fig: Fertility, balance, safety
Hawthorne: Protects against damage from storms, encourages happiness. Fertility and purification.
Hazel: Wisdom, abundance, protection, luck, divination, inspiration
Hickory: Legal matters
Holly: Protection, luck, dream magick, consecration, prosperity
Larch: Protection, anti-fire
Licorice: Love, fidelity
Lilac: Defends against harmful spirits, exorcism, love
Linden: Protection, luck, immortality, love
Magnolia: Fidelity
Maple: Love, prosperity, longevity, unification, divining rod
Mesquite: Healing, magical fires
Mimosa: Protection, dreams, love, purification
Mulberry: Protection, strength
Myrtle: Fertility, youth, love, peace, prosperity
Oak: Protection, health, luck, power, strength
Peach: Longevity, protection, fertility, divination, happiness
Pear: Lust, love
Pecan: Employment
Pepper tree: Purification, healing, protection
Pine: Protection, longevity, healing, fidelity, purification
Plum: Protection, the wild
Pomegranate: Wealth, money-attraction
Poplar: The Crone, astral projection, divination, rebirth
Rose: Love
Rowan: Protects health, healing, divination
Sandalwood: Protection, healing, exorcism, spirituality
Sassafras: Defends against evil and negative spirits, health, and propsperity
Walnut: Healing, mental powers, protection
Willow: Moon magick, protection, healing, divination, love
Witch Hazel: Protection, divination
Yew: Death, immortality, protection
Acacia: Burned with sandalwood to stimulate the psychic powers.
African Violet: Protection and to promote spirituality within the home.
Allspice: Attract both good luck and money.
Aloes: Attract good fortune, love, spiritual vibrations, and strength.
Althea: Protection and to stimulate the psychic powers.
Amber: Love, comfort, happiness and healing
Ambergris: Burn for dreams and aphrodisiac
Angelica: Protection, harmony, integration, insight and understanding, stability and meditation
Anise seeds: Meditation and emotional balance incense.
Basil: exorcise and protect against evil entities such as demons and unfriendly ghosts, and to attract fidelity, love, good luck, sympathy, and wealth. This is also an excellent incense to use when performing love divinations. Also burn for concentration, assertiveness, decisiveness, trust, integrity, enthusiasm, mental clarity, cheerfulness, confidence and courage
Bay: Facilitate the psychic powers, and to induce prophetic dream-visions.
Bayberry: Attract money and also burned for protection, happiness and control
Benzoin: Purification, astral projection, clears negative energy, emotional balance, eases sadness, depression, weariness, grief, anger, anxiety and to attract prosperity
Bergamot: Money, prosperity, uplifting of spirits, joy, protection, concentration, alertness, confidence, balance, strength, courage, motivation and assertiveness
Bistort: Burned often with frankincense as a powerful incense to aid divination.
Bracken: Burned in outdoor fires to magickally produce rain.
Cardamom: Mental clarity, concentration, confidence, courage, enthusiasm and motivation
Carnation: protection, strength, healing, love and lust
Cedar: Purification, to stimulate or strengthen the psychic powers, attract love, prevent nightmares, and heal various ailments, including head colds.
Cedarwood: Healing, purification, protection, money, balance, grounding, clarity, insight and wisdom
Chamomile: Harmony, peace, calm, spiritual and inner peace
Cinnamon: Protection and to attract money, wealth, prosperity, business success, stimulate or strengthen the psychic powers, and aid in healing. Also burned for stimulation, strength and lust
Citron: Burned in rituals to aid healing and also to strengthen the psychic powers.
Citronella: Cleansing, warding off, healing and exorcism
Clove: Dispel negativity, purify sacred and magickal spaces, attract money, and stop or prevent the spread of gossip. Also burn for pain relief, intellectual stimulation, business success, wealth, prosperity, divination, exorcism, protection, eases fears, improves memory and focus
Coconut: Protection
Copal: Purification, uplifting spirits, protection, exorcism, spirituality and to attract love.
Cypress: Strength, comfort, healing, eases anxiety, stress, self-assurance, confidence, physical vitality, willpower and concentration
Damiana: Facilitate psychic visions.
Dittany of Crete: Conjure spirits and to aid in divination, astral projection, especially when mixed with equal parts of benzoin, sandalwood, and vanilla.
Dragon's Blood: Dispel negativity, exorcise evil supernatural entities, courage, purification, attract love, and restore male potency. Many Witches also burn dragon's blood for protection when spell casting and invoking. When added to other incenses, dragon's blood makes their magickal powers all the stronger.
Elecampane: Strengthen the clairvoyant powers and scrying abilities-divination by gazing.
Eucalyptus: Healing, purification and protection
Fern: Burned in outdoor fires to magickally produce rain. Also used to exorcise evil supernatural entities.
Frankincense: Dispel negativity, spirituality, purify magickal spaces, consecration, protect against evil, exorcism, aid meditation, astral strength, induce psychic visions, courage, protection, attract good luck, and honor Pagan deities.
Fumitory: Exorcise demons, poltergeists, and evil supernatural entities.
Galangal: Break the curses cast by sorcerers.
Gardenia: Peace, love and healing
Ginger: Wealth, lust, love and magical power
Ginseng root: keep wicked spirits at bay, and for protection against all forms of evil.
Gotu Kola: Burned to aid meditation.
Heather: Conjure beneficial spirits, and to magickally produce rain.
Hibiscus Flowers: Attract love, lust and also for divination.
Honey Suckle: Attract money, happiness, friendship and healing
Horehound: Burned as an offertory incense to the ancient Egyptian god Horus.
Hyacinth: Happiness and protection
Jasmine: Attract love and money, and also to induce dreams of a prophectic nature, purification, wisdom and astral projection
Juniper: stimulate or increase the psychic powers, and also to break curses, exorcism and hexes cast by evil sorcerers. It is also burned for calming, protection and healing.
Lavender: Induce rest and sleep, and to attract love-especially of a man. Also burned for cleansing, healing, happiness and relaxation
Lemon: Healing, love and purification
Lemongrass: Mental clarity
Lilac: Stimulate or increase the psychic powers, and to attract harmony into ones life.
Lotus: Elevate mood, protection, spirituality, healing and meditation
Mace: Stimulate or increase the psychic powers.
Mastic: Conjure beneficial spirits, stimulate or increase the psychic powers, and intensify sexual desires. The magickal powers of other incenses are greatly increased when a bit of mastic is added.
Mesquite: Magickal powers of all healing incenses are greatly increased when mesquite is added
Mint: Increase sexual desire, exorcise evil supernatural entities, conjure beneficial spirits, and attract money. Mint incense also possesses strong healing vibrations and protective powers.
Musk: Aphrodisiac, prosperity, courage
Myrrh: Burned (often with frankincense) for purification, consecration, healing, exorcism, and banishing evil. Myrrh is also aids meditation rituals, and was commonly burned on alters in ancient Egypt as an offering to deities Isis and Ra.
Nutmeg: Aid meditation, stimulate or increase the psychic powers, and to attract prosperity.
Oakmoss: Money and attraction
Orange: Divination, love, luck and money
Patchouli: Attract money, love, growth, mastery, sensuality and also to promote fertility.
Peppermint: Energy, mental stimulant, exorcism and healing
Pine: Purification, and to banish negative energies, exorcise evil supernatural entities, and attract money, as well as to break hexes and return them to their senders. Also burned for grounding, strength, cleansing and healing
Poppy seeds: Promote female fertility, and to attract love, good luck, and money.
Rose: Increase courage, induce prophetic dreams, house blessing, fertility, healing and attract love. Rose incense is used in all forms of love enchantment and possesses the strongest love vibration of any magickal incense.
Rose Geranium: Courage and protection
Rosemary: Purify, aid in healing, prevent nightmares, preserve youthfulness, dispel depression, attract fairy folk, and promote restful sleep and pleasant dreams.
Rue: Help restore health.
Sage: Protection against all forms of evil. It is also burned to purify sacred spaces and ritual tools. Plus it is great for promoting wisdom, clarity, attract money, and aid in the healing the body, mind, and soul.
Sage Brush: Aid healing, and to banish negative energies and evil supernatural entities.
Sandalwood: Exorcise demons and evil ghosts, conjure beneficial spirits, and promote spiritual awareness. Sandalwood incense is also used by many Witches for protection, astral projection, healing rituals and in wish-magick.
Solomon's Seal: Mainly as an offertory incense to ancient Pagan deities
Star Anise Seeds: Stimulate or increase the psychic powers
Strawberry: Attract love and for luck.
Sweetgrass: Conjure beneficial spirits prior to spell casting.
Sweet pea: Friendship, love and courage
Thyme: Purification of magickal spaces prior to rituals, to aid in healing, and to attract good health.
Vanilla: Attract love, increase sexual desire, and improve the powers of the mind.
Vervain: Exorcise evil supernatural entities.
Vetivert: Break curses, exorcism, for protection against black magick and thieves, money, peace and love.
Violet: Break curses, exorcism, for protection against black magick and thieves, money, peace and love.
Willow: Avert evil, attract love, and promote healing. It is also used by many Witches as an offertory incense for Pagan lunar deities.
Wisteria: Protection against all forms of evil.
Wormwood: Protection against all forms of evil.
Yarrow: Courage, exorcism
Ylang Ylang: Love, harmony and euphoria