What It's Like Adding A New F/o To Your List:

yes i got s/a'd

no i did NOT get raped

no you shouldn't think less of me as a victim just for that

you know i would rather trust an adult proshipper with "disgusting" and "weird" kinks who clearly knows the difference between fiction and reality and not allowing minors to interact with them than an adult antis who stalks minors with rape and death threats because of fictional characters

is your username hnk phos or something else

i dont know them :( is just a combination of phosphorescent and anomaly!!

Hey sorry for asking this but you don't have to answer

What's radqueer supposed to mean?

Google wasn't particularly helpful

-syder

radqueers are hard to describe, so lets start with "a subsect of the MOGAI community". "radical queers" on paper does seem like a good idea. theyre pro-queer, pro-para, pro-endo, pro-good faith identities, and so far, all that sounds great, and you and i probably are also both pro these things.

until you get to the part where many radqueers fully believe children and animals can consent ("pro-contact radqueers"), as well as support harmful transitioning (i.e. RCTA/transrace/trace where people want to transition to a different race from their bodies) and just awful transid stuff in general (stuff like transautism where someone allistic wants to transition to having autism)

they also have a HUGE problem with ignoring dnis. radqueers WILL interact with anti radqueers as if its their god given fucking duty. so as a reminder to any radqueers who read this and think its a bright idea to send me an ask

anyways cheers i love answering asks idm at all

DO 👏 NOT 👏 LET 👏 ANTISHIPPERS 👏 SCARE 👏 YOU!!!!!

don't stop doing what you love because of them. don't abandon and repress yourself because of them. don't stop trying to heal yourself because of them. don't stop posting what you want because of them. don't live in fear because of them. don't stop having fun because of them!!

a cornerstone of antishipping is using fear and empty threats to control others and keep them from exploring "distasteful" or "censor-worthy" content through fiction. if you give up and stop expressing yourself, they win!! they get what they want!! they get to censor creations without having to fight for it!!

building the courage to be open about your beliefs and to fully accept yourself as anti-censorship/pro-fiction can take time, and it's hard!! but i promise you it's worth it. a Lot of "antishippers" i've been close to in the past have been closet proshippers, masquerading as antis online to avoid harassment. if, today, everyone dropped the façade, the anti-fiction community have soo much less power!!

while most antis are just entitled children caught up in groupthink & "brave" in their anonymity, should a situation arise with real threats of harm, REPORT IT TO THE AUTHORITIES!! check the laws on harassment, illegal threats, cyberbullying, etc in your area – if you feel there's reason to be genuinely, personally worried about your safety, there's a good chance whatever is happening is illegal!! you can report illegal threats, harassment, defamation, whatever might fit the bill in a more serious situation!! (and whether what's happening is illegal or not, there's a community here that's got your back :3 <3)

anyways!!! point of the post is DO 👏 NOT 👏 CAVE 👏 TO 👏 CENSORSHIP 👏

my boyfriend cookie 💋

The selfship experience

"that ship is a crime"

"liking that character is illegal"

hey, so which law is that again

oh hey, theres no law for those

why is that?

oh yeah

fiction... Isn't real life?

ok captain joel