You are allowed to get giddy from seeing your F/O(s). You are allowed to gush about their little features. You are allowed to comment on what feature(s) you love about them. Your love for them is important & valued by them :)
A coloring book is not CSAM you can't abuse a fucking drawing in a coloring book. It Waters down the meaning of CSAM/CSEM when you include fiction into the meaning and I find it appalling and degrading that other survivors could say that a coloring book is sexually abusive stop comparing drawings to actual children
I hate the idea of a world where you canāt draw or write certain things without being treated like you deserve to die.
Even if itās āromanticizedā, āfetishizedā, whatever. I think you should just be able to make whatever you want as long as itās fiction, and if itās not obvious that bad things are bad, literally just put a disclaimer.
Itās making me really sad to see the spread of antis, tbh, especially since I bet a huge portion of them are actually interested in some dark fiction themselves, but wonāt admit it. Itās just really depressing and idk what to do, since weāre all treated like sex offenders, even the ones who donāt even create dark fiction.
Hey sorry for asking this but you don't have to answer
What's radqueer supposed to mean?
Google wasn't particularly helpful
-syder
radqueers are hard to describe, so lets start with "a subsect of the MOGAI community". "radical queers" on paper does seem like a good idea. theyre pro-queer, pro-para, pro-endo, pro-good faith identities, and so far, all that sounds great, and you and i probably are also both pro these things.
until you get to the part where many radqueers fully believe children and animals can consent ("pro-contact radqueers"), as well as support harmful transitioning (i.e. RCTA/transrace/trace where people want to transition to a different race from their bodies) and just awful transid stuff in general (stuff like transautism where someone allistic wants to transition to having autism)
they also have a HUGE problem with ignoring dnis. radqueers WILL interact with anti radqueers as if its their god given fucking duty. so as a reminder to any radqueers who read this and think its a bright idea to send me an ask
anyways cheers i love answering asks idm at all
wait. imagine your f/o sitting on your lap while you play video games
or vice versa, imagine sitting on your f/os lap while they play video games
i mean, fuck, i like shotas, i like lolis, i like incest, i like toxic yaoi, i like darkship shit
why does proselfship community loves this sm
aging your self insert down >>>>>>
DO š NOT š LET š ANTISHIPPERS š SCARE š YOU!!!!!
don't stop doing what you love because of them. don't abandon and repress yourself because of them. don't stop trying to heal yourself because of them. don't stop posting what you want because of them. don't live in fear because of them. don't stop having fun because of them!!
a cornerstone of antishipping is using fear and empty threats to control others and keep them from exploring "distasteful" or "censor-worthy" content through fiction. if you give up and stop expressing yourself, they win!! they get what they want!! they get to censor creations without having to fight for it!!
building the courage to be open about your beliefs and to fully accept yourself as anti-censorship/pro-fiction can take time, and it's hard!! but i promise you it's worth it. a Lot of "antishippers" i've been close to in the past have been closet proshippers, masquerading as antis online to avoid harassment. if, today, everyone dropped the faƧade, the anti-fiction community have soo much less power!!
while most antis are just entitled children caught up in groupthink & "brave" in their anonymity, should a situation arise with real threats of harm, REPORT IT TO THE AUTHORITIES!! check the laws on harassment, illegal threats, cyberbullying, etc in your area ā if you feel there's reason to be genuinely, personally worried about your safety, there's a good chance whatever is happening is illegal!! you can report illegal threats, harassment, defamation, whatever might fit the bill in a more serious situation!! (and whether what's happening is illegal or not, there's a community here that's got your back :3 <3)
anyways!!! point of the post is DO š NOT š CAVE š TO š CENSORSHIP š
Acknowledging that ācritical thinkingā means āthinking about things in a thorough way from different perspectivesā and not āfinding every flaw in a thing and fixating on it until all the joy is goneā is so liberating.
Itās supposed to be about intellectual curiosity, not about finding ways to devalue things that arenāt perfect or that we personally dislike.
call me eden/kair . 5teen . he / it / neos . proship/darkshipper . anti radqueer . latino esp/eng OK!
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