Literally part of the plot of His Dark Materials season 2
my other controversial take for the day is that anger, sadness, shame and fear are seen as inherently negative emotions and because of that the second you express them you are deemed as 'not good' because of experiencing the full breadth of the human experience. so instead of not experiencing these feelings (impossible challenge) everyone just hides them and we develop weirder and weirder complexes about them until we wind up finding new ways to psychologically torment each other.
you've got to learn how to express these feelings, earnestly, when to express them and how to process them yourself. you are going to make mistakes in doing so. but simply denying you have them or WORSE, denying yourself the experience of them by bottling them away... there is no crueler fate and you will never understand why you keep hurting yourself and others regardless.
“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”
— Alexander den Heijer
tiktoks like these crack me up because they look so cute and the comments are full of people tagging their partners but like these fish are FIGHTING
they are PISSED at each other and the only weapons they have are their teeny tiny fishy teeth
#I cannot hate myself into a version of me I will love is so true and beautifuuul
i cannot hate myself into a version of me i will love.
so there's a new fish (Branchiostegus sanae). it's named after San from Princess Mononoke because of its cheek stripes and I'm in love with the picture they used to illustrate this:
San looking lovingly at this fish while it is giving me the worst side eye imaginable.
also:
perhaps?
Sea animals, hopepunk, fantasy, queerness, and a bit of philosophy
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