I Might Not Be Into RPF But... RPF Or Not... Are There Any B'z Fans Here? I Feel Like I'm The Only One

i HATE it when antis join fandoms for shows that are like, explicitly proship.

The Owl Houses main message is all about being anti harasment and being authentic to yourself (THE FIRST EPISODE INCLUDED SOMEONE SHIPPING WEIRD SHIT AND TALKED ABOUT HOW THEY SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO DO THAT COME ON) and the creator is anti-censorship! but the fandom is absolutely crawling with antis

Mouthwashing depicts the same dark topics antis will tell proshippers to kill themselves over depicting and its creator is anti-harasment but the fandom is still crawling with antis!

Gravity Falls main message is , once again, about being authentic to yourself and being anti-harasment, the creator himself does not give a flying fuck about what people ship and shares the same sentiment of fiction not being reality, the creator is also anti-censorship, the show/books depict the same content that proshippers get attacked for on the daily through billford and their dynamic, but the fandom is absolutely infested with antis!

it just pisses me off so much! its like they suddenly forget all about their 'morals' the moment a piece of media gets popular! sorry if this doesn't make much sense its just really grinding my gears.

It's wild how antishippers see explicitly proship fandoms and flock to it. They very obviously aren't welcome.

Granted, they're crawling around AO3 despite it being designed to bypass censorship soooooo.

"but other people can still selfship with [your F/O], they're not yours!"

actually yes they are and they belong to you alone hope this helps

if you have a younger f/o, imagine them asking you to pick them up, their little hands trying to reach for yours. when you eventually pick them up, you spin them around, leaving you both giggling in a dizzy state afterwards!

Fleshing Out Your Selfships!

PRE-RELATIONSHIP

How did they first meet?

What was their first impression of each other?

Did any of their friends or family want them to get together?

Who felt romantic feelings first?

Did either of them try to resist their feelings?

If you had told one of them that the other would be their soulmate, what would they think?

What would their lives be like if they had never met?

GENERAL

Who initiated the relationship, and how did it go?

Did they have an official first date? If so, what was it like?

What was their first kiss like?

Were they each other’s first anything (kiss, relationship, etc.)?

What’s their height difference? Age difference?

What’s their relationship with each other’s families?

Who takes the lead in social situations?

Who gets jealous easier?

Who whispers inappropriate things in the other’s ear?

LOVE

Who said “I love you” first?

What are their primary love languages?

Who uses cheesy pick-up lines?

How often do they cuddle/engage in PDA?

Who initiates kisses?

Who’s the big and little spoon?

What are their favorite things to do together?

Who’s better at comforting the other?

Who’s more protective?

Do they prefer verbal or physical affection?

What are some songs that apply to their relationship, in-universe or otherwise?

What kind of nicknames do they call each other?

Who remembers the little things?

DOMESTIC LIFE

If they get married, who proposes?

What’s the wedding like? Who attends?

How many kids do they have, if any? What are they like?

Do they have any pets?

Who’s the stricter parent?

Who worries the most?

Who kills the bugs in the house?

How do they celebrate holidays?

Who’s more likely to convince the other to come back to sleep in the morning?

Who’s the better cook?

Who likes to dance?

(stolen from hatorishimaselfships who took it from a proshipper who took it from an anti)

i always see older man obsessed with young boy/girl but personally ive always loved younger boy obsessed with older girl where hes constantly trying to get with her whiles shes very uncomfortable with it

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a pair of siblings a day keeps the depression away ♡

(i really ship them and take this as something romantic. but if you don't, it's totally fine!! i think their bond works in any form possible, whether it is fraternal, platonic or romantic).

Alessi x Mariah (both from Jojo's Bizarre Adventure: Stardust Crusaders) moodboard with older man x younger woman themes

Tagged by: no one, but joined from @ofironandivory

Esper Esper (エスパーエスパー) by Nayutalien

Gotchu! (ガッチュー！) by Giga-P

Velonica by Aqua Timez

Moonlight Legend by DALI

Flight of the Bamboo Cutter ~ Lunatic Princess (from Touhou: Imperishable Night OST)

Hello/How Are You (ハロ／ハワユ) by Nanou

Binomi by Maretu

Taiyo no Komachi Angel by B'z

Third Eye Tango (三つ目のタンゴ) by Akatsuki Records

Lonely in Gorgeous by Tommyfebruary6

tagging: anyone who wants to participate (too shy to tag)

Got tagged by @merotica! 💚

The rules are simple: take your "on repeat" playlist (im using spotify), shuffle it, then take the first ten songs and place them here!

1. CRUSH by Yellow Claw, Natte Visstick, RHYME

2. Black Sky by Azulo, Zentryc

3. Peacefield by Ghost

4. Like You Mean It by Steven Rodriguez

5. PASSO BEM SOLTO by ATLXS

6. Rolla Coaster by Idris Elba

7. Grime Pt.1 by Witchz

8. Father Figure by George Michael

9. The Rebel Path by P.T. Adamczyk

10. Don't Call Tonight by Lady Gaga

Tagging (no pressure!): @toxic-fandomite @gayassassinscreed @bubbly-gay-jellyfish @evil-2-the-core @hughjidiot @very-pleasant-guest and everybody who wants to join in! 🐸

Hey gentle reminder that you can ignore those "Reblog! If you don't you're [extremely upsetting label here]" posts. You should ignore them, btw. You don't suddenly become a racist because you ignored someone trying to farm interaction, you don't become homophobic because you felt bad about exposing your followers and friends to that, you don't become a bigot because of other people trying to guilt trip you.

If you're not purposely causing harm to minority groups or hold bigoted beliefs, you don't suddenly become a bigot because you ignored someone being an ass. You're allowed to ignore guilt tripping messages and if someone gets irritated at you for ignoring them, tell them to get a grip. 🫂

Likewise, you're allowed to ignore:

Guilt tripping spam asks.

Scam asks.

"Reblog if your account is [group] safe!" posts

"If you don't reblog, I'm going to assume you're a [insert term here]" posts

"People are dying, you can spare some time to reblog" posts

Posts that show actual pictures of real life tragedy with the intent of hoping you spread it across the platform.

"How dare you donate to Ao3/Wikipedia when there's [insert other tragedies here] going on!" posts

Posts that imply that you shouldn't have a safe space and that it's cruel to have your account be a safe space.

Posts that say you shouldn't be happy while there's tragedies going on in the real world.

At the end of the day, 90% of those posts use the "other people have it worse" mindset and that ISN'T HEALTHY. You don't tell someone that's happy they aren't allowed to be happy because someone else is happier than them at the moment, so don't do it for pain and suffering.

Anyway, I suggest you block the people that make guilt tripping posts. Better for your mindset in the long run and people need to realize they can get their point across without triggering people's OCD/thought spirals.

looking for Jojo's Bizarre Adventure fans.

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