@zombholic Is This What’s Happening Rn???

CALL EM OUT 🗣️ LET US BE SAFE

okay, i have a few messages on here so this is what i'll say.

there have been a few instances in this fandom, specifically writers for ellie/tlou, in which i have felt uncomfortable. these have ranged from being overtly sexual with someone who isn't comfortable with it, to just plain rumors, gossiping and bitchiness. however, in a recent event there have been clear displays of abusive behavior perpetrated by one person but expanded by others and others i use to call friends.

i have mentioned this multiple times before but i was in a pretty abusive relationship and years after that i can spot that out, even when it was subtle. becoming friends with a person you don't immediately assume the worst of them, but as things seep in you start to notice things. at the end of the day, finding out a friend lied about a situation sucks. but when you look at it deeper it sucks for a whole other reason.

there's a common tactic abusers do and they do it subconsciously. it's called DARVO which is Deny the behavior, Attack the confronter, and Reverse the roles of the Victim and Offender. this is very easy to fall into and believe but i vowed when it happened to me, to never take one persons side without understanding others perspectives of it. in doing this and finding out the chunks this person left out, me and others were alienated for doing so, calling us "untrustworthy" and guilting us into feeling bad about the situation when in reality a persons real actions simply came to light.

this post is made because some of the people know who they are and what they said, being silent and following along makes you complicit to that persons actions. i do think it's gross.

additionally, if your bad behavior gets called out and you immediately discuss hurting yourself/falling back into a previous bad behavior, you are engaging in an abusive behavior. no one should feel like they can't call you out on your bad behavior because you might harm yourself.

if anyone wants me to speak any further on signs of this, how to not engage in abusive behavior and how to go about it if you feel a friend might be engaging in these behaviors, i will be happy to speak on it again.

tagging this under the ellie tag because i stopped being mutuals with most in this tag, and primarily pertains to them.

raise your hand if you agree: ripley is so hot in the movie "alien"

Literally me

guys im so weak and fragile (abby is looking) 🤭

Do you ever look at a girl's hands and think yes

I’m that fat girl 💋💕

every time a fat girl wears a shirt that shows her belly an angel gets their wings reblog if you agree

if you're continuing to write about tlou during the strike, SHAME ON YOU. neil is a zionist. tlou2 is directly references the israel-hamas conflict. since you low lives continue to support the games during the genocide that's currently happening in palestine, i beg of you to pay attention to the WLF-scar conflict in the games and think about that for a bit. playing the remaster is supporting genocide. you're all so fucked up for continuing to share the game, just blatantly exposing yourself as someone who bought it? children are dying in gaza. people have to collect rain water to drink and are forced to pull their loved ones dead bodies out of rubble every day. if you can't bring yourself to not write about pixels for a hot minute then i advise you get some actual help.

STOP WRITING ABOUT TLOU.

DONATE TO CHARITIES.

DEMAND A CEASEFIRE.

from the river to the sea, PALESTINE WILL BE FREE! 🍉

Watching season 2 of Heartstopper makes me love Tao’s mom. She’s so supportive about Elle and Tao being a thing and has BEEN waiting for the day they got together. And she goes on about how the family has been waiting too and wants to tell them. I love his mom 🫶😭💖

I want nothing more than to have a woman come into where I work and have a cafe romance with me.

i would literally still hit it cannot even lie to yoy