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The growing problem of "they" for trans people

Something I've noticed growing more common in my life recently has been people using exclusively "they" when referring to binary trans people who don't use "they"

Why is this a problem?

Using "they" when referring to someone when you don't know is seen as "better" in a lot of spaces now, which I can agree with as you don't know what their actual pronouns are. The problem I've noticed is that when meeting a trans person, a lot of people seem to default to "they" even after being told what pronouns they actually prefer. This can be for a lot of reasons, but the most common ones I hear are "I didn't want to assume" and "its not misgendering, they is neutral!"

Example situation

Person A meets person B, a trans woman. A doesn't know B's pronouns and so refers to B as "they." B corrects A, saying she prefers "she," but A continues to say "they" because its gender neutral. However, A does not do the same to cis women.

Do you see the problem now?

The use of exclusively "they" on trans people but not cis people, no matter your excuse, shows that you don't really see them as what they identify as and is quite transphobic since you're literally ignoring their identity and not seeing them as how they want to be seen.

"Okay, what should I do?"

Simple, just ask them their pronouns and then ACTUALLY USE THEM!! If he says he, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If she says she, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If they say they, well. yeah, use they, obviously. If xe say neopronouns and you don't know how to use those, just ask! If any part of someone's identity confuses you, just fucking ask them instead of assuming, for the love of god, and once they tell you, don't ignore what they said.

That's all. Just please stop calling people who don't use "they" by that.

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every waking minute i think about the five horsemen of the apocalypse. war, pestilence, famine, death, and scooter

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My conservative family members seeing me taking up embroidery:

One week later when I post the finished project:

Absolutely, nothing wrong with that

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Dipper Pines: "When life gives you lemons, extract the juice and use it to draw a treasure map in invisible ink. That really works! Seriously!"

Mabel Pines: "When life gives you lemons, draw faces on those lemons and wrap them in a blanket. Ta-daaa! Now you have lemon babies."

Stan Pines: "When life gives you lemons, call them 'yellow oranges' and sell them for double the price."

Ford Pines: "When life gives you lemons, don't make lemonade! Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! I don't want your damn lemons; what am I supposed to do with these? Demand to see life's manager! Make life rue the day it thought it could give Stanford Pines lemons! Do you know who I am? I'm the man who's gonna burn your house down... with the lemons! I'm gonna get my engineers to invent a combustible lemon that burns your house down!"

That’s understandable, i didn’t know she was a legendary, but i have mixed feelings about them myself. They’re cool but… odd. Sometimes really pretty though!

Hey, have you ever met or heard of “♀ .” ?

She’s a really cool pokemon that’s over 80 feet tall, but she tends to cause paralysis by her presence alone. I think she’s a really pretty mon!

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I WAS NEVER A FAN OF THE GLITCH CITY LEGENDARIES.

I didn’t know Inscryption was still popular!!! I actually made my own scrybe oc back in 2022, a scrybe of space! (And also just the cosmos in general) I’d love to hear more about this oc!

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