They’re Really Pretty! They Look Like A Silly Friend (:

my mom didn’t raise a quitter. she raised a perfectionist who’s so afraid of failing they don’t start anything to begin with

PRETTYYYYYYYY

Discord doodles :>

Eat up besties 💚

Kermit for pope

I was trying to find out if Kermit was eligible to be pope and I found a blog that says he's the perfect example of a catholic priest

Discord doodles :>

Eat up besties 💚

I didn’t know Inscryption was still popular!!! I actually made my own scrybe oc back in 2022, a scrybe of space! (And also just the cosmos in general) I’d love to hear more about this oc!

ive been on that old man grind lately,,, stinky old man . . . <3

i can’t afford art block today, please great duck

DONT LIKE, REBLOG

so people who do this may see it.

The growing problem of "they" for trans people

Something I've noticed growing more common in my life recently has been people using exclusively "they" when referring to binary trans people who don't use "they"

Why is this a problem?

Using "they" when referring to someone when you don't know is seen as "better" in a lot of spaces now, which I can agree with as you don't know what their actual pronouns are. The problem I've noticed is that when meeting a trans person, a lot of people seem to default to "they" even after being told what pronouns they actually prefer. This can be for a lot of reasons, but the most common ones I hear are "I didn't want to assume" and "its not misgendering, they is neutral!"

Example situation

Person A meets person B, a trans woman. A doesn't know B's pronouns and so refers to B as "they." B corrects A, saying she prefers "she," but A continues to say "they" because its gender neutral. However, A does not do the same to cis women.

Do you see the problem now?

The use of exclusively "they" on trans people but not cis people, no matter your excuse, shows that you don't really see them as what they identify as and is quite transphobic since you're literally ignoring their identity and not seeing them as how they want to be seen.

"Okay, what should I do?"

Simple, just ask them their pronouns and then ACTUALLY USE THEM!! If he says he, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If she says she, DONT USE EXCLUSIVELY THEY! If they say they, well. yeah, use they, obviously. If xe say neopronouns and you don't know how to use those, just ask! If any part of someone's identity confuses you, just fucking ask them instead of assuming, for the love of god, and once they tell you, don't ignore what they said.

That's all. Just please stop calling people who don't use "they" by that.

FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS

baba, what is your favorite sandwich?

SANDWICH IS BACON AND LETTUCE

SANDWICH IS NOT TOMATO

So I’ve started reading the Naruto manga, and i don’t care if the nine tails is like. A bad influence or something, but this is how I’ll always see Naruto, he’s just like an irl fox

He’s just a silly lil guy

Anyways, happy birthday Naruto uzumaki

i love this so much, it’s adorable (the one napping on the shelf is my Kally!)

Today is wet beast Wednesday. And in honor of Cult of the Lamb's very own Kallamar. I give you

The KALLI PILE!! Squishy

((Featuring the Kallamars of @loujestrous325

@lordiedams

@ame-lithen-ca

@tincannister

@citrenecult

@lunity-moonity

@ask-sozo

@poppy-purpura

And several others I can't find your tumblr blogs of, I'll send em directly to you so you can see it!!))