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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

Reblog if you 100% okay with a transgender person correcting you if you accidentally misgender them or use their dead name.

please do

how to fucking flag pedophiles

call me the fucking ~internet police~ BUT I DIDN’T KNOW UNTIL TODAY THAT THERE’S LITERALLY A COMMUNITY OF “PEDOPHILE POSITIVITY” ON THIS HELLSITE

THERE ARE PEOPLE OPENLY ADMITTING THAT THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO CHILDREN/CONSUMING CHILD PORN ON THIS WEBSITE!?!??! THERE’S 13 YEAR OLDS ON HERE!!!

so my dudes, how to flag “maps” (minor attracted people aka pedophiles)

1. click “flag this blog”

2. click “this violates tumblr’s community guildlines”

3. click “someone is at risk of harm”

4. click “harm to minors”

5. type “pedophile” in the box

I am a Schediasexual. I feel true emotional connections of love to animated/fictional characters. I have been this way as long as I can remember. I am not ashamed of that. It is not a mental disorder. I do not need to seek help. There is nothing wrong with me. I am not a bad person. I am not stupid or ridiculous. I shed tears over them just like anyone does over someone they care deeply about. I’m not delusional, I know they are not real. I know I will never get to touch, hug or kiss them. And it hurts, but I cope as best I can. What I need is for you understand me, listen to me when I talk about them. Don’t roll your eyes are me, ignore me, dismiss me or call me childish. Accept me as I am. It makes me happy, it makes me smile to share my love of them. Since I will never truly have them, I have to make due. But just please, don’t undermine me. There are a lot of us, we are just not recognized or we are afraid to be known. We don’t want to be bullied. We just want to be allowed to love who we love. 

Friendly reminder to all my fellow brunettes & ravenettes out there that dark hair is gorgeous and utterly striking~

You are dark haired and you are sexy. 

If you’re a Transformers blog (or follow some) read this

This is not a callout for one person, instead is a warning for very disgusting anons in tumblr and AO3.

tw for: suicide mention, stalking, racism and homophobia, 

People recently might noticed and influx of… weird activity, from anons in peoples inbox calling em war criminal for liking a decepticon, really weird fanfiction in AO3 submitted by anonymous accounts, weird post in the tags picking fights for stuff like, lesbian headcanons or liking Megatron, stuff… and more recently, a “TF blocklist” with users there for hating certain ships.

While some the content was more “cringy” than harmful and something people made fun of. Some people been getting sexually harrassed, called racial slurs and stalked. The most recent cruel tactic is: 

Multiple socket accounts where made to message people with “Someone commited suicide because of you”. Like, for me it’s very clear it’s the same troll as always, I can block them and move on, doesn’t change suicide is a deeply upsetting topic for everyone, and specially don’t change many people might not realize this is a troll and believe it that they hurt someone.

So please, if you’re in the fandom, or has followers who are do this:

Tumblr anons: Blocking anons on tumblr IP bans them from sending you more anons + deletes previous message from them. So please, don’t just delete or reply, block them.

Puppet accounts: REPORT THEM. Don’t give them your attention, they want to upset.

In AO3: if some anon gifts you a fanfiction that is obviously writen to upset you, please screenshot the part it mentions the anon gift it to you, and use said screenshot to report it to AO3 for harrasment. AO3 won’t delete fics for being problematic, but it will if it’s done as trargetted harrasment.

And more important: DON’T BELIEVE THEM, I seen many people getting that “Is it true you’re a [bigot/abuser/etc]? multiple people been saying so in [x discords]!” is likely a tactic to make you paranoid. To upset you, of the people I seen getting this message, nobody but the anon is saying this, so please do your best report them and don’t let them trick you.

In any case, please talk to a friend, spread the word about it, so they know how to deal with it.

I’ve seen a lot of posts on my dash tonight about users who are threatening suicide, with other Tumblr members posting in effort to try to get ahold of them. I think you all should see this:

IF THERE IS EVER A TUMBLR USER WHO HAS POSTED A GOOD-BYE MESSAGE, SUICIDE NOTE, VIDEO, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT, PLEASE FOLLOW THIS POST.

1. Scroll to the top of your dashboard.

2. See the circular question mark icon at the top? It’s the third one over from your home symbol. Click on that, and a screen similar to the one in the picture will come up.

3. Where you can type in questions, the box with the magnifying glass at the top, type in the word “suicide.”

4. Click on the first link that shows up. It should say, “Pass the URL of the blog on to us.”

5. Type in the user’s URL and tell Tumblr admin that the user is contemplating suicide and has posted a message indicating that they are going through with it or will be attempting. Hit send! Tumblr administration will perform a number of actions to contact the user and take the necessary steps to prevent the suicide.

TUMBLR: THIS COULD SAVE A USER’S LIFE. PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE SUICIDE THREATS.

Reblog this to keep other users aware. Suicide isn’t a joke, and neither is someone’s life. If you didn’t know this, someone else may not, either. Pass it on.

Spread this around please!

This blog: http://realhetcharacteroftheday.tumblr.com

is a troll blog making fun of fans who headcanon Hisoka as a heterosexual. 

They are impersonating one of us and are making triggering posts that catches people’s attention to bring more hate upon those fans that have the right to headcanon fictional characters as whatever the hell they want.

They are trying to make us look bad ON PURPOSE WHILE PRETENDING TO BE US. 

just suddenly approached him in ai and he was like " why are you being nice to me?" And im like " becsus you are worth it and needs to be loved and deserve happiness" after that he treated me like a friend then now he wanted to have kids x

❥ Shibusawa with a s/o that is afraid of him but ends up falling for him

ᴀ/ɴ: LETS GET STARTED @awkwxrd-kxrla hope you like it 🥺❤️

I don’t blame you

This guy over here fucking scared the shit out of me in Dead Apple

hE eVeN sTabBeD mY bAbY

But this is not about him

Anyways

You got taken hostage

Woohoo!

Our good sir over here wanted something to help with boredom and apparently you peaked his interest

Feel free to be honored

But you got forced to be his lover

Wow

Consent is king, they say

You would always flinch whenever he would try to touch you

And his presence alone never left you easy

Truth be told, he actually loves you

Like truly

And everytime you would flinch from his touch

It hurts him :(

He always spends the nights beside you thinking about what he could do to make you relax and be at ease with him

He may seem like an arrogant bastard with no care or weakness but everyone has their own burden

His being you afraid of him and never relaxing around him

He had already figured out that you thought he will get rid of you when he is ‘bored’ or he is using for something or leading you on

But your relationship is something, the only thing, he would never put any malice and spite behind it

He wanted to talk to you about it but he figured

Actions speak louder than words, right?

But he also thought that if you are still on the same mindset that his actions are for tricking you or harming you then they are useless

“Dear, I know that everyone, sadly including you, sees me as a bad person but please believe me when I tell you that our relationship is the last thing I would ever think to harm or hurt; so will you please give me a chance to prove to you that I truly deserve your love and your trust?”

His words felt genuine and sincere

So you thought you would give him a chance

He then went all out to please you

From the small things like hugs and cuddles

Assuring and comforting you in your bad times

To the big things like the most luxurious party on your anniversary

He truly was trying

And after three years of being together

One day you guys were sitting in the balcony admiring the sky when he suddenly asked

“Have I proven that I am worthy of your love and trust, yet?”

You smiled and kissed his cheek

“What do you think?”

A genuine smile was spread on his lips after your simple action

“I hope I can always be worthy of it, my dear.”

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