I Spent 2 Weeks On This And Then Realized I Have 1 Friend To Share It With

it/its pronouns are not inherently dehumanizing, unless the user wants them to be. it/its pronouns aren't weird. it/its pronouns aren't too hard to use. people who only use it/its pronouns need to have this be respected no matter what your beliefs are. you don't get to single out people with "weird" pronouns and misgender us and use incorrect pronouns. accept someone who uses it/its as you support someone who uses they/them. there's nothing wrong with it/its pronouns. respect its users.

Near The Sea 🐬🐚

For water witches who long to be home. Can be used by anyone to bring calmness and relaxation.

You will need:

🐚Big sea shell

🐚Sea salt

🐚Blue or ocean scented candle (can be sea spray, drift wood, etc.)

🐚Small sea shell

🐚Beach sand (optional)

🐚Ocean Jasper

🐚Pearl

🐚Sea water (optional)

In the large sea shell, combine the above mentioned ingredients and focus your intent into it. If you are using sea water, rub your candle with a drop or two as well. Visualize the waves crashing, hear the roar of the tide, smell the salt in the air. Charge your candle the same way. Light your candle and place both candle and spell shell next to your tub. Run a bath and add some sea salt. Take your bath and meditate on the ambience of the ocean. I personally play nature sounds of waves crashing, maybe a thunderstorm as well. Do this whenever you need to unwind and recharge. Let the 'ocean' take you away from reality for a while.

* I'm weird, but I like to visualize swimming around in the deep with all of the marine life. It gives it an extra boost, for me anyways.

Enjoy! 🐙🪼

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sorry yeah ive got a bad case of Thinking About My Friends. im afraid its incurable. symptoms include happiness and love and wishes that they will have the life they want to live.

house’s team looks like this

they/them is not an all-inclusive pronoun that you can use to refer to anyone just because it is gender neutral.

the very basic sentiment of "don't misgender people" seems to go over even the heads of trans people and cis people alike when it comes to they/them pronouns.

not everyone wants to be called they/them. if someone strictly uses she/her or he/him or she/he or neopronouns etc. anything that is not they/them.... using they/them would still be misgendering. in the same way calling someone who doesn't use any other pronoun that pronoun would be misgendering.

You don't get a free pass to call people whatever pronouns you want to call them rather than the pronouns they use just because they them is a gender neutral pronoun.

also not all nonbinary people use strictly they/them pronouns or they/them pronouns at all.

i feel like this is very simple yet is misunderstood by a lot of people

imagine ur a losing dog and ur like “well at least no one’s betting on me” and then Mitski shows up…

fucked up how colors look different depending on what screen you’re looking at them on. that should be illegal I think